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Hi Migs,

I am currently, i think, in an 8 year relationship with my partner. We met 2008 and been together since. We had a few bumps and bruises along the way, but never too serious to really end the relationship. I believe that we are stronger than these problems and trials. But this one that came up really is a hard one. We are in a sort of LDR, i work in the North area while he works in the Metro. We see each other at least twice a month. Communication is still constant, morning, lunch, dinner and before we sleep. Sometimes, there are the rare “how are you’s” during the day. Looks everything is okay. Then, he confessed to me that he received a hand job in a gay massage parlor recently. And honestly, i thought initially that it’s okay since it’s not as if they fucked (based on his story at least). But the more i think and access my feeling, i felt betrayed. Because he done something that only the two of us should do. It’s an intimate thing to do with a stranger, don’t you think? I just felt cheated. I don’t know if i can trust him. If i can still believe in the things that he will say.I know, this is so petty for some.

I do still love him. he’s my world. He’s my everything. He keeps me going. But now, i just don’t know anymore. Am I being too sensitive or petty with this, am i being to paranoid?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

More power!



What do you guys think? -migs

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Can’t believe it’s been 10 years. My first post was dated August 28, 2006. Grabe. 10 years and we’re still alive and kicking! CHEERS!

The male sensual massage demo happening on Saturday, July 30, 2016, will be provided by masseurs from Hoja de Laurel Spa. Masseurs doing the demo will be Brian (super galing), Hiro, Yael, Angelo, Yuri, and Kean (my favorite).

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Free and Anonymous HIV Screening

This is the very first time this will ever be offered in the Philippines. HIV screening where you do not need to fillout any form, or give your name. You will not be asked for any ID. Just be there. It is completely anonymous, and is offered free-of-charge by LoveYourself, the country’s leading non-governmental, community organization for HIV education and prevention.

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The month of May’s full moon is called FULL FLOWER MOON. Traditionally, flowers spring forth in abundance this month, and perhaps a perfect time too to start a blooming relationship. This month, the full moon will be on May 21, right on the same evening when we conduct the DATING DUDES event.

“Dating Dudes” is part of Love Yourself’s series of events where the goal is to have meaningful conversations, among guys of the same persuasion, on topics that are interesting, fun, and engaging. It is a by-invitation event, so if you or your friends are interested to join, please register at to receive an invite.

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