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Here’s a new indie movie — a love story which is incidentally gay. Mega hugot, “saksak puso” feels. Sa mga gustong mag-emote, lalo na sa mga nakaka-relate sa unrequited love, this movie is for you. A film by one of my fave directors – Bebs Gohetia. Starring Joross Gamboa, Prince Stefan, and CJ Reyes.

“Who do you choose? The one you love or the one who loves you?”

Experience a love that lasts on July 17, 2015, Friday, 8pm at the UP DILIMAN CINE ADARNA for a one-time screening of “I love you. Thank you.”

Tickets at P150.00. For reservations, text Aje (09168694288) your full name and quantity of tickets to be reserved.

Yesterday, July 12, 2015, I went for my HIV test at my usual place (Love Yourself Anglo).  It’s my routine to do it every 6 months. Even if I have gone through the test many times before, I never got rid of the anxiety, especially during that part when the counselor discusses with me the results. Medyo praning lang siguro. 

How about you? Have you gone for your HIV test? Kinakabahan ka rin ba when you go through your test?

Do you have a secret to share?

Share, and see them unfurl here. Go to

Jarell the gorgeous waiter

John the owner

Back in the days in Malate, the original cafe hangout prior to going to Joy, Mint, and Piggy’s is the first-ever Cafe Breton. It’s stylish, unique, and the food was light and delectable. Today, there’s a Breton counterpart right in the heart of Greenfield District and it’s called Le Miel. 

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A feast of Filipino cuties – see samples below and continue on to the fount of youth – hahaha!

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Hi Migs!

I know your blog generally tackles mostly LBGTQ issues and concerns. I am a heterosexual woman. Nonetheless, I felt that I could share this concern with you.

I thought of writing you because I fell in love with this male massage therapist whom I came across through your blog. Long story short, I saw your blogs about him and I got infatuated with him, so much so that I decided to get a massage from him.

The decision to get a massage from him was out-of-character to say the least because I am not entirely comfortable with the idea of having a masseur touch me, much less caress me, especially given that the massage the Spa offers is more than the usual massage I get from my regular spas.

When I finally got the massage, it was more than the usual routine. Without me asking for it, he gave me the “extra service” I only ever heard about from my gay friends. He was ever the gentleman and ensured my comfort all throughout.

After the massage, he started texting me. Given my infatuation, I entertained him. He eventually asked me out on a date. My friends, especially my gay friends, cautioned me against getting into something serious with him considering our circumstances. They warned me that there is always the danger of being made a sugar mommy and of the therapist taking advantage of me for material reasons. I told them that I am a big girl and I can handle it. I was wrong.

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I have a little secret. 

And it is this — nice guys? Go to Bangkok. Good looking guys? Go to Pampanga. Good looking nice guys? Go to Cebu. Yes, Cebu! And here’s one proof!

Presenting, 19-year-old James Gelbolingo Clapano. 


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Hi Sir Migs,

I am Ian, 27. I am not yet out of the closet. Matagal po bago ko tinanggap sa sarili ko na bi ako. I have attractions both to same and opposite sex.

Recently ko lang po na amin sa sarili ko na bi ako with my current scenario. Kahit nung bata pa lang ako, alam kung Im attracted and attached to boys din. Mahirap kasi I belong to a conservative family. Some people also look up to me with my achievements. Dahil nahihirapan na ako ng sobra, sinabihan ko ilan kong closest and trusted friends ko. Buti na lang natangap nila ako.

Attraction at pag ka in-love sa same sex ang nagparealize sa akin ng situation ko. Nung mga una, nakakalusot pa ako kasi nakakakuha ako distance sa tao. Feeling ko mawawala pa yung ganung attraction. Pero, itong current ata pinakamahirap kasi kasama ko sa trabaho yung tao. Araw araw kong nakikita. Mas bata siya sa akin. Mukhang inocente pero sporty. Weird lang kasi nung una, wala naman kasi siya sa akin. Nangyari lang, mukha nga naging close kami. Natutuwa akong kausap siya gaya ng tungkol sa pelikula at mga ideas. Di siya makwento ng buhay niya pero nakakapagshare siya sa akin. Sakanya rin ako minsan lumalabas ng sama ng loob. Nung una, ako pa yung naiinis sa kanya kasi parang dependent yung tao sa akin. Pakiramdam ko may kasama akong bata o babae. Magkatext pa kami minsan kahit di siya matext daw. Siya naman kasi nung una ang text ng text kaya naweweirduhan ako kahit nasa opisina kami. May mga tao nakapansin na close kami. May opinion rin sa kanya na baka lalake daw gusto nito. Di pa siya nagka girlfriend kahit may hitsura. Nung nakakaramdam na ako ng kakaiba, lumayo ako sa kanya. Natakot ako kasi sa sitwasyon namin. Di rin ako sigurado kung ano talaga siya. Naweweirduhan ako sa pagsasamahan namin.

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Dear Migs,

I just discovered your blog yesterday ang yet I’m already composing an email for you. Hope you and our friends there can help me.

I’m not into writing letters or expressing myself to anyone ever since. Kaya siguro ang laki ng pasasalamat ko sayo dahil sa 30years ng buhay ko ngaun ko lang maeexpress ung sarili ng totoo as in ako.

Ok, a little bout me. I’m almost at my 30s with a girlfriend and working in an IT/Bpo company and I’m from pateros. Alam ko na attracted ako sa older men/daddy looking men and still do not have plan to go out ever! Di ko gustong maging bakla/bi, gusto ko kasing magkaroon ng sarili kong pamilya. To cut my story short, can you help me reach out to our gay daddies to share their stories with me? Gusto ko malaman mga bagay bagay pag nandun na, kasi nagbabalak na kami magpakasal in 1 or 2 years from now. Thank you in advance.



hi migs,

to be honest i just started reading ur blog and i really hooked up about the letter i read about PLU people. ang dami palang problema ng mga tao dito i thought mas madaming problema ang economy and sa politics pero mas marami pala dito hahahah…

i just need an advice about my current situation. i have a boyfriend now and he is my third. we’ve been together since 2006 so meaning we just celebrated 9 years. sobrang attached na ako sa kanya na nung nagsama kami e masaya akong nakikita ang mukha nya sa umaga. sa totoo lang gwapo siya at muscular. everyone will get envy to me kasi ako chubby but cute. marami ang nagsasabi na derek ramsey siya from face to body na pinagtatakahan ko kasi sa dami ng tao e ako talaga ang napili.

we love to travel. almost naka 15 countries na kami from asean countries to australia. until we need to separate kasi financial problem. dahil sa bakasyon and enjoyment e nabaon kami sa utang and i need to sacrifice kasi ako ang may good opportunity to work abroad.

the experience without him by my side is really a struggle. umiiyak ako dahil sa work at sa sobrang miss ko sa kanya. nasanay ako na kasama siya for 9 years. kilala na siya ng pamilya ko at kilala ko ang pamilya nya. sa sobrang lungkot ko naka open ako ng application sa cellphone which is grindr.

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