A feast of Filipino cuties – see samples below and continue on to the fount of youth – hahaha!
I know your blog generally tackles mostly LBGTQ issues and concerns. I am a heterosexual woman. Nonetheless, I felt that I could share this concern with you.
I thought of writing you because I fell in love with this male massage therapist whom I came across through your blog. Long story short, I saw your blogs about him and I got infatuated with him, so much so that I decided to get a massage from him.
The decision to get a massage from him was out-of-character to say the least because I am not entirely comfortable with the idea of having a masseur touch me, much less caress me, especially given that the massage the Spa offers is more than the usual massage I get from my regular spas.
When I finally got the massage, it was more than the usual routine. Without me asking for it, he gave me the “extra service” I only ever heard about from my gay friends. He was ever the gentleman and ensured my comfort all throughout.
After the massage, he started texting me. Given my infatuation, I entertained him. He eventually asked me out on a date. My friends, especially my gay friends, cautioned me against getting into something serious with him considering our circumstances. They warned me that there is always the danger of being made a sugar mommy and of the therapist taking advantage of me for material reasons. I told them that I am a big girl and I can handle it. I was wrong.
I have a little secret.
And it is this — nice guys? Go to Bangkok. Good looking guys? Go to Pampanga. Good looking nice guys? Go to Cebu. Yes, Cebu! And here’s one proof!
Presenting, 19-year-old James Gelbolingo Clapano.
Hi Sir Migs,
I am Ian, 27. I am not yet out of the closet. Matagal po bago ko tinanggap sa sarili ko na bi ako. I have attractions both to same and opposite sex.
Recently ko lang po na amin sa sarili ko na bi ako with my current scenario. Kahit nung bata pa lang ako, alam kung Im attracted and attached to boys din. Mahirap kasi I belong to a conservative family. Some people also look up to me with my achievements. Dahil nahihirapan na ako ng sobra, sinabihan ko ilan kong closest and trusted friends ko. Buti na lang natangap nila ako.
Attraction at pag ka in-love sa same sex ang nagparealize sa akin ng situation ko. Nung mga una, nakakalusot pa ako kasi nakakakuha ako distance sa tao. Feeling ko mawawala pa yung ganung attraction. Pero, itong current ata pinakamahirap kasi kasama ko sa trabaho yung tao. Araw araw kong nakikita. Mas bata siya sa akin. Mukhang inocente pero sporty. Weird lang kasi nung una, wala naman kasi siya sa akin. Nangyari lang, mukha nga naging close kami. Natutuwa akong kausap siya gaya ng tungkol sa pelikula at mga ideas. Di siya makwento ng buhay niya pero nakakapagshare siya sa akin. Sakanya rin ako minsan lumalabas ng sama ng loob. Nung una, ako pa yung naiinis sa kanya kasi parang dependent yung tao sa akin. Pakiramdam ko may kasama akong bata o babae. Magkatext pa kami minsan kahit di siya matext daw. Siya naman kasi nung una ang text ng text kaya naweweirduhan ako kahit nasa opisina kami. May mga tao nakapansin na close kami. May opinion rin sa kanya na baka lalake daw gusto nito. Di pa siya nagka girlfriend kahit may hitsura. Nung nakakaramdam na ako ng kakaiba, lumayo ako sa kanya. Natakot ako kasi sa sitwasyon namin. Di rin ako sigurado kung ano talaga siya. Naweweirduhan ako sa pagsasamahan namin.
I just discovered your blog yesterday ang yet I’m already composing an email for you. Hope you and our friends there can help me.
I’m not into writing letters or expressing myself to anyone ever since. Kaya siguro ang laki ng pasasalamat ko sayo dahil sa 30years ng buhay ko ngaun ko lang maeexpress ung sarili ng totoo as in ako.
Ok, a little bout me. I’m almost at my 30s with a girlfriend and working in an IT/Bpo company and I’m from pateros. Alam ko na attracted ako sa older men/daddy looking men and still do not have plan to go out ever! Di ko gustong maging bakla/bi, gusto ko kasing magkaroon ng sarili kong pamilya. To cut my story short, can you help me reach out to our gay daddies to share their stories with me? Gusto ko malaman mga bagay bagay pag nandun na, kasi nagbabalak na kami magpakasal in 1 or 2 years from now. Thank you in advance.
to be honest i just started reading ur blog and i really hooked up about the letter i read about PLU people. ang dami palang problema ng mga tao dito i thought mas madaming problema ang economy and sa politics pero mas marami pala dito hahahah…
i just need an advice about my current situation. i have a boyfriend now and he is my third. we’ve been together since 2006 so meaning we just celebrated 9 years. sobrang attached na ako sa kanya na nung nagsama kami e masaya akong nakikita ang mukha nya sa umaga. sa totoo lang gwapo siya at muscular. everyone will get envy to me kasi ako chubby but cute. marami ang nagsasabi na derek ramsey siya from face to body na pinagtatakahan ko kasi sa dami ng tao e ako talaga ang napili.
we love to travel. almost naka 15 countries na kami from asean countries to australia. until we need to separate kasi financial problem. dahil sa bakasyon and enjoyment e nabaon kami sa utang and i need to sacrifice kasi ako ang may good opportunity to work abroad.
the experience without him by my side is really a struggle. umiiyak ako dahil sa work at sa sobrang miss ko sa kanya. nasanay ako na kasama siya for 9 years. kilala na siya ng pamilya ko at kilala ko ang pamilya nya. sa sobrang lungkot ko naka open ako ng application sa cellphone which is grindr.
I moved recently, from Manila to Mandaluyong. My house before was a quick ride away from Bayleaf Spa, so whenever I felt like I needed a backrub or a thorough body scrub, it was very convenient for me to enjoy Bayleaf’s services. Not anymore though, since I moved to my new place.
Driving time would easily be more than an hour given the horrendous traffic in the metro. But I can’t just switch spas, right? I mean, I love Bayleaf’s manager — he’s the most accommodating spa manager I’ve ever dealt with. And the culture among Bayleaf’s boys is still unparalleled, in my opinion. They have varying massage skills, yes, but all of them consistently treat me with a lot of respect and tender, loving care. Very maasikaso, all of them, no exceptions. Plus the boys themselves — haha! — what a delicious mix.
You like the nice, goody goody, boy next door type? Ask for Zander. (Tip: the guy is pogi and meek. Body type is more like John Lloyd, with some baby fats on the side but that’s what we like among our huggable cute boys, right?) At the other end of the spectrum naman, for those who like the more, uhrm, bad boy vibe, an approach where you feel like being kind of dominated, look no further than this guy Allen. No leathers and whips, but the overall effect is pretty spot on. If you like other flavors, good/bad boy in-betweens, like tall guy Yael, and the most senior masseur in their stable, the formidable and sensual massage guru Ronnie.
So yeah, it’s difficult to part ways with Bayleaf, but I had to do it. I texted the manager:
“Stan, medyo dadalang na ang pagbisita ko sa Bayleaf ha. Lilipat na ako ng Mandaluyong eh.”
Stan quickly reverted: “Sir hindi puwede yan. Papa-home service kita. Kelan mo gusto?”
Home service? Parang nakakatakot. That was my initial thought. Kasi di ba, you’ll be giving the spa your residential address. And all those stories that go around about this and that guy who was found dead… Ngiii, nakakapraning lang. Pero naisip ko naman, kung magpapa-home service ako, doon na sa puwede kong i-trust. Good idea naman noh?
So there. Decided na that one of these days, will call for home service. Only remaining problem: sino sa kanila? Haha! Allen? Zander? Ronnie? Or Yael? Or maybe I will just tell the spa manager– surprise me. Hahaha!
Bayleaf Spa provides their signature massage for men via home service anywhere within Metro Manila. For inquiries, text or call the manager at 0917-911-7821. Tell him that Migs referred you, baka he can give you pa tips on how to best enjoy your home service
This is my first time to send an email about confusion and just wanna share what really happened. I am a graduate of Nautical studies in Cebu and we were asked by then to visit the shipping companies that we were hired in to. As cadets we were obliged to visit manila and stay in a boarding house provided by the shipping companies, it was a small house with shared beds, i was then approached by Carlo that we should share beds, he is my newly met friend from dumaguete. Well obviously i complied because he is well sexy, and i even checked him out secretly when he goes out from bath. With shared beds, he has this habit for clasping his arms and feet towards me when he is asleep, more like an extra pillow for him, honestly i always had boner when he does that, feeling his sexy abs and nape.
Watched “Kung Paano Ako Naging Leading Lady” and resolved to myself – I’m gonna watch it one more time! I’ll leave the serious theatre reviewing to the Gibbs Cadizes of this world, but let me itemize the reasons why #LeadingLadyTheMusical is going to be a PETA box-office hit:
1. ENTERTAINING TO THE MAX! Glad to have the same triumvirate of Zsa-zsa Zaturnnah whip this magic sarap up! Thank you, Chris Martinez, Vincent de Jesus, and Carlo Vergara. The ZZZ vibe is strong in this one!
2. POWERCAST! Bito Escalante, Frenchie Dy, Menchu Lauchenco-Yulo, and Markki Stroem. These are big names you will see in the poster. But after the show, you know you should remember more names. More than just big names, talent in the powerhouse cast is overflowing. Worthy to mention, so watch out for them: Nar Cabico, JC Santos, Vince Lim, and Kim Molina.
3. PROUDLY PINOY! The story and music will triumphantly bring the “yaya meal” to fiesta gastronomica levels! In other words, #KPANLL feels good.
4. And finally, Leading Man will give you *nice* dreams long after you watch. Hihi. Imagine towel-clad Markki Stroem singing you your heartsong.
Go watch, and see you in the theatre!