Comments on: Falling in Love with A Straight Guy

By: reimikazuki

reimikazuki — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 10:29:56 +0000

This is me. Now.

Thanks for being a kind friend to me, Chinz. I will miss you so much. Hope we do keep in touch.

By: Cruiser Dude

Cruiser Dude — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 08:10:14 +0000

Very seldom I comment on subjects here at MGG. But I really can relate on the topic and to those who commented because this happened to me twice already. The first was was around 2 years ago to a barkada where we work in the same company. We were so close and we hang out all the time dahil pinagkakatiwalaan niya talaga ako at hingahan ng sama ng loob. It’s really hard to tell him how I feel for him, until one day he asked me to download song to his hard disk, that gave me a chance to compose a letter to tell how I feel so he can read it. Though he became aware of how I feel about him, he still became nice to me. Until he resigned and we lost communication dahil ‘yung work place namin eh nasa ibang bansa because we were working in a cruise ship. Currently, I met a straight a 27 year old guy November 2009, who works in an international firm in Global City, couple of weeks of friendship, I never thought that he would allow me into his heart. We go out together, go to beach overnight, watch movie, even I sleep in his house. Mag-isa lang siya sa house dahil sa may kanya-kanya na silang pamilya magkakapatid. Two hours would not be enough for us the phone. The trouble of having straight BF, he cannot do what PLUs can do to a guy in bed, hahaha. Anyway, at the end of the day, masarap na may nag-a-Iove you sa iyo sa phone at nagsasabing,”I miss you dad, where can I see again?,”Can we go out this weekend”. Hay, kakaloka talaga pag puso na ang tumibok, hahamakin lahat masunod ka lamang.

By: jayr

jayr — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:00:26 +0000

oh my god!!!!
That was me!!!

By: september falsetto

september falsetto — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:07:13 +0000

until now paulit ulit kong binabalikan tong letter na to. haha. ngayon lng ako nag comment di ba. sana kaya kong sabihin ng ganito ka-klaro yung nararamdaman ko… i’m in love with a straight guy right now. and it hurts big time.

i like this part..

“I guess I wanted more attention from you, I wanted to have a stronger friendship with you. Since I know you will never love me the way I love you, then friendship is the next best thing. I wanted you to confide in me, ask for my help when you needed it, I wanted to be your shoulder to cry on or punch if needed, I wanted to drink with you when you felt shitty and needed a dose of alcohol, I wanted to cry with you when you felt REALLY shitty, I wanted to celebrate with you when something came up that was worth celebrating, and I wanted to have front row seats to the movie of your life. I wanted to be there for you. I would have given anything for you. (I still would.) I wanted to show you in every way I can, how much you mean to me. At the very least, in a platonic level. But It didn’t happen. But I saw other people connecting and building strong relationships with you, and frankly I envied them. I wanted the same thing for me. So I got frustrated, and hurt.”

ganitong ganito yung gusto kong sabihin sa kanya. haha. kaso pag ginawa ko yun mawawala yung “konti” na meron sa ming dalawa. aray tlaga. haaaay.

By: ganda lang

ganda lang — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 18:10:34 +0000

Advise lang: Wala pa sa history ng mundo ang successful straight-gay relationships…so ienjoy lang talaga ang company and friendship and the sex as a bonus…pero dapat along the way alam natin na someday eh lilipad din sila at pupunta sa tamang disposisyon nila sa buhay: SA BABAE…masakit man ang katotohanan pero ganun ang lundo ng buhay..What is important is you have the moment to be with that person…seize the moment and celebrate it while it lasts…KAYA GO FABUENAS GO!!!! Magmahalan tayo=)

By: Tom Pengelly

Tom Pengelly — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 17:24:53 +0000

Bless his heart. He went through so much. And yet there never is a solution that ends well for both parties. So much hurt. Why does it have to be this way? Is there anyway we can change this?

I am a human being, with a heart that can fall in love, REALLY fall in love. The heart does not know man, woman, lesbian, or gay. Love consumes, regardless.

What a beautiful quote. Thank you for it.

By: Dins

Dins — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 17:17:54 +0000

I thought I was the only one in the world who experienced this. Its good to know I’m not the only one. The crazy things we do for the person we love who cant love us back.,,almost quit my job…had to accept an overseas assignment and still trying so hard to move on.
I dont know when this heartbreak will end, but I know it will. We all need to live thru this just to see how our own story ends….

By: nate

nate — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 03:40:39 +0000

i think he’s hurting and everything else, etc. etc. because he didn’t get to sleep with him…plain and simple…

By: Amit

Amit — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 21:53:01 +0000

This letter reminded me exactly my feeling…and made me cry…..the guys who fall in love with straight guy…are just mad…like me. but really this letter is amazing…

By: ejuanir

ejuanir — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 22:48:18 +0000

Im in this situation right now.
ALready told him how I felt towards him, but still he said we can only be friends.
Even if he already said that, I still keep on seeing him, go out for drinks, gimiks…
but deep down inside, theres a part of me that says its time to avoid dahil walang mangyayari sa relationship na to. Tried deleting his number and photos on my phone….pero binalik ko rin after a few wks…I regretted saving it back in my phone…

sana makapagmove on na rin ako….