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10+1 Tips: Seducing a Straight Guy

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It seems that one of the more popular posts in this blog is on how gay men can seduce a straight guy. It was basically a post that showed quotes from real gay men who were successful in getting a straight guy in bed. Here’s an update. (Yehey!, right?) I found this column/advice off the net, and thought you, my readers, may find this interesting. Enjoy!

Seducing Straight Boys
Author: Superdrewby

One of the many pre occupations of gay men and boys is the fantasy of sleeping with a straight boy. The straight boy could be your best friend, the high school jock in the football team, some boy you see in the street or just a generic straight boy.

It seems to be a huge turn on to conquer or convert this boy from his misguided heterosexual ways and indoctrinate him in the ways of male to male sex.

Many single women may lament over their Long Island Iced Teas on a Friday night that the best guys are always taken or gay, but there are still a lot of very hot and hunky straight boys out there, just waiting to see what all the fuss is about.

The difference between a gay boy and a straight boy is only a six pack of beer.

If you have read my column on sexuality you will know that I subscribe to the view that sexuality is not cut and dried in either heterosexual or homosexual. instead it is a continuum along which we are all somewhere in the grey. This doesn’t mean that every person is bisexual and going to jump into bed with anyone male or female. It does however mean that guys can still be straight and have sex with other guys.

Some researchers actually believe that at least 80% of guys have at one time or another though about or actually had some form of male to male encounter. They may have jerked off with other guys at school, or even had or given a blow job as they were growing up!

Now before you run out to your nearest straight pub in search of a straight boy for the night, let me throw some cold water on you. This article is more tongue in check and not really meant to be taken seriously, after all you can end up in very serious trouble by making a pass at a straight boy. On the other hand here are some tips that may just get you lucky.

But please use some common sense here, straight boys may be curious, but that doesn’t mean that they will ever act on their curiosity!

How to Guide!
1. Never try and pick him up when he is with his mates, do it when he is alone in private!
2. Get him at least a little bit tipsy, the more he has had to drink the lower his inhibitions!
3. Drop casual hints in the conversation about how much better guys give head than girls, because only a guy who has a cock knows how to worship it.
4. Remind him that having his cock sucked by a guy doesn’t make him gay.
5. Tell him that no one will ever know about what happens (if something does happen) – and actually mean it!
6. Don’t try kissing him, a lot of straight boys are quite happy to get a blowjob from a guy but will really get turned off by kissing him a guy.
7. Get him horny by by putting on some straight or even bisexual porn. Porn is always a good icebreaker – While watching the porn of a guy giving another guy a blowjob mention that guys give the best head!
8. Don’t act like an effeminate little queen, try and act just like him and be macho.
9. Play with his balls a bit, for some reason girls are a bit hesitant to play with a guys cock and balls with their tongue…
10. Give him a blowjob that he will remember for years, once he is hot hard and horny go all out!
and a bonus… 11. Make it seem like you are doing him a real favor!

There are a lot of straight guys out there that are in between girlfriends, not getting any sex or just plain horny, that if you get them in the mood they might just go for it. But be warned that after a straight boy has blown his load he may become aggressive through guilt or embarrassment.

The other problem is if he was your best friend, do you think he will still be your friend afterwards? Is 5 minutes of sexual pleasure worth the hassle and worth losing a friend?

Bottom line with straight boys is, they can be had, but why would you really want a straight boy who is not going to give anything back and the sex at best is going to be very one way? Gay boys are better with other gay boys! (Amen from Migs, the Manila Gay Guy!

(Text from superdrewby.com.)

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  1. #32  Maurice

    Okay, maybe it all depends on the person.

    Iā€™ve known this Adorably, cute guyā€”Blakeā€”ever since my 6th grade year in Elementary school. I honestly havenā€™t any idea as to how we became friends or even how we began speaking to each other, but somehow it happened and we were nearly inseparable throughout 9th grade. That year, he and I were taking the same classes including a physical education course for one term which I disliked greatly. A definite word to describe it would be awkward. There were five of us at the lunch table after the class, any conversation would beā€¦odd (really odd, especially when speaking to Blake), and when no one was speaking, it felt as it time completely stopped.

    Later in the first term, however, he gave me the impression that he was REALLY interested in me; he even went so far as to playfully hold my hand on our way to the locker roomā€”in front of everyoneā€”which I took as ā€œjust being nice.ā€ Another day afterward, his friends decided to leave us alone for an entire lunch period, and he didnā€™t sit beside me, he sat right in front of me! I could not look him in his eye, or even in his face, therefore I just kept asking him questions like ā€˜why?ā€™ so that heā€™d keep talking about himself, and when he stopped Iā€™d pray weā€™d be dismissed to our next class (because I likely wouldā€™ve choked if heā€™d asked me anything open-ended.)

    After our (or mine at least) last year of PE, I was literally stuck with a new set of ā€˜his friendsā€™ during lunch after Geometryā€”The Varsity Baseball Team. Blake has always been a devoted member and player of this group and I never understood why. If I were magically given power over all sports-related games I would see to it that they were all illegal to play, in fact, I would just get rid of them all simply to make me happier. I hardly understood the few players at our table, and to be short, I was often ignored! And there was this one guy that I just HATED with A PASSION, and he really hasnā€™t said ANYTHING to me. The problem is that he STOLE my friend/best friend/possible boyfriend, and Blake probably hasnā€™t even known him longer than heā€™s known me!

    So Blake and Ryan continued to become the best of friends, the dynamic duo, or whatever while I simply stood around watching them together. Then another day came where after school he (Blake) forgot his insect collection project in Biology class, I happened to be leaving that same exact room alone. He opened the door and we walked passed each other, nothing happened. I had half a mind of going back in there with him so that I could ask about the ā€œRyan Issueā€ or about the ā€œSudden Liking, then Ignoringā€, but didnā€™t because Iā€™m SO awfully reserved. And to his credit, that alone should make it easier for HIM to approach me, but why is it that he hasnā€™t asked me anything yet?! Is it me, or is it him? Did I do something wrong because right now he continues to make me feel uncomfortable around him knowing that we canā€™t talk about each other.

    To top that, last year in tenth grade, we hardly said anything to each other, and we no longer took the same classes after first term save two. Nevertheless, the things that got to me most were the dreams Iā€™d been having, and one seriously left me in tears (note: if youā€™re going to sob always stand up for it makes it a little better if youā€™re alone, then just write and express all about it on paper later). And the worst day Iā€™ve EVER HAD in my life was on December 18, 2008 in our Accounting Class after the teacher had given us our final. Normally, Iā€™m an ā€˜Aā€™ student, except this time I had made a B- on her test, and was completely humiliated by a girl and her guy friend. They asked me if I had a best friend in school and I was one-word shy of saying the word, ā€˜Blakeā€™. You have NO idea how hard it is to say ONE word/name while the guy you have a dying crush stares at you, just waiting for you to say his name. I didnā€™t say anything, and when ā€œthat ladyā€ sent us to lunch after telling me off for complaining about my grade, I skipped by going to the bathroom so that I could cry my eyes out. And when it was time to go home (because that was our last class for the day) he didnā€™t say bye to me or anything, he just left without a word. What was I thinking or how did I felt? I felt horrible, I felt betrayed, I felt used, and moreover I felt hurt!

    The final desperate advance Iā€™d made on him was through a friend of his because I really couldnā€™t speak to him without acting or doing something to the nth degree of stupidity. I thought that if I wrote his alleged-friend, Nick, on Facebook a message about my having a bisexual crush on him that heā€™d simply tell Blake without my asking. Nick didnā€™t do a single thing I asked of him, instead he told people Iā€™d never met about me liking a guy whoā€™s just (sadly) from another planet than I am. Eventually, everyone just forgot all about it, Blake started avoiding and not talking to me at all (which broke my heart), and his incessantly pretentious friend Ryan could be with him anytime he likes without me (and no, we did not and never did interact with each another [at houses] after school). So now weā€™re going to our junior year in high school, and Iā€™m sure to just beā€¦forgotten by him while Iā€™m taking AP courses elsewhere for who knows how long.

    If he likes me or if heā€™s ever liked me he couldā€™ve just told me and I wouldā€™ve accepted it, but right now Iā€™ve decided that I just have to let go. My point is that if you *really* love anyoneā€”guy or girlā€”so much that youā€™re willing to make room for them anywhere in your lives then just go for it; you only have one lifetime to be with someone you truly care for, and part of the risk comes from asking the other person if they have an interest in you too. Donā€™t be like me and pass up choice opportunities for simply speaking to the other person about ā€œusā€ conversations; otherwise, being around them will be similar to being around your enemies: restrained and effortless. It up to you, and you only, to see to it that a friendship becomes greater and not anyone else.

    09/06/25 13:48

  2. #31  Hugo

    Hey, just tell him the truth! I told my best friends I was Bi and they were so cool about it! Maybe after you tell him the truth, you guys will get even closer with each other! By the way, if he does that again while you pretend to sleep, you should wait ’til he starts to play with you and then make a sexual noise, or say something like “yeah!” or “that feels good”
    LOL!!!
    -Hugo

    09/06/11 02:00

  3. #30  YeahYeahYeah1

    Okay, well I have this friend and we have been friends for 12 years or longer we are both 18, and he stays over my house a lot. And just about every time he stays, he will wait until he thinks I’m asleep, he will play around with me. It doesn’t bother me because I am bi and he says he is straight. He doesn’t know I’m bi, but I have tried so many time to talk him in to things and he just won’t do it. And I would really like to mess around with him. And I know he’s not completely straight. How would I go about talking to him about this, I mean every time I have ask him if he is gay he gets so offensive about it. And I don’t want to tell him I’m bi. But yeah I could use the help.

    09/06/09 12:46

  4. #29  Hugo

    Hey, if you guys have msn add me – mexican_actor@hotmail.com. Well I met this guy 4 years ago and we never talked, he only said crap about me with his friends. But this year, senior year, he started looking like he was losing friends, and he started to notice me more in class. Well for some reason I felt like he was always watching me, but I always looked at him too, because I started to like him. I am now really in love with him and he started to talk to me when 2009 started. He first messaged me on Myspace after I had messaged him about how I always wanted to be his friend. What’s really funny is that he replied to my message on Valentine’s Day and it made my day. He offered a free haircut because he cuts people’s hair and really does awesome at it, and he did cut my hair, he came to pick me up and I told him that it would be better if he took me to my dad’s place so nobody would be there to interrupt us or bother us. He cut my hair and we talked, but he didn’t seem interested in me, but he did told me to take my shirt off before the haircut and I said no because I was shy and later he took me home. At school he would always come and talk to me and ask for help about stuff that someone else could help him with, I stopped talking to him because I wanted to stop liking him, but I haven’t, I love him so much and this last week, he asked me to help him out with a powerpoint presentation and I said yes, and we were in the library and he and I were sitting right next to each other, leg to leg and arm to arm and I was so happy, i rubbed my arm on his a little and he didn’t seem to care and everytime he had a question we would both look at each other and his eyes would line up with mine and it was so romantic. I also made him laugh quite a few times, and then he thanked me so much for all the help and I got brave so I asked, it would be cool if we hung out next week at lunch and he said, sure hit me up tuesday, and I’m so excited, tomorrow i’m having lunch with him and it’s gonna be perfect. I called him this weekend to see if he could cut my hair and he said that he could today, so I’m going to call him in 45 mminutes and see if he can. I really hope he can, because I want to tell him today that I have always loved him and if maybe we are alone at my house when this happens, and he ends up liking me too, then anything can happen. I wouldn’t care if it was just a kiss, all I want is his love :D Wish me good luck guys, today’s the day!!!
    ~~Hugo~~

    09/05/26 02:17

  5. #28  bigirishman

    speak english already. It’s annoying to read a story or advice in english and then have it switch to some weird language in mid-sentence.

    When they start talking about sex is when you’ve got them hooked.

    09/04/19 20:29

  6. #27  pj

    Thanks for the tips your site has been very helpfulā˜ŗ Keep up the good work.

    09/03/26 14:56

  7. #26  YungBoiGotIt

    Thanx for the hints and tips but i’ve been seducing Straight Guyz for years and i cant even drive yet.
    See when your “younger” such as between the ages of 16 and 20 a reall good game of “truth or dare” should put you right where you need to be.
    But only if there are 3 to 4 people and the sun is about to go down, I say that because at that time boys will do almost anything.
    By having open discuessions onthe sizes of your “area” it will almost always lead to a comment like “well lemme see it” and once you get to here your good to go
    Oh by the way im not gay I’m actually staight and i can do it so i know you can to.
    i just like the fact that its so damn easy!!!

    09/03/14 08:34

  8. #25  vanitysaint

    You have to sharpen your gaydar. It’s built-in. Sometimes, you’ll just have to train your eyes and trust your guts. Believe me.hehe :)

    09/03/08 15:04

  9. #24  stan

    Migs I clearly see your point in your last statement. but don’t you think there is an immeasurable satisfaction when you had a straight guy though ephemeral than someone who is gay?

    09/02/08 15:22

  10. #23  John

    I’m a married guy who has been thinking a lot about meeting up with a guy to fool around (mostly fantasizing about mutual as the othere stuff doesn’t get me excited when I think about it).  My problem is that I’m not comfortable using the Internet to find an anonymous encounter.  My question is to the bi and gay dudes out there (especially the closeted ones).  How can I discretely identify and express my interest in another guy in a similar position?  I see a lot of guys that I want to play with in public but can’t tell which one’s also like men. 

    08/11/02 04:13

  11. #22  sadguy24

    for me d best p rin ung PORN thing method….. d2 kz sa officework q….. (working student me)…..
    pasahan cla ng scandals kya un, pero xmpre d aq pa obvious n tinitignan q ung baba. as usual tinitigasan kz, nppansin q hawak nila eh…. hhehehehehehehehehe (alam nila gay aq pero wla me pki sa knila d q kz likey eh…. hehehehhe)

    08/10/16 13:02

  12. #21  queermo

    Yeah  I don’t mean to brag but I’ve used these tips a many a time and gotten laid that night lol (it really works with guys of jewish decent ;-) )

    08/10/13 02:34

  13. #20  faggot

    kamumay ka men! wapakels kung bestfrend ko ang dinale ko. ang importante ay nalasap namin ang tamis ng dapithapon sa parola hahaha ^_^… xet hard on with it hahah

    -Support joseph and polo in der movies. kaumay tlaga hahah :D sarap xet harder

    08/10/12 20:28

  14. #19  wade

    ok, i have a huge crush on this guy and i have been working on him for quite a while but i just don’t know if i should go for him yet. He has spent the night at my place once and somehow we ended up sleeping in the same bed, i wasn’t going to try anything but then i woke up in the middle of the night and he was right up against me. My cock was literally inbetween his cheeks and i couldn’t tell if it was on purpose or that he just rolled when he sleeped. Then i touched his cock but got no response. So i just assumed he was sleeping the whole time.
    Another time we were talking and i told him i shaved my pubes, and he asked to see, so i showed him and he felt it and said nice.
    We have also sent eachother a lot of dirty text messages and i don’t know if i should go for it. Any tips. By the way i’m not gay i’m just a bi-curious straight guy.

    08/07/22 00:54

  15. #18  john

    im in the closet and i have a friend who is straight does anyone know how i can get him in bed without telling them im gay first?

    08/06/09 17:24

  16. #17  ronald

    ive been reading a lot of stuff from the internet on how to seduce a straight guy. coz i have a friend that i had a big crush. actually we are roommates. and we are in the same room. but we have another roommate which is a girl…

    the few times i tried to be closer to him. he just ignore it. i mean i was holding his legs but he didnt say anything. and that continued for a long time… until i decided to give him a massage… the 1st time i gave him a massage,, nothing happened. but it was really fun coz finally i touched his body… the second time was that was when i tried to feel his ass and dick… and he didnt say no but he said its better if we go to sleep coz it was already late…

    and now… he seems pretty normal… he still talks to me like nothing happened but i dont know when can i give him a massage again…

    oh my god… i cant believe this is happening to me… i think im obsessed… but not in a way that i will become possessive… but everytime i get home i always check my computer if he visited porn site… and if ever the web history was deleted i know he visited porn site again and jacked off… and this may sound gross but i do check his underwear if any sperm is left… and i i see that the crotch has a something on it… i try to smell it… and it smell like his dick…
    oh my god… i am going insane if i dont get this guy…
    one more thing… he has a girlfriend… they have a kid… and he loves her… but he talks to this one girl and flirts with her… and he’s taking a vacation to philippines so he can marry his girlfriend….

    i know this is gonna be hard… coz once he is married… i am kinda ashame to seduce a guy with wedding ring…

    so guys pls help me to figure out how to get a private time with him… i dont know but im a little bit scared to approach him again… coz he might get piss and i dont wanna lose him as a friend…

    i know… im stupid coz i still wanted to do what i planned but im not ready to take the risk that he might stay away from me…

    wish me luck…

    08/03/23 05:55

  17. #16  FatBoySlim

    Heysalovesyah

    Its ur call, if u would like to take the risk (and ready to move into a new apartment) then go for it. Beer would really help a lot! (as per experience… :-)

    I would say, go for it! Habang nde ganun ka-deep ang friendship. Kc pag lalong tumatagal, lalong nawawala ang chance. Who knows he’s just waiting for you to open up!

    08/03/11 14:07

  18. #15  FatBoySlim

    TRUE EXPERIENCE
    D day before my wedding, my best man (which is also my bestfriend) slept over kc he was helping me finalize my last minute preparations for my wedding day. Since queen size bed nasa room ko, no choice sya but to share my bed.

    We were talking until the wee hours, with some beer around, checking everything, when he asked me, “sure ka na ba talaga magpakasal?” I know Im risking everything by saying, “Theres only one thing holding me back…” Of course he asked what, sabi ko “Pare, ikaw!” He was dumb founded. I approach him, gave him a kiss… It was the best night and the best male to male sex I ever had.

    (Sorry can not post the details here, magagalit si migs)

    Natuloy ang wedding the next day. We were awkward pag gising namin, pero I was the one who approach him and thank him for being there for me. I love him so much and I told him walang iwanan. We hugged each other and dressed up for my wedding day.

    Until now we still go out, call each other up. Syempre di alam ng wife ko about that night. At nde na naulit pa yung night na yun. It will be something I will cherished and keep in my memory for the rest of my life!

    08/03/11 14:03

  19. #14  CleanCutMe

    12. the best way to get a straight guy is through his interest. lucky me i have this rugged boy interests: sports and COMPUTER GAMES ! ! ! ! talk about his interests and it will be in no time, sex talk will that be easy.

    13. do talk a lot. guys like gays who can carry a conversation.

    14. ALWAYS compliment them. “nice shirt, nice haircut, nice dimples…” a guy who gets his ego pumped up is an easy fish to catch.

    15. never tell him your sexual adventures. tell him you had sexual experiences but ” im very secretive i wont even give the name of that person or the details of what happened. SIKRETO EH”. in this way you’ll have him thinking that in case he’ll have sex with you it will be a “closed” event.

    16. arm your cellphones with multimedia(learning resource materials) hehehehe. how to get him viewing this xxx STRAIGHT clips? “aw ano b itong sinend ng kaibigan kong scandal bago daw.” you’ll have him surely reply “talaga? patingin nga” then you automatically reply “hayz andami kya ako nakasave jan tingn mo lahat.” then smell pumping L I B I D O wagi ka n naman! heheheh

    16. If in case its time for you to have sex, remember “every performance must be the greatest performance of your life” ahahaha. a guy who gets sooo sooo satisfied will come back for more.

    08/03/11 09:35

  20. #13  Charing

    Hmmm, ok lng.. Mdjo mhrap nga lng.

    08/02/11 16:25

  21. #12  mitch...!

    keith…! and2 lng akitch! pde b kow?! juz contact me,,,! 09205484942…!

    07/12/31 07:27

  22. #11  jeff

    may ka housemate ako na crush ko. we always have a long talk. ammm.. almost 2 hours. we talked spontaneously about work and leisures.. sometimes i cannot get off to look into his eyes straight directly and cute face.

    sometimes when we only both watch TV beside with each other, I want to touch his hand intentionally but accidentally.. weird huh..

    i want to open up that I have crush on him.
    but I dont want to lose him for just 5 minutes or less for saying about my sexual preference.

    I rather stay as a friend to him. He have trust on me.
    I know he has no girlfriend yet.
    he is from La Salle and a cute boy.

    I admire him so much. makulit kasi pagnaguusap kami pag kami lang dalawa.

    separate lang ang rooms namin sa share condo. Bago ako matulog tinitignan ko muna ang room door nya or nkalock pa ba.
    at nag-aalala kung san cya nagpupunta pag umaalis pag malapit na midnight.

    pero nasa internet cafe lang pala cya with his fren. fan ng DOTA. hehehe

    san cya ngaun? e nasa kwarto nya. naglalaptop. naka lock. at ako nasa sala. naghihintay na lumabas cya. hehehe..

    xcited na nga ako umuwi ng maaga from opis kasi andito cya palagi. nakakawala ng stress pagnakikita ko cya.

    (*_*)

    07/11/09 00:27

  23. #10  barron

    ako po may crush ako. feeling ko str8t xa pero may feeling din akong bi xa..so parang feeling ko kaya ko xang i seduce.pero nahihiya ako eh maybe kung lasing xa pero d ko pa xa nakakainuman eh…sana khat isang beses lang masaya na ako dun…kc i know gus2 nya rin un.d nga lang pwede kc mahirap para sa aming dalawa..maybe b’coz nag kakahiyaan.pero someday i should try to seduce him.

    07/10/20 16:35

  24. #9  alex

    yah..so true..but then again as you conclude your write up..15 mins of pleasure wont be enough reason to lose a friend..better yet to somen one you dont know! hahahah

    07/05/14 09:49

  25. #8  myk2ts

    Heysalovesyah, go, if u think u r in the ryt track,no room to hold back,but be very sure,asses him first and find the ryt moment.g’luck

    07/04/10 08:14

  26. #7  Heysalovesyah

    hey, i have a problem. I have a flatmate that i really want to seduce. I have lived with him for a couple of months and now well.. my relationship with is really weird and difficult. The problem is he is straight, but unlike the stereotypical “fag hater” jock, he is the “im very open about my sexuality” type of guy.
    What makes me even more suspicious is the fact that he always plays with me, either by tickling me or touching me. Lately this fooling around has exploded into more physical contact and more enjoying for me. But should i try and get it on with him??

    07/03/18 08:49

  27. #6  bojo

    i’ve done it and it was incredible! the fact that you managed to bed and pleasure a straight guy who really turns you on or is a “crush” is totally awesome! “they’re” still my friends and i still pleasure them whenever we have the chance. and right now i’m in the process of seducing a new big crush and tho’ i feel that i can have him,i’m being extra careful ‘cos this guys friendship mean so much to me and i don’t want to jeopardize that so i’m being extra careful and patient. right now we go out to hook up with girls and watching him make out with them is enough,for now! so wish me luck!

    07/02/10 14:24

  28. #5  keith

    I am a straight whitwe male. I am very bi curious, but extremely in the closet, so….I would like to be seduced by a guy!!!!

    07/02/03 02:34

  29. #4  jerome

    all true. esp married men with wife problems. it’s explosive. their problems never seem to go away. they need the attention & caring, and the sex is unbelievable – like “no one has to know this”. most important tip is…do not share your shared secret even with gay/fag hag friends. your trust is crucial to them.

    06/12/08 01:59

  30. #3  James

    No comment *sneeers*

    06/11/07 11:31

  31. #2  Michael J

    I had no idea until now, but thanks for the info !!!

    06/10/12 05:52

  32. #1  Ang-ang

    Thanks for the very nice tips/lessons!

    06/10/11 15:09

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