Comments on: Tips on Gay Relationships

By: Migs

Migs — Tue, 17 Oct 2006 13:40:35 +0000

thanks deric for sharing… i’m sure many of us here could learn a thing or two from your experience. cheers!

By: deric antonio

deric antonio — Tue, 17 Oct 2006 13:26:36 +0000

i’m on my 2nd ltr (4 yrs.). the first one was also 4 years (with, unfortunately, a married guy). if there is one thing that works for us (present), it’s the fact that our relationship is anchored on the premise that as long as we enjoy each other’s company and the special feeling for each other is there, everything else will be trivial. no demands, no expectations. just a personal, undeclared commitment to one another. there are no set rules that he should be like this and i should be like that. no expectations that he should do this and i will do that. no arguments because we both know how to stand down when one is infuriated or very expressive about something; we’ll return to the topic when i/he has cooled down. and of course, a commitment to date at least weekly, no matter what day it may be. can’t make it on a friday because of important or trivial reason? lemme know 1 hour ahead and we’ll have our date the next day. the setup may be weird but we are still the same just like we were during the early part of our relationship

By: Migs

Migs — Mon, 16 Oct 2006 06:53:52 +0000

bananas, you got it right on the spot! but as in any farming… the produce comes after the wait. good luck bananas mah friend!

By: Migs

Migs — Mon, 16 Oct 2006 06:51:13 +0000

good luck on your relationship, saidomar. wishing you the best! the manila gay guy.

By: bananas

bananas — Mon, 16 Oct 2006 06:48:42 +0000

really difficult. into it now and i can say that it’s more than gardening man. it’s more like farming—tilling the land and wait for the rain to do its magic.

mushy…fuck!

By: saidomar

saidomar — Mon, 16 Oct 2006 05:08:54 +0000

i needed to hear this sooo much!