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1. #16  noel

   

   ang hirap maging isang bakla. bakit? ang hirap makakita ng isang partner for short term lang. ang hirap lalake ang pinagkaloob sa iyo kaso babae naman ang panloob. i try to fall inlove to a girl but hindi nagtagal kala ko madali lang gusto ko kase magkaanak para may mag aalaga sa akin pagtanda kaso hindi pala madali mas lalo pang lumalala nakasakit pa ako ng isang feeling. kaya kung may nakilala na kayo na alam nyo sya na para sayo wag mo nang papakawalan.

   angel_noel_2000@yahoo.com

   09/06/02 18:44

2. #15  Dita

   

   Bottomline : DO YOU TRUST YOUR PARTNER? 

   There’s nothing wrong with chatting and visiting gay sites so long as you have your limits. And these limits are known by both partners and that both agree and abide by it.  Hindi maiiwasan talaga kahit pagbaliktarin mo man ang mundo.

   Dun sa mga may partners na talaga namang kaakit-akit sa mata ng lahat, unang-una, dapat secure sa sarili ang partner nito. Otherwise its doomed from the start. Lalo pa’t kung high-maintenence and very busy ang social calendar. 

   Ang pinakamahirap na kalaban ng isang relasyon lalo sa mga gays ang TEMPTATION. Kung ang foundation ng relationship is built on TRUST, nothing can go wrong. You can be open so long as there is trust. kung papayagan mo sya mag-chat, trust that he never develops more than friendships and acquiantances. A little flirting is normal. Ginagawa yan ng bf ko. The first time, kakaselos tlaga. But then nakilala ko syang ganon and have proven he’s all bark and no bite. Just tell him that there is really no need to give out numbers and personal stuff than you have to. Kasi pag binigay ang number, madali nang makipag-set ng eye-ball and you will never really know what happens pag nagkita na. That’s a different story altogether. Hindi na excuse yung mga nahihiya sa mga kasama sa gym etc. Kung mag-develop ng “friendships” sa mga gym ngayon lalo na sa FF (and you know what I mean), meron nang malicious intent lalo’t kapag nagpalitan na ng nos. Kung talagang wala sa partner ang mga txts and calls, fine, pero para dun sa mga nag-ttxt and tumatawag, iba ang dating nun. He becomes a challenge. Sooner or later, pag may makulit na hindi nya kayang tanggihan, bibigay yan. So, giving out nos in general is a no-no. 

   08/11/15 07:15

3. #14  Little Fish

   

   Ang tanong:

   Lahat ba ng chatting leads to sex…este, leads to being unfaithful?
   Lahat ba ng eb leads to sex?

   I do believe, that people who visited chatrooms are either enjoying themselves and having fun with friends. Anything goes in the chatroom and it is all a minds-game….Am I too naive of whats really going on….in a chatroom???????

   Confused na me?????

   08/09/19 16:50

4. #13  ed

   

   I really think chatting in gay chatroom whether with consent or without is a form of bieng unfaithful.

   C’mon..let’s all admit that these chatrooms were created for a main purpose of hooking up for gay sex. People do not go out and be online looking for friends. Friends will just come along in your day to day activity. You don’t go look for friends on line with their naked bodies posted in their profile…

   08/08/15 10:32

5. #12  Fatboyslim

   

   But when u lie on the chatroom, that ur single and all… thats another story.

   If u wanna be honest about ur intentions of chatting, then u have to reveal ur real status, not lie about if u have a partner or not

   08/04/28 12:09

6. #11  Fatboyslim

   

   Lets just put it this way…

   In a heterosexual relationship, if a guy or a girl chats while he or she is in a relationship, may problema ba tayo dun? Wala!

   Its just a matter of trusting ur partner and being faithful to him. Minsan kc iniisip kaagad natin na pag ang isang tao nagchchat, naghhanap na ng kapalit!

   Pwede naman mag chat for friendship sake!

   08/04/28 12:08

7. #10  luckyclover12

   

   thats whay gay relatioship never last long dahil sa ganyang “consented cheating” tayo pa naman we always dream of bieng with someone for the rest of our lives tapos di tayo makatiis not to be with someonelses. Naku ha. why not start bieng faithful.

   08/01/08 17:32

8. #9  JOsh

   

   i guess the topic was about going to chatrooms even if you are in a relationship. most of the comments/replies are about their lovers indiscretion with other guys. guys they meet not only on chat…
   im 39 y/o with a 6 year relationship with a 31 year old, and yes i still do chat at g4m. but i know where to set limits, no SEB/EB. occasional sex show on cam yes i do.
   i even taught my lover how to webchat and allow him to go to g4m/yahoo/irc as well. the same with me, there are limitations.
   i used to think that i cannot allow sumthin like this before our relationship started. masyado rin ako idealistic before. but u guys should open your eyes to this realities. and didnt u notice, those who admit about chats are the ones in long term relationship?
   for u guys who think otherwise, that relationships are supposed to be strictly monogamous, you will know when you meet the person who u will stay with for keeps.

   06/12/26 22:04

9. #8  Ghel

   

   Actually before I met him, ganyan na yung ginagalawang mundo nya. Dati bigay ng number kung kanikanino , friendly kasi sya, super bait pa..etc.. Kasi akward naman kung di mo ibibigay number mo sa mga gymmates mo diba?

   I mean dati pilyo sya, but now he is committed, di daw sya manloloko (sana nga). Syempre yung mga makukulit na bis/gays eh text pa rin ng text, also di nya naman sinasabing committed na sya.

   Lagi ko rin syang kasama. I trust him, ayaw nya lang pinapakialaman yung phone nya. Pero minsan, out of his knowledge, I tinker with his phone, so far wala naman akong nakikitang hindi maganda… even sa sent times.. hehheh (but of course pwedeng “malinis” na).

   As for now, di naman na ako ganun ka insecure, I trust his words. Saka kinukwento sya sa akin yung mga tumatwag at nagtetext pag nagtatanong ako…

   But again, once na nahuli ko sya.. GOOD BYE!!!!! Kawalan nya rin ako. Saka syempre I keep records (like cellphone numbers ng mga suspecious texters/callers) and monitor him from time to time. So far, mukhang wala naman talaga akong dapat ikabahala…. ako lang din minsan gumagawa ng sarili kong multo..

   06/11/10 17:43

10. #7  Migs

    

    you are correct ghel, having a “habulin” bf is both boon and bane. now, why does your bf give out his number? and then he does not want you to tinker with his phone? i wouldn’t say your suspicions are baseless. don’t get me wrong, i don’t want to pre-judge your bf, i’m just saying that if you feel insecure, there are some substantiating factors that back it up. lastly, trust can’t just be ordered like a chickenjoy or big mac. it is earned, sometimes through long and thorny roads.

    06/11/10 15:39

11. #6  Ghel

    

    I’m lucky kasi yung BF ko is pansinin talaga, malakas ang sex appeal, may magandang mukha, in short jackpot ako, heheheh. Pag naglalakad kami ang daming tumitingin sa kanya, lalo na mga bis and gays… in some point natutuwa ako kasi aba may kasama akong gwapo and BF ko pa, sabi ko sa sarili ko.. sorry na lang kayo, sa akin na sya..

    Pero at the same time, may insecurity kang mararamdaman, what if makakita sya ng mas higit sa iyo, kung baga, he do not need to make an effort to get somebody… marami na kasing lumalapit sa kanya..

    Ang daming nagtetetext and nag mimiscall.. nakakairita. Kasi nag gygym sya sa isang well-know gym center, so ang dami nyang nakikilala, eh ang dami kayang gays and bis dun…imagine ang dami mong karibal, hehhe. Lagi din naming pinag aawayan yan, one of our major fights.. he said trust him daw and he doesnt reply to those text or calls. Sabi ko gumawa ka ng paraan para di magtext or mag miscalls yung mga yan… dont entertain, dont give your numbers to strangers.

    AND HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO TINKER WITH HIS PHONE!

    Well lets see..

    06/11/10 15:20

12. #5  Migs

    

    Ghel and Bugoy – thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your comments make me feel so happy I put up this site – not only do I enjoy posting stuff, I enjoy more the interaction that goes on. On this post’s topic, I guess there really should be some kind of balance, or shall I say “tamang timpla” between trusting your partner and cutting the source of temptation. i don’t believe in just fully trusting, or completely cutting all possible sources of temptation. wow this comment is so long it feels like a post in itself. again thanks guys for sharing your thoughts here!

    06/11/10 12:58

13. #4  bugoy

    

    HI migs, pinoy living in sri lanka here.
    I love your entries about gay relationships. This post is perfect for what im going through at the moment. My boyfriend of 9 months now is very ‘popular’ and he gets calls and txt’s all the time from guys and i dont like it one bit. We had a huge fight over it a couple of months back and since then he said he wont take any action when he gets those calls and txt’s, also he’s given me permission to go throiugh his phone anytime i want. But still he gets very explicit txt’s from guys all the time and it just makes me so effing insecure. arrrghhh…. im always thinking that he’s hooking up with people behind my back. Im very faithfull and i really hope he is too. Anywayz keep up the good job!

    06/11/10 11:54

14. #3  Ghel

    

    Seloso type ako. Mga kaibigan nya nga lang ang nagtetext or nagchachat sa kanya nagseselos ako, what more pag mga PLUs na interested sa kanya. Kahit plain chat and text lang, NO THANK YOU.

    If he will ask my persmission, I wont allow him to chat or to meet new friends intentionally…. well kung gawin nya behind my back, that’s a big problem pag nabuli ko sya.

    I’m faithful, very faithful, I will never cheat.. That’s why I dont want na niloloko ako…

    06/11/09 16:00

15. #2  Migs

    

    naughty bananas. but that happens to the best of us. you were unlucky that you got caught. but as they say, learn from the experience… hehehe. advice giver daw ba? hehehe! seriously, thanks for sharing your story here, bananas!

    06/11/08 12:00

16. #1  bananas

    

    sure is it tantamount to cheating. but wait, cheating with consent? well, if it works for both worlds, why not.

    this is kinda different story but i had an chat-episode with a college guy who goes to the same school where athan, my boyfriend, studies. in fact they belong to the same department.

    the guy was kinda smart that he went to weave just right, putting everything in place, the “clues” i gave out about athan.

    kung tutuusin, buking na ako but afraid about disclosing athan’s identity, i kept on with my denial about him through and through.

    i did not know that the guy was already texting athan about our conversation. to make the story short, athan learned about it and a rather emotional confrontation ensued between us.

    later, athan told me that the guy was kinda good looking. hot, in fact.

    but yeah…i cheated.

    06/11/08 11:49

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