Comments on: Is there a Happy Ever After for us?

By: Carl

Carl — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:47:46 +0000

Nothing is perfect in this life, whoever’s involved in a relationship, it goes through similar stages and trials, at the end of the day, it boils down to the two individuals involved, I think in most relationships, be it straight or gay, commitment is always the one thing that’s missing, if you’re committed to your partner and your relationship, then you learn to respect each others differences. Sorry, but just accept that nothing really lasts forever, not even marriage or kids could save a crumbling relationship, so please lang, if your relationships failed, blame yourself and/or your partner, dont blame it on being gay, cause I don’t think our heterosexual brothers and sisters are having it any easier. Mas lalo mo lang ginagawang pathetic at questionable ang same sex relationships with this line of thought. How can we claim equality and validate our need, for our union to be legalized if right from the beggining, tayo pa mismo ang magdodoubt sa quality ng partnerships natin?

By: nol0ve

nol0ve — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 13:20:52 +0000

siguro…if we stop being insecure and start trusting ourselves and our partner..then maybe relationships are tend to last kahit gay man or straight(only based on my own experience)

By: sandy

sandy — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 05:47:45 +0000

call me an optimist but i still believe that there will come a time when the soceity, even as conservative as ours, will learn to accept homosexual relationships… Acceptance is a key that will open many doors, and some doors, will lead to happy ever-afters

By: Edward

Edward — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 05:35:02 +0000

Im 23 yrs old. Im in a 6 year relationship with a guy. But we call ourselves bestfriends. I love him so much and so does he. Dami n kme trials involving girls na napagdaanan pero e2 p rin kme. Pero aminado kme na 1 day things will turn out normally as it should be like marrying with a girl like that. And since matagal p nman un, theres still time to prepare, for him and for me. Anyway we are not uhmm ladlad like that. Prang normal guys lng kme kung mkikita mo in person. Nobody knows our relationship but to enlighten you a bit, for 4 days a week, we sleep and do activities with together. Pero msasabi ko prang bi lng kc kme. Experemental lang parang gnun. Kung mag-asawa kme ng babae sa future, promise namin tabi bahay namin pra ung mga anak namin magkakaibigan. We love each other so much and want to spend our lives together but in the right manner. About love nman kc, Cguro sa lalake ka nga interested but why not give girls chance. I promise you there wont be any heartbreak or problems. Once you have a child magbabago na buhay at kapalaran mo. Just give it a chance. La pa ko asawa’t anak ha pero open n ko sa ganyang ideas kc its for me na rin not to get hurt. I must understand.

By: lanz

lanz — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 09:21:36 +0000

ouch…mga ‘day natatamaan ako…

By: jay

jay — Tue, 11 Sep 2007 13:48:23 +0000

well, my relationship with my BF for 4 yrs has just ended… and with this, i now believe that nothing really lasts forever… most esp. to relationships like our, it may not be the end for now for the others, but i’m sure it will still come. so enjoy it while it’s there… grabe, ang hirap mag adjust with my life now, most esp. kung kelan parang both our parents now accept that we are more than friends… hirap talaga… bakit kami nag hiwalay? third, fourth, fifth… party on his part… sya ang di makontento, btw, ako ang gay sa relationship namin… but i think he’s bi…ewan ko… basta ang alam ko, wala talagang fairy tale ending for us…

By: Dan Gabriel

Dan Gabriel — Thu, 26 Jul 2007 04:30:58 +0000

This is my opinion. Happy Ever After, as you put it, only exists for those who believe in it. Those who do not believe in it will never find it. The secret to finding that Happy Ever After, I think, is to just continue to believe in love with all your heart — no matter how many times your heart gets broken. Yeah, yeah, I know it sounds too sentimental, too Romanticist, to idealistic, but Happy Ever After or not, the most important thing is that we never give up on love. Just a thought. Maybe it would be better to focus on the love you feel right now than worry where it will take you.

By: dude

dude — Wed, 21 Feb 2007 16:21:34 +0000

la akong masyadung masabi kasi d pa ako nagkakaroon ng ganyan na mga relationship peru yah i do agree na nasa tao ang desisyun kung panu nila makukuha ang kaligayahan nila. To be contented is one and to have God by your side is the prime most important thing you should do. Sya lng naman may kasagutan sa lahat, and lam ko he’s just to whatever judgments He bestowed upon us whether you’re straight or gay…

By: saidomar

saidomar — Sat, 23 Dec 2006 10:23:22 +0000

interesting comments…. sheds light to my current predicament.

By: homie

homie — Mon, 18 Dec 2006 06:47:03 +0000

Personally, I think the dynamics of a gay relationship are different from those of a hetero relationship.I’ve observed, however, gay people tend to have hetero expectations despite the difference – which is, I think, what causes us to assess gay relationships in an inequitable manner. I think we should have no pre-conceived notions about where our relationships go or what we expect from our partners in terms of what they can bring to the relationship. I think we can only know what we want and try to comunicate it to our partners at the very onset of the relationship – if we can come to a compromise about our values and personal goals. If there’s a deal-breaker then I think logically we shouldn’t pursue the relationship at all. But even if we’ve done all we can to make the relationship work and it still ends, then we should let go and value the relationship for what it was: a learning experience tht may have been fraught with pain sometimes but beautiful nonetheless.