In this last installment of my email exchange with Seth, he puts his foot down and answers his own question, “Am I gay?” — read on and feel free to share your thoughts on how he brings his issues to a close. (For those who have not yet read the previous installments, read it here then here.)
(Copied exactly from his email:)
hello…
i’ve been out of town for a couple of days…actually weeks.. kaya di na po ako nakapagreply….
i went to different places with my barkada.. trip trip lng… cebu for sinulog..
boracay for a tan… bacolod just because it was on the way…
now that i’m back…. i would really love to thank you….
the trip we had…. and the talk we had.. was all i needed to tell myself who am i… to answer my question…
sa lahat ng napuntahan nmin… i have proven myself that i’m finally over with the feeling of getting attracted to other guys… and not just because.. i don’t want to.. o pinipilit ko sarili ko na “huwag”… but because.. it suddenly became not my thing.. ayaw ko… it just evaporated from my system… we hanged out in different places met a lot of people… pero it never came in my mind kahit na my gay friend actually set me up to be with this guy..
i guess it was just my fear… kung bakit ako uncertain… and you were right… in the end…. ako parin magdedecide what i am.. who i am… i will be forever grateful for giving me this confidence…. you didn’t give me the answers… you made me look for the answer…….. you say your not a therapist.. pero if you would change into that profession.. i’m sure you’ll be a good one and you’ll be able to help a lot of people…
let me say it one more time… THANK YOU……
and oh.. what do you mean you’ll publish it?
i’ve heard from my friend you have a blog..
is that what your talking about??
o sa magazine o dyaryo mo publish.. hehe.. ![]()
anyway.. kahit saan pa man… its no problem…
THANK YOU MIGS….
- Seth
Now that Seth has given his last word on the issue, how about you, what are your last words for Seth?
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