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Was laughing out loud reading a fellow blogger’s post entitled “Cute Manga“. He met a cute guy who turns out to be a friendly user (i.e., manga as in manga-gamit). And blogger friend was just too happy to be user-friendly. Shortly after the initial meeting, he was giving him pasa-load, Grande Starbucks drinks, free lunch (with take-out pa!), etcetera… because, as he says, money is not an issue anymore (translation: rich ang lola mo). But it got me thinking, if indeed money is not an issue, would I go as far as being a sponsor, otherwise known as “Sugar Daddy”? My pride says, no. My beauty says, hey I’m still here, may asim ka pang puhunan. But you — what do you say? — would you allow yourself to be so sweet as to be a sugary Sugar Daddy?

Comments (55)

  1. metoto said on 14-12-2010

    kung gusto mo “maglaro” walang problema siguro pag me perang involve… but if u want LOVE… di maganda yan… heartBREAK abot mo dyan, butas pa bulsa mo…

  2. carl said on 23-08-2008

    by definition of what a sugar daddy is, NO, as in NO. I’ve always been attracted to older guys and I guess being loved by someone because of what he gets from me financially, is something my ego and pride could not take…

  3. fatboyslim said on 29-04-2008

    In short, pusong mamon ang mga berde ang dugo. Mabilis maawa! Pero hwag ka, pag nagalit, magtago na kayo sa saya ng nanay nyo kasi ISKANDALO ang aabutin nyo!

  4. fatboyslim said on 29-04-2008

    Ive been in the similar situation before…

    At first akala mo mahal ka rin nya, tapos unti unti na papasok yung eksenang “I like that sana kaso wala akong pera..”

    After dat, nandyan na yung, “lets meet pero bigyan mo naman ako ng pamasahe pauwi…” OR “Mit tayo, nde pa kc ako naglulunch…”

    Worst part is, when u notice he’s getting thin, or mahaba na ang buhok, eto ang linya nila “Wala kc akong pera pangkain/pampagupit…”

    After dat, papasok na ang mga dramang, “nagkasakit utol ko, baka pwede mo naman akong pahiramin kahit magkano…” When u ask how much, magsisimula sa 500 at tataas every incident…

    VERY FAMILIAR! Madami na rin akong experiences na ganyan. Once it reach a point na nde ko na kaya (which is sometimes hard to determine) I just DUMPED D GUY!

    Reason: Maraming mas gwapo sayo dyan! Bkt sayo lang ako magpapagamit? Hahahahaha!

  5. andrew said on 29-03-2007

    Sino naman ‘tong JOHN MARION WILSON ng JRU Heavy Bombers, Mahaderang_Tamaraw? San naman namin sya masisilayan? Hehe!

  6. cast said on 29-03-2007

    di ba me movie na me line na “o di ba? ang sarap ng hinuhuthutan”…. kakambal na yata ng buhay bading yan eh…. ako, nangyari na yan sa akin…. dinadatungan … noon.. noon yun… pero ngayon medyo na lang, lolz… sa totoo lang, yan na tayo eh…

  7. mahaderang_tamaraw said on 26-03-2007

    aba eh kung katulad ba naman ni JOHN MARION WILSON ng JRU Heavy Bombers ang ii-sponsoran ko, ok lang…dyusko, mamatay ata ako sa “kadakilaan” nun!!!…macho na, gwapo pa, daks pa san ka pa!

  8. Marvin said on 25-03-2007

    Love? It makes a college degree holder acts like a kindergarten student.

  9. sire lee said on 25-03-2007

    parang familiar na sakin ang eksena na ito… ahehe parang madalas! ngaun hindi na

  10. randy said on 24-03-2007

    i guess it all depends if the situation calls for it. my bf is jobless for months now, his father is sick, his mom earns just enough to feed his siblings. so, how on earth would he survive without my assistance? i never dreamt on wearing this shoe and i know the the easy way out but i guess he is just one lucky bastard (j/k!) i don’t wanna be branded as sugar daddy but if what i’m doing described me as one, so be it. u can call it stupidy but then i call it love.

  11. chu chu caracas said on 24-03-2007

    anu ba yun bading na, bangko pa at kabit pa parang ayaw talaga nating pumunta sa langit charing lang…

    being gay is fun and sad at the same time. and usually the sad part is growing old alone. siguro it’s the sad truth with being gay in this society. it shouldn’t push us to lower our standards for happiness by paying for someone to give it to us. siguro yun ang use ng friends for us. i think gay people are very good friends and i guess they are like that for this purpose… este we are like that pala…

    i have to admit that i am currently in a situation where parang i am tempted to spend for the guy just to treat him lang what’s stopping me is that thought of becoming a “matrona” … bading an matrona pa nakakaloka… add pa natin na he already got a gf, who i am friends with, and they’re planning their wedding for next year. i tried to get out pero i just can’t help it. so iiyak na lang ako ng dugo next year… para sa pagibig… bring it on hehehe…

  12. fray_paoloOP said on 23-03-2007

    anton maton! ako rin….gusto ko maging querida….

  13. anton maton said on 23-03-2007

    hi closet! yup… im the one! aspiring to be a querida. where can i send my application letter and my CV? nyahahaha!

  14. closet case said on 23-03-2007

    did i read somebody wanting to be a querida??? you want to apply?

  15. inday_garalgal said on 23-03-2007

    Migs wen wud u post the continuation of boracay EB? hmp anong petsa na?

  16. effie said on 23-03-2007

    i say no. kuripot ako, at walang ibang taong makikinabang ng yaman ko, period. =)

  17. Lordvader said on 23-03-2007

    guess, if you have 4 savings account and 2 dollar accounts and if your at least earning 100,000 pesos a month and you have stock bonds in at least 3 blue chip companies, and you have a fully furnished house worth 2.5 million and you have 3 cars all of which are either BMWs or JAGUARS and your friends have surnames ending in Araneta, Ayala or Zobel. Then it’s not really a problem.

    Yet, it is not really the money, its always the person or the entity handling the money. I dear say my friend, that your sending a very wrong impression here. People of low level intelligence might be inclined towards the idea that spending “money” on a very arrogant, ignorant, and selfish hustler is ok.

    To tell you honestly, I’m so aghast upon reading your entry. Many may say that its ok, if in fact he is really good-looking. And it may also depend on the reason why you are spending money on that hustler. Do you actually do the same things that you do to that hustler with your FRIENDS and RELATIVES?

    Either way, it’s your life. You spend your money the way you want to spend it. Your rich, i think, based on your infamous statement that money is not a problem.

    I just hope your “intelligent” enough to figure things out. Stupidity has no place in this world.

  18. bogart said on 23-03-2007

    i must admit, i’ve been like this before… no, not the mangga but the daddy… i’m stupid when i’m in love….

  19. Rasheed said on 23-03-2007

    I read the Cute-Manga post and it seems that the cute guy is not as thick as the Sugar Daddy blogger says he is. He is certainly thick-faced in asking for so many things, with no sex yet, and then telling the Sugar Daddy that he’s getting married next month! At this point I think Sugar Daddy should just drop Cute-Manga immediately and try to minimize the damage already done to his ego and bank balance!

  20. cabinboi said on 23-03-2007

    heller? are you buying love? well this is my opinion and heres what i do. first meeting and after that i wont give him what i can give. ill have restrictions. kasi i myself would doubt kung ako ba mahal nya or the things i can give to him na obviously he cant afford. even if kami na i would stil not give it ol. cguro after a year or more. and to have not this dilemme, mamili ng super hott na, super rich pa. hahaha. just as i have right now.

  21. anton maton said on 23-03-2007

    sugar daddy? bakit – mukha ba akong ATM? sorry na lang sila at maganda pa rin ang lola mong itu! mahaba at shiny ang buhok at higit sa lahat – may asim!

    gusto ko talaga maging isang querida!yung lang!

    still aspiring to be a querida,

    anton maton

  22. red_hot said on 23-03-2007

    Ay wow naging chatroom and site na eto….VIRGIN pa ba si Migs???

  23. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    hahhaha….sorry po sa mr. moderator….sorry andrew…..di rin kase pwede ma post yung URL ko eh…

  24. andrew said on 23-03-2007

    Anu ba yun, parang ginawa na nating chatroom ‘tong MGG, Bakekang, haha! Pasensya na Migs. :)

    Kung gusto mo, ‘kaw na lang ang mag-post dito ng Friendster account mo. Add na lang kita. Mas malakas naman ‘ata ang loob mo sa’kin eh, hehe! ;)

  25. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    pano yan? hay nako…guess…di na tayo magkikita pa….. :( la ka bang work? breaktime mo? dito kase 1:12am na…di ako makatulog….

  26. andrew said on 23-03-2007

    Wala na… si Cliogoddess na ang ultimate virgin. Nagsara na lahat ng butas na pedeng pasukin sa kanya ultimo pores sa apat na taong pagkatigang, hihihi! *klap, klap, klap* :P Jowk lang.

    Bakekang, meron akong Friendster kaya lang nahihiya akong i-post dito. Baka kasi i-view ako ng mga tao dito tapos lait-laitin lang ako ng iba, hehe! Although di ako panget huh. (Defensive??? Hahaha!) :D

  27. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    hay nako cliogoddess, si dr. belo ang solusyon dyan…..wag mong gastusin ang pera mo sa mga lalaki….sa pampapaganda mo gamitin…..marami ngayong bagong services si doktora!….e anu ngayon ang status mo? gumagastos ka pa rin ba? baka naman meron ka dyan? pashare naman…..whahahaha

  28. cliogoddess said on 23-03-2007

    nagkakamabutihan ang mga potah, hehehe. masasabi ko lang, i had 3 bf’s and never naging issue samin ang money, pero that was 4 years ago. nagyon matanda nko, wala na yatang nagkakagus2 sakin, (CHOZE) pero still im not desperate to pay for attention and company. yun nga lang tigang ako for 4 years, bwahahahaha

  29. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    Virgin? whahahaha….well, di sya katulad ng Rainbow room dyan sa atin( na puro kalaswaan ang laman)….The rainbow Room is the observation deck of the Empire state building…..ang ganda pag nandun ka sa taas…grabe! may friendster ka?

  30. andrew said on 23-03-2007

    Pede din si Charlotte kasi virgin ako, gaya ni Migs, hihihi! :D

    What’s a rainbow room? Nakakaintriga ang pangalan ah. Anung meron don?

  31. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    andrew….

    walang problema! hahahahah. talang si carrie pa ha! dalhin kita sa rainbow room…..and i bet, makakalimutan mo kung ano pangalan mo pag kasama mo ako dun….

  32. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    hay nako josh…namimiss ko na nga kristal at charisma tagal ko nang di nakakapanood ng kapuso….sana magkaroon kami ng local gma dito, available lang sya kase sa direct TV. speaking of what garalgal was saying, kung marami ka namang pera garalgal, why not di ba?

  33. andrew said on 23-03-2007

    Inday_garalgal, I need help. Hihihi! :P

    Manay_BakekangMD, siguro nga tama ka. Sige, tayo na lang dalawa, masaya pa. Padalhan mo’ko ng ticket papunta jan. Gusto ko mag-tour sa Manhattan a la Carrie Bradshaw. Hihihi! :D

  34. inday_garalgal said on 23-03-2007

    why NOT? im GAY as a goose! some people get their sense of being when they help others that includes boyfriends huh! so if u guys need some help just hit me :)

  35. josh said on 23-03-2007

    haaaayy, it is in this situation that you really say that “tigah is one lucky guy for having pooh!”

  36. josh said on 23-03-2007

    mahal ba pamasahe dyan? baka may roro papunta dyan, go me dyan kagad. (lov ya bakekang, musta na kristal at charisma???)

  37. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    tama ka josh…dali punta ka dito sa new york…i totour kita kung yan gusto mo…

  38. josh said on 23-03-2007

    mga tol, dapat yata eh tayo tayo nalang mag “date” para kkb ang gastos!

  39. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    andrew….. :( kakadepress nga…pero reality bites…gusto mo tayo na lang dalawa? wala pang money involve….hahahahah joke! peace tau!

  40. andrew said on 23-03-2007

    Bigla naman akong nalungkot sa mga nabasa ko, kasi bigla kong naisip na nangyayari talaga itong issue na’to sa totong buhay, na parang dumarating sa punto ng buhay ng mga bading na parang bumibili na lang sila ng pagmamahal (or even just company). Masakit pero totoo, diba?

    Nabiktima kasi ako ng ganyan ng unang bf ko. Freshness pa’ko non, kakatuntong lang ng 18. Sya naman eh mid to late 20s na, mataba, masama ang ugali, chaka; in other words, a pathetic excuse for a bf and human being. Sa edad kong 18 eh nagawa nya akong paikutin at gatasan. Pero dahil nga bulag ang pag-ibig, hindi ko na namalayan yun. Nagising lang ako nang mahalata kong medyo wala na’kong madukot sa bulsa ko at nangangailangan na ng pagsulsi.

    Iniwan din nya ako eventually — it’s the only thing I was grateful for in our so-called relationship.

    I’m 27 now and have vowed not to commit the same pitiful mistake. But who knows, diba?

    Migs, ano ba namang topic ito? Nakaka-depress… :(

  41. Mikee said on 23-03-2007

    .. and I highly suggest pag ginamit ka, gamitin mo din siya.

  42. Mikee said on 23-03-2007

    Sugar Daddy na walang sex! Kaloka yan ha… sasakit ulo ko dian…

  43. jholou said on 23-03-2007

    as long as i don’t over spend…

  44. homie said on 23-03-2007

    Been there, done that – don’t want to go that way again, as in ever…Generosity gives you a ego-trip but you can only go so far as your money holds..

  45. chismoso said on 23-03-2007

    confessions of a chismoso…

    sadly, we do stupid things when we are in love.

    i’m not ugly. in fact, i’ve had a lot of admirers, suitors, and the like. the main fault I have is that when I fall in love, I fall HARD.

    I was in a long distance relationship and I spent for everything. When i’d go to where he was, I’d spend for my transportation and accomodations. Whenever he’d come to Manila, I’d pay for his transportation, food, and accomodations. Heck! I’d even give him shopping money!

    All of these at a young age of 26!!!

    Sometimes, we don’t realize how much we’re spending if our heart is doing the dictating.

  46. manay_bakekangMD said on 23-03-2007

    i agree with gina cole…i’ve been there and done that but at the end of the day, ikaw di ang mamumulubi….reality check lang, pag ikaw ba ang nawalan ng pera, tutulungan ka ba nya??? hell, noh, da bah?

  47. rommel said on 23-03-2007

    if hes super cute go for it. Kung chaka wiz

  48. Gina Cole said on 23-03-2007

    well..i think i can help…or let’s say support someone…but not to the point of the other party becoming mendicant. namputsa naman…pati pang-fitness first sa iyo pa naka-charge…magbuhat na lang siya ng sako! abah, kukuha na lang ako ng kargador sa quiapo…low maintenance pa! kaunting make-over lang din ang kailangan…iyung mga ala-julio diaz at alan paule ang dating….lamang tiyan din iyon ineng…ika nga ni aling bebang…sing sarap pero di sing mahal..wais talaga! Iyan ang Surf!

  49. daemoneyes said on 23-03-2007

    sad to say… this is a setup that im all too familiar with…

    ashamed as i am to say this, im in this type of relationship…

    im the sugar daddy.

    although it hurts being used (i think)… its the closest thing that i will ever get to having a relationship with a cute guy…

    stupid noh?

    reason behind it… im sick of trying my luck to do it the “right” way… coz i dont even get to the getting-to-know-you-part…

    guys shut-me-down even before i say a single word…

    so in weighing the two…

    getting rejected over and over again vs being with somebody who, at the surface, seems to be just using me…

    id choose the latter…

  50. chad said on 23-03-2007

    hindi. dapat ako ang gagastusan. :P

  51. chu chu caracas said on 23-03-2007

    nakakaloka… bakla na nga bangko pa hehehe…

    pero sad naman nun kung nagiging friendly lang sayo yung isang tao dahil meron siya nakukuha in return.

  52. Jack Cool said on 23-03-2007

    Hitting two birds with one stone – Pleasure and Generosity (or alms). Hehe, o nga pala, kaming dalawa- two birds.

  53. midnightsoul said on 23-03-2007

    of course NO! that will never be sweet, it would make the other person think na ok lang ang libre which is not good… ever if money is not an issue. let’s admit that sometimes it’s good to give but when you realize that the favor is not being returned, hmmm… you need to think honey!

  54. Lordvader said on 23-03-2007

    Hell no. Sometimes, we always say that money is never the issue not until the other person does something wrong, then we try to remember all the amounts we had spent to make such relationship work. I may spend, but spending on everything? I’ll think again.

  55. L.A said on 23-03-2007

    Haha why not! If super cute nung guy and besides kung kaya ko lang naman maging Sugar Daddy haha…but no am not!

    DYOSA ako eh at hindi Sugar Daddy hahaha!

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