Comments on: Tragic Coming Out Story http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/ I say again, "World Peace!" Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:24:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: yhaj http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-278058 yhaj Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:31:55 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-278058 yeah, exactly the same thing happened to me 2 years ago when I was in Manila.. gosh, ngayon ko lng nabasa tong blog nato.... sayang... sa sm north ito nangyari, same guy I guess, and the same scenario... i felt sad dahil naalala ko n nman ung pinaka down moment ng buhay ko.... Kakauwi ko lng dat time galing me sa UAE... i dont have any idea n may mga ganyang modus operandi na sa tingin ko kasabwat ung mga pulis. Ang mali ko lang is naunahan ako ng takot at ayoko ng eskandalo... So I asked help from my close frend para masettled n ung issue.. Then, un nga it ends up on paying at least half of it. OK na un at least ganun lng nangyari sakin... hehe...Sana maging lesson ito para sa lahat. THanks... yeah, exactly the same thing happened to me 2 years ago when I was in Manila.. gosh, ngayon ko lng nabasa tong blog nato…. sayang…

sa sm north ito nangyari, same guy I guess, and the same scenario…

i felt sad dahil naalala ko n nman ung pinaka down moment ng buhay ko….

Kakauwi ko lng dat time galing me sa UAE… i dont have any idea n may mga ganyang modus operandi na sa tingin ko kasabwat ung mga pulis.

Ang mali ko lang is naunahan ako ng takot at ayoko ng eskandalo…

So I asked help from my close frend para masettled n ung issue..

Then, un nga it ends up on paying at least half of it. OK na un at least ganun lng nangyari sakin…

hehe…Sana maging lesson ito para sa lahat.

THanks…

]]> By: raymond http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-108047 raymond Sun, 28 Dec 2008 17:38:01 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-108047 hahaha pangcomedy ang acting mo, anyway sana madala na tayo sa ganun, mas mabuti pa makipagrelasyon na lang sa mga estudyante sa mga unebersidad hehehe hahaha

pangcomedy ang acting mo,

anyway sana madala na tayo sa ganun, mas mabuti pa makipagrelasyon na lang sa mga estudyante sa mga unebersidad hehehe

]]> By: dave http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-104983 dave Sun, 02 Nov 2008 05:54:06 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-104983 that was my first and last na kumuha at nagtiwala ako sa taong diko kilala na dinala ko agad sa place ko. i learned my lesson not to trust a person immediately. Lastly pag kinakati na ako dina ako basta pumapatol kahit kanino, kinikilatis ko muna ang pagkatao nya bago namin gawin ang bagay na sekswal. i can have sex to anyone for free pero mahirap maekandalo. Dalawa lang choice, whether patulan mo agad pero bandang huli ay mag iiskandalo sya or kilalanin mo mun aang pagkatao nya at baka may chance pang maging best buddy mo sya. kung ako papapiliin i go for the second choice, safe na safe ako sa second choice. 

]]> By: dave http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-104982 dave Sun, 02 Nov 2008 05:44:34 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-104982 ako rin i had that very bad experience with the guy i met in BUENDIA PASAY, hindi naman po sa pagmamayabang pero may konting ganda rin naman ako infact sya mismo ang lumapit sa akin at sabi nya TRIP daw kami, sabi ko baka may bayad yan, ang sagot nya NO! TRIP LANG,  without knowing na may masama pala syang intention, honestly may itsura din naman sya, matangkad, moreno at weakness ko talaga ang mga semi-cal na parang hoodlum ang dating, pero sa totoo lang mas may itsura pa ako at mas malaki pa ang aking armas kesa sa kanya at dun ko rin napatunayan na pag matangkad pala ay kabaliktaran sa kanyang armas. In short, i brought him to my condo and do the usual thing. after naming magkapakalunod sa kaligayahan, he started demanding for 5,000 as payment for his services, i was shocked at first pero di ako nagpahalata na takot ako pero ng magsimula na syang mag taas ng boses at tinakot akong bubuksan ang pintuan at tatawag daw sya ng guard sa building namin dun ako nakaramdam ng PANIC AT TAKOT na mabuking ang pinaka tago-tago kong sikreto. To make the story short i settled to pay him the amount of 5,000. A month after nakita ko sya by accident at talagang hinahanting ko sya kung pano ako makakaganti sa ginawa nya sa akin dahil sa totoo lang natakot talaga ng husto at nahihiya rin ako na maeskandalo sa mga kapitbahay ko sa condong tinitirhan ko. Nung makita ko sya ulit sa Pier 1 sa Pasay tinawagan ko ang tropa kong mga tambay sa pasay at hinintay namin na lalabas sya ng Pier 1 at ng naglalakad sya siguro wala syang booking that nyt, pinabug-bog ko sya sa mga ka tropa kong tambay. Ang saya-saya ko that nyt dahil finally nakaganti narin ako sa kanya pero di ako nagpakita dahil baka balikan nya ako. Ang bottom line lang ay nakaganti at maturuan sya ng leksyon para dina sya makapambiktima pa ulit. (Just want to clarify yung tropa kong mga tambay sa pasay ay di nila alam ang sikreto ko basta ang sabi ko lang sa kanila may atraso ang guy na yun sa isa kong kaibigan).

]]> By: Zypher http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-79028 Zypher Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:17:27 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-79028 Q, this was a very frustrating and traumatic experience for you, same with Joshua, how can a person with an evil plan in mind still cum at sa mouth mo pa Q sana man lang kinagat mo para nasaktan at nakabawi ka, sarap sanang mahuli ito at pitikin natin ang s....m n'ya hanggang sa maging century egg, anybody out there that can do something about this hustler to stop his evil works or else he will victimize our comrades all over and over again at this guy might become rich in the future kasama ang mga 'nyetang police na iyan. Plz somebody who knows the law or has connections with law? this people needs to be punished or else they will not going to stop unless they're being caught and pay for what they did. Migs, do you know anybody who can help Q and Joshua to get even with this guys and to some other victims in the past? ingat mga kapatid, this was scary and hope all lessons had been learned. God Bless!!! Q, this was a very frustrating and traumatic experience for you, same with Joshua, how can a person with an evil plan in mind still cum at sa mouth mo pa Q sana man lang kinagat mo para nasaktan at nakabawi ka, sarap sanang mahuli ito at pitikin natin ang s….m n’ya hanggang sa maging century egg, anybody out there that can do something about this hustler to stop his evil works or else he will victimize our comrades all over and over again at this guy might become rich in the future kasama ang mga ‘nyetang police na iyan. Plz somebody who knows the law or has connections with law? this people needs to be punished or else they will not going to stop unless they’re being caught and pay for what they did. Migs, do you know anybody who can help Q and Joshua to get even with this guys and to some other victims in the past? ingat mga kapatid, this was scary and hope all lessons had been learned. God Bless!!!

]]> By: fatboyslim http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-76748 fatboyslim Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:24:56 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-76748 Q, A lot of people have similar experiences like you. People who are afraid to be outed, had to pay to enjoy sex in life. But dont let this experience hinder you to grow. I know its very traumatic but life has to move on Its sad that ur sis and bro had to know it this way. But everything happens for a reason. Maybe this will teach you to choose the people you talk to. We are in the same boat. We have a lot (and I mean A LOT) of things in common. Im also overweight I usually make stambay at SM North Edsa I have chinese features (bec Im chinese) I can totally relate to your story of having problems hooking up with guys. But there r other ways (safer ways) to find a partner than going to the mall and hooking up with total strangers! If u happen to read this posting of mine, feel free to email me fatboyslimden@yahoo.com so we can talk. You need someone to get over this trauma that happened to you. I might be someone whom u can talked to! Q,

A lot of people have similar experiences like you. People who are afraid to be outed, had to pay to enjoy sex in life. But dont let this experience hinder you to grow. I know its very traumatic but life has to move on

Its sad that ur sis and bro had to know it this way. But everything happens for a reason. Maybe this will teach you to choose the people you talk to.

We are in the same boat. We have a lot (and I mean A LOT) of things in common.

Im also overweight
I usually make stambay at SM North Edsa
I have chinese features (bec Im chinese)
I can totally relate to your story of having problems hooking up with guys.

But there r other ways (safer ways) to find a partner than going to the mall and hooking up with total strangers!

If u happen to read this posting of mine, feel free to email me fatboyslimden@yahoo.com so we can talk. You need someone to get over this trauma that happened to you. I might be someone whom u can talked to!

]]> By: hallowqueen http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-51135 hallowqueen Sun, 18 Nov 2007 10:54:40 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-51135 I'm a law student and there is NOTHING in our Revised Penal COde that punishes a male who pays another male to have sex. The definition of a prostitute in our laws is a WOMAN who gets paid (in money or otherwise) for sex. Unless you has sex with a minor, technically you committed no crime! Next time sister, threaten them that you have a lawyer. Before the police arrests you, you should be INFORMED of your rights. If they don't do that they are criminally and administratively liable. I’m a law student and there is NOTHING in our Revised Penal COde that punishes a male who pays another male to have sex. The definition of a prostitute in our laws is a WOMAN who gets paid (in money or otherwise) for sex. Unless you has sex with a minor, technically you committed no crime!

Next time sister, threaten them that you have a lawyer. Before the police arrests you, you should be INFORMED of your rights. If they don’t do that they are criminally and administratively liable.

]]> By: stranger http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-45363 stranger Wed, 17 Oct 2007 09:53:23 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-45363 how stupid are you guys? to give these boys such big amounts?? if he agreed with 400 why the hell do you give them then about 20000?? strange to me. if he is making a scene maybe give a tip 600 or 800 all it all. but please not more. they will do it again and again otherwise, if they see that it is so easy... how stupid are you guys? to give these boys such big amounts??
if he agreed with 400 why the hell do you give them then about 20000?? strange to me.
if he is making a scene maybe give a tip 600 or 800 all it all. but please not more.
they will do it again and again otherwise, if they see that it is so easy…

]]> By: bumble-bading http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-43328 bumble-bading Thu, 04 Oct 2007 17:40:22 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-43328 Tragic man o hindi...at least nakapag out ka....hindi tulad ko...closet pa din sa relatives.... Tragic man o hindi…at least nakapag out ka….hindi tulad ko…closet pa din sa relatives….

]]> By: Joshua http://manilagayguy.net/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-38199 Joshua Wed, 29 Aug 2007 05:09:45 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/04/02/tragic-coming-out-story/#comment-38199 Q, shet!, Ngayon ko lang to nabasa, "It" happened to me last night. Almost same scenario. I was walking in SM North, eye contacted with this guy, asked me if gusto ko daw gumimik, and eventualy went to this hotel in Caloocan. Is this the motel kung saan may police post sa driveway nung motel? If it is, dun na nga. I really don't want to feel yung nervous na nangyari sa akin last night. He's asking me 40,000K. And bullshit, ang galing umarte nung police na yun, kunwari mediator siya namin. Damn Modus Operandi! Tangina nila. And to settle the issue (coz the prostitute shouting at me na), we went to the atm machine nearby) and when he saw my account balance, he want me to withdraw all my money! Bullshit!. Buti nalang unavailbale pa yung kakpasok ko lang na paycheck this week. It ended up na i gave hin 19K. (but stil anlaki pa rin nung amount ) Akala ko, mabubulgar na yung "the real" me sa media at sa family ko. Hindi na ako nagmatigas and i really wanna settle the thing immediately kaya i gave in na rin. Q, i want to talk to you in person. Sobrang natrauma din ako sa nangyari. And alam mo yun... pinaghirapan mong trabahuin yung money, tas mawawala na lang na ganun ganun nalang. email me Q. roflux3000@yahoo.com. I also feel the sentiment. Q, shet!,

Ngayon ko lang to nabasa, “It” happened to me last night. Almost same scenario. I was walking in SM North, eye contacted with this guy, asked me if gusto ko daw gumimik, and eventualy went to this hotel in Caloocan. Is this the motel kung saan may police post sa driveway nung motel? If it is, dun na nga.

I really don’t want to feel yung nervous na nangyari sa akin last night. He’s asking me 40,000K. And bullshit, ang galing umarte nung police na yun, kunwari mediator siya namin. Damn Modus Operandi! Tangina nila. And to settle the issue (coz the prostitute shouting at me na), we went to the atm machine nearby) and when he saw my account balance, he want me to withdraw all my money! Bullshit!. Buti nalang unavailbale pa yung kakpasok ko lang na paycheck this week. It ended up na i gave hin 19K. (but stil anlaki pa rin nung amount )

Akala ko, mabubulgar na yung “the real” me sa media at sa family ko. Hindi na ako nagmatigas and i really wanna settle the thing immediately kaya i gave in na rin.

Q, i want to talk to you in person. Sobrang natrauma din ako sa nangyari. And alam mo yun… pinaghirapan mong trabahuin yung money, tas mawawala na lang na ganun ganun nalang. email me Q. roflux3000@yahoo.com.

I also feel the sentiment.

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