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	<description>I say again, "World Peace!"</description>
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		<title>By: pio</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2007/07/01/fishes-in-a-terrarium/#comment-35958</link>
		<dc:creator>pio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2007 20:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>isa na lang:
problema din kc sa mga Pinoy, masyadong sinusunod ang &quot;western&quot; definition of being gay. Alam nyo naman dun, uso ang &quot;no gray areas, always black or white, nothing in-between&quot;.

mas comparable ata tayo sa Europeans, or conservatism of middle-easterns and other asians such as Japanese and Indians.

Minsan kc iba lang talaga ang libog sa kapwa lalake, pero di naman dapat ipagkait sa sarili ang magkaroon ng asawa at anak. basta dapat alam natin ang priorities in life, hindi yung tipong nasa &quot;guilty&quot; side lagi. 

Sa akin kc, iba ang libog, iba din ang pagiging &quot;may planong normal sa buhay&quot;. 

others cannot do it, others do it with guilt, but in my case, i can live with it, be happy and have no guilt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>isa na lang:<br />
problema din kc sa mga Pinoy, masyadong sinusunod ang &#8220;western&#8221; definition of being gay. Alam nyo naman dun, uso ang &#8220;no gray areas, always black or white, nothing in-between&#8221;.</p>
<p>mas comparable ata tayo sa Europeans, or conservatism of middle-easterns and other asians such as Japanese and Indians.</p>
<p>Minsan kc iba lang talaga ang libog sa kapwa lalake, pero di naman dapat ipagkait sa sarili ang magkaroon ng asawa at anak. basta dapat alam natin ang priorities in life, hindi yung tipong nasa &#8220;guilty&#8221; side lagi. </p>
<p>Sa akin kc, iba ang libog, iba din ang pagiging &#8220;may planong normal sa buhay&#8221;. </p>
<p>others cannot do it, others do it with guilt, but in my case, i can live with it, be happy and have no guilt.</p>
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		<title>By: pio</title>
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		<dc:creator>pio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2007 20:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>there are women naman who prefer to have a gay closeted man as husband or yung tipong mejo may inkling sila na mejo silahista. and more often it is something not discussed. for as long as mahal siya ng asawa niya kahit machong bading yung husband niya and basta discreet, ok lang sa kanila. mas gusto nila minsan na sa kapwa guys magloo ang husband kesa sa babae.

Still, mas maganda if open ang communication, not just a gray area not spoken between husband and wife about his &quot;dual&quot; sexuality. There are plenty of relationships like that existing, and the good thing kc is they have respect for each other. And dapat, love mo din naman talaga si misis and dapat you must fulfill her needs too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>there are women naman who prefer to have a gay closeted man as husband or yung tipong mejo may inkling sila na mejo silahista. and more often it is something not discussed. for as long as mahal siya ng asawa niya kahit machong bading yung husband niya and basta discreet, ok lang sa kanila. mas gusto nila minsan na sa kapwa guys magloo ang husband kesa sa babae.</p>
<p>Still, mas maganda if open ang communication, not just a gray area not spoken between husband and wife about his &#8220;dual&#8221; sexuality. There are plenty of relationships like that existing, and the good thing kc is they have respect for each other. And dapat, love mo din naman talaga si misis and dapat you must fulfill her needs too.</p>
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		<title>By: It's Raining (Str8acting Gay) Men! &#124; manila gay guy</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2007/07/01/fishes-in-a-terrarium/#comment-35095</link>
		<dc:creator>It's Raining (Str8acting Gay) Men! &#124; manila gay guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2007 02:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] it was Gus, the gay man who has a wife who doesn&#8217;t know, 2 beautiful daughters, and one gay querida [...]</description>
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		<title>By: duane</title>
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		<dc:creator>duane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2007 09:13:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>tama ka gus pag gay ka gay ka 4 ever ito ka na.... i know coz i just have a friend just like you gus. that hthey just keep fighting but the wife knows his gay.so no scaping 4 being gay if you want to live free as a gay men....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>tama ka gus pag gay ka gay ka 4 ever ito ka na&#8230;. i know coz i just have a friend just like you gus. that hthey just keep fighting but the wife knows his gay.so no scaping 4 being gay if you want to live free as a gay men&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: To All Married Gay Men &#124; manila gay guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>To All Married Gay Men &#124; manila gay guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2007 02:06:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Gus, to that guy who I slept with last Friday (no, not Gus), and to all married gay men (including [...]</description>
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<p>[...] Gus, to that guy who I slept with last Friday (no, not Gus), and to all married gay men (including [...]</p>
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		<title>By: my yellow shirt mended</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2007/07/01/fishes-in-a-terrarium/#comment-32905</link>
		<dc:creator>my yellow shirt mended</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 15:28:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isang dagdag lang, kaya pala wala akong male friends. Too damn gay.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isang dagdag lang, kaya pala wala akong male friends. Too damn gay.</p>
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		<title>By: hustlingmind</title>
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		<dc:creator>hustlingmind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2007 12:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I once asked my wife, what if magkaanak tayo ng bading? for awhile natigilan siya then replied... 

&quot;iiyakan ko siguro ng mga isang buwan but after that tatanungin ko na kung anong bagay na lipstick sa akin!&quot;

hehehe. true story yan. my point of view?

gaya ng asawa ko iiyakan ko din and maybe I&#039;ll teach him how to be clever pagdating sa mga boys. sino pa ba ang pinaka the best na teacher?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once asked my wife, what if magkaanak tayo ng bading? for awhile natigilan siya then replied&#8230; </p>
<p>&#8220;iiyakan ko siguro ng mga isang buwan but after that tatanungin ko na kung anong bagay na lipstick sa akin!&#8221;</p>
<p>hehehe. true story yan. my point of view?</p>
<p>gaya ng asawa ko iiyakan ko din and maybe I&#8217;ll teach him how to be clever pagdating sa mga boys. sino pa ba ang pinaka the best na teacher?</p>
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		<title>By: Spanky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Spanky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mahal ko na si Papa Gus! hehehe</description>
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		<title>By: antonella</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2007/07/01/fishes-in-a-terrarium/#comment-32487</link>
		<dc:creator>antonella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2007 04:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HAPPY 4TH OF jULY TO ALL....INDEPENDENCE DAY TO AMERICANS &amp; FIL-AM FRIENDSHIP DAY TO FILIPINOS &amp; AMERICANS AS WELL....Nice posts and comments and personal observations....all i can say for the moment is ...AMEN!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HAPPY 4TH OF jULY TO ALL&#8230;.INDEPENDENCE DAY TO AMERICANS &amp; FIL-AM FRIENDSHIP DAY TO FILIPINOS &amp; AMERICANS AS WELL&#8230;.Nice posts and comments and personal observations&#8230;.all i can say for the moment is &#8230;AMEN!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Eugene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eugene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2007 01:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To chismoso:

I&#039;ve only been able to access this website again just now.  I have to admit the volume of internet traffic to Migz website is turning me off sometimes, particularly with the unresolved CPU problem. 

When I pondered the article&#039;s title anew, I also got your point that Migz was referring to gays married to women being in a situation that was not meant for them... like &quot;fish out of water&quot; or &quot;fish on dry land&quot;, thus &quot;fishes in a terrarium&quot;.    Thanks for enlightening me.  

For my closing remarks, as Ellen DeGeneres&#039; character as Dory in &quot;Finding Nemo&quot; would say: let&#039;s &quot;keep on swimming&quot;! :-P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To chismoso:</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve only been able to access this website again just now.  I have to admit the volume of internet traffic to Migz website is turning me off sometimes, particularly with the unresolved CPU problem. </p>
<p>When I pondered the article&#8217;s title anew, I also got your point that Migz was referring to gays married to women being in a situation that was not meant for them&#8230; like &#8220;fish out of water&#8221; or &#8220;fish on dry land&#8221;, thus &#8220;fishes in a terrarium&#8221;.    Thanks for enlightening me.  </p>
<p>For my closing remarks, as Ellen DeGeneres&#8217; character as Dory in &#8220;Finding Nemo&#8221; would say: let&#8217;s &#8220;keep on swimming&#8221;! <img src='http://manilagayguy.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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