Well, being gay is not a choice. I strongly believe “in-born” siya. It’s up to him kung kelan niya mare-realize yun…and the manifestations are getting stronger as you grow up.
While it’s not the most desirable thing to see, if that’s how they want to express themselves, I see no point in stopping them. Age has nothing to do with it.
Our individuality and freedom of expression are fundamental rights – as long as they don’t expect me to hang out with them, haha.
gosh, thank goodness i wasnt like that when i was younger otherwise my family would have disowned me for bringing them shame..
mga ineng, mag-aral muna kayo bago makipaglandian.. gayahin nyo ako, tingnan nyo ngayon dahil nag-aral ako manggupit ng buhok.. successful hairdresser na.. nyahahaha
That is basically what we call “Freedom of expression and choices”. Wala na lang pakialaman ng mga gusto at ayaw ng bawat isa for as long na di ka makaagrayado ng buhay ng ibang tao. Pag nangyari ito, tiyak na tatahimik na ang buong mundo. I rest my case….
Courageous, confident. They look fabulous. With regards to fashion sense, hayaan na lang natin ‘yan, cause their taste will change and become better naman as they grow older. Look at them girls go ‘n pose. It’s as if they’re giving it to the MGG readers and their straight-acting, “bi-curious”, muscle and abs consternations!
kakalowka ang pic na yan.. It always makes me laugh.. hahaha.
sana manay nagpahaba na rin kayo ng hair para mas may effect. ay kaso baka di pwede sa school ano?
anyway.. goodluck sa inyo!
Reading comments here and in other sites, may it be for queer nor straight, makes me realize that the idea of freedom of expression and thought is often abused or taken forgranted here in our country to cater to one person or to one group’s gain.
Yes, it’s freedom of expression but there are still certain moral standards that we have to keep in mind. No, these kids are not doing anything wrong but yes i agree to one of the comments earlier by Fernando IX…
Anyway, even us lawyers, don’t have a clear definition on when the case is “Freedom of Expression” or “Misuse of our Freedom of Expression.” Masyado kasing matatalino ang mga pinoy, we always find loop holes in anything, especially us gay men…
Haha. Like jholou, I knew I was gay since I was a kid, but I never got the urge to go all female. I also agree with misterhubs. That they may be too young to start using those things without fully understanding the implications of using them.
i’m in a toss up. on one side there’s individuality, on the other side is parental responsibility.
you wouldn’t want your younger sister all hoed up, do you?
same goes for gay young boys. we should raise our gay young boys to be self-respecting and tolerant of what others may feel about them. and then when they turn eighteen, queverla! hahahaha. mag makeup kang parang wala nang bukas, wala akong pakialam! dalaga ka na! parang debut ba.
pero ang mga dalaginding dapat prim and proper. simple. like maximo oliveros. tshirt at shorts lang. tsaka konting baby powder. LOL!
its okay to be gutsy, but not like this. this is an inappropriate move. They need guidance from their parents, and they should not be lenient with this (or baka sa bahay pa macho effect ang mga to). but bottomline, they are too young to wear skimpy and slutty looking outfits like those, heck those are not even an outfit, its bandanas for love’s sake..
disgusting!!! absolutely! but it’s supposed to be a “free” world–to each his own. pity these kids–they’ll probably get beaten up more times than one can imagine.
gosh, nakakatawa ang mga gay homophobes dito..
instead na support at tolerance ang ipakita sa kapwa bading, sila pa ang puro prejudice at bigotry.
kailangan bang maging intolerant tayo sa iba to feel good about ourselves at sabihing mas better tayo sa ibang gays?
kung walang effeminate sa society, hindi maeexpose ang society sa existence ng gay community at kung walang visibility ang gay community, hindi marerecognize ang ating karapatan sa lipunan
instead na magpadikta tayo sa society na ok lang mambugbog ng mga bakla, why not change our thinking at maging ehemplo ng tolerance at respect sa society
kahit ano pang decent ang pananamit niyo sa society, society will always frown upon you because you’re gays
imbis na kayo ang magdikta sa lipunan na MALI ang prejudice at BIGOTRY, kayo ang nagpapadikta sa lipunan na ok lang magdiscriminate ng mga gays dahil sa iba sila
there’s always a perfect time and place for everything. we are called to observe proper demeanor. yes, these kids deviate from social norms. as more mature and responsible members of the gay community i reckon that we need to step up for them instead of lambasting them.
kakaiba! i don’t think there’s such a thing as too early to be gay, but…kung parent ka ba hahayaan mo ang anak mong lalaki na makihalubilo sa kanila at this age?!?!? i don’t want to be mean or anything like that, but i also don’t want to be a hypocrite myself by saying that that is their expression of individual yet will never entertain the thought that this will happen to my children…perhaps the ones above who take the line of individuality are willing to do so, then so be it…am just expressing my own ideas.
yes, most parents wouldn’t want their kids to become gay
meron akong kalaro, we’re the same age then, mga 8 years kami, binabae siya pero hindi siya nagbibihis babae at tinutuksong bakla sa neigborhood namin. yung tatay niya macho at yun binugbog siya para tumino at magpakalalaki. kung sana naaccept siya ng parents, hindi mangyayari yun….. it’s unhealthy sa mga bata na irepress ang feelings nila. bilang mga adults, dapat mas naiintindihan natin ang kalagayan nila. weve been there, at bilang mga gays, dapat mas alam nating, mahirap irepress ang feelings at magtago…
after few months ng pambubugbog ng tatay niya, nagsuicide siya. masyado akong naapektuhan sa pangyayaring dahil narealize ko kung gaano kahirap maging gay at alam kong gay ako since i was 5.
I suggest na ayusin muna nila profesional life nila kasi mahal ang mga make-up kit at mga accesories. besides, kokonti lang ang mga bading na hindi successful… hehehe…
cguro ok lang na magladlad sila pero wag naman to the point magpapakababa sila na lalabas silang kabastos-bastos sa harap ng ibang tao.
at tama, hindi madali ang buhay ng mga bading (from my own experience, emotionally draining po…as in sobra!) kaya maging responsible sila sa mga actions nila and respect other people para respetuhin ka rin nila.
at saka pag umibig dont give 100%…magtira po para sa sarili!
[...] here they are, ayaw paawat ever!, our batang badings singing their Pen-pen de Sarapen badingerzie edition! Sing with meeeh! Pen pen de chorvaloo de [...]
diba gay rin tayo? diba dapat tayo ang unang umiintindi sa mga batang ito?
hindi ka ba dumaan sa pagkabata? diba super hirap iexpress ang emotions? ako, myself… i still cry each night remembering how i hide my gayness. tapos may mga taong mapanghusga na lalaitin ka!
mas mainggit kayo sa mga baklang ito kasi as early as their teenhood…..they are capable of expressing themselves…hindi tulad ng mga pa-mhinta! i’m proud of them dahil sa murang edad…kinaya nila lahat ng prejudices at lumaban silad — at home, family, and society at large. kaya nga itong mga batang ito ang nagiging successful pagtanda – hair dresser, fashion designer, director, etc.
as far as i remeber bading na talaga ako… hindi ko talga matandaan na nagkagusto ako sa kahit na sinong babae or chovanes…
hindi ko na kailanagan ng bato para maging c darna kasi parang ako na c nanete medved ng pinanganak ako…
i saw a documentary much similar to this. i have a gut feeling that these teenage gays were featured on that i-witness docu.
maybe if i was in their age i’d probably prefer to wear skimpy clothing as well… but i don’t know…cos if you try to dig deeper it would look like you’re degrading yourself already… not to mention the shame you might bring to your family.
well, kudos to them for ‘expressing’ themselves. i think we can all just comment on sexuality issues but not judge or impose morality values.
go gurls! i really miss my gay friends in the Philippines. haaay. pero payo lang mga hija. mag-aral muna kayu at magtapos bago rumampa ng todo para “the future looks bright” sabi nga sa tv ad
its ok to be gay. but you must retain your dignity and honor. you must learn how to flow with this discriminating world. be not a cheap kind, but be refined, modest and finesse to attain your merit. don’t allow anyone to bring you down. BE SUCCESSFUL AND NO ONE COULD STEP ON YOU. like me, im a proud gay but im a successful doctor of medicine at St. Luke’s Medical Center, walang tumatapak sakin, bagkus ginagalang at nirerespeto nila ako. (naranasan kong matapakan, pero hindi ko na hinayaang maulit muli ito.)
dumadami na tayo…. what i hate is we are called the aids Carrier, I am Health Care Pro, and i just really hate hearing that, lets make a change…. a more different version huhuh if only i could.
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nah…i started to realized im gay when i was about 4…
jholou at Jul 20, 07 at 2:27 pm
Well, being gay is not a choice. I strongly believe “in-born” siya. It’s up to him kung kelan niya mare-realize yun…and the manifestations are getting stronger as you grow up.
Chris at Jul 20, 07 at 2:31 pm
No. But there is such a thing as being too young to wear bandana tops and shaving eyebrows.
Misterhubs at Jul 20, 07 at 2:47 pm
hear hear to misterhubs:)
khentutz at Jul 20, 07 at 3:13 pm
see, sexbomb is a great influence to children…
blueharajuku at Jul 20, 07 at 4:47 pm
While it’s not the most desirable thing to see, if that’s how they want to express themselves, I see no point in stopping them. Age has nothing to do with it.
Our individuality and freedom of expression are fundamental rights – as long as they don’t expect me to hang out with them, haha.
rOckY at Jul 20, 07 at 5:30 pm
OMG… little bro ko yun!!!
kidding heheheh
astroboi at Jul 20, 07 at 8:22 pm
gosh, thank goodness i wasnt like that when i was younger otherwise my family would have disowned me for bringing them shame..
mga ineng, mag-aral muna kayo bago makipaglandian.. gayahin nyo ako, tingnan nyo ngayon dahil nag-aral ako manggupit ng buhok.. successful hairdresser na.. nyahahaha
Fernando IX at Jul 20, 07 at 8:53 pm
to each his own yan.
mandayamoore at Jul 20, 07 at 8:58 pm
That is basically what we call “Freedom of expression and choices”. Wala na lang pakialaman ng mga gusto at ayaw ng bawat isa for as long na di ka makaagrayado ng buhay ng ibang tao. Pag nangyari ito, tiyak na tatahimik na ang buong mundo. I rest my case….
Sa_totoo_lang_ako _day at Jul 20, 07 at 9:28 pm
i admire them…for having the courage o wear those stuffs!!! hindi ko kayang gawin yan!!!
eric at Jul 20, 07 at 10:07 pm
Courageous, confident. They look fabulous.
With regards to fashion sense, hayaan na lang natin ‘yan, cause their taste will change and become better naman as they grow older. Look at them girls go ‘n pose. It’s as if they’re giving it to the MGG readers and their straight-acting, “bi-curious”, muscle and abs consternations!
Jedd at Jul 20, 07 at 11:29 pm
kakalowka ang pic na yan.. It always makes me laugh.. hahaha.
sana manay nagpahaba na rin kayo ng hair para mas may effect. ay kaso baka di pwede sa school ano?
anyway.. goodluck sa inyo!
Hi Migs..
chriscapade at Jul 21, 07 at 1:42 am
ang sarap magpakatotoo.
i’m proud of these teenagers
lesly at Jul 21, 07 at 3:19 am
Reading comments here and in other sites, may it be for queer nor straight, makes me realize that the idea of freedom of expression and thought is often abused or taken forgranted here in our country to cater to one person or to one group’s gain.
Yes, it’s freedom of expression but there are still certain moral standards that we have to keep in mind. No, these kids are not doing anything wrong but yes i agree to one of the comments earlier by Fernando IX…
Anyway, even us lawyers, don’t have a clear definition on when the case is “Freedom of Expression” or “Misuse of our Freedom of Expression.” Masyado kasing matatalino ang mga pinoy, we always find loop holes in anything, especially us gay men…
First timer at Jul 21, 07 at 6:44 am
not to be mean or anything,
but they look like a bizzare
version of Sex and the City. haha.
anyway, i love that they can
express themselves physically.
pao at Jul 21, 07 at 3:31 pm
they seem to be the most emancipated fags…no inhibitions..i mean, they’re just showing their true colours! Period!
Go mga mare!
Laban nang Laban!
mimi at Jul 21, 07 at 4:30 pm
Haha. Like jholou, I knew I was gay since I was a kid, but I never got the urge to go all female. I also agree with misterhubs. That they may be too young to start using those things without fully understanding the implications of using them.
Q at Jul 21, 07 at 11:55 pm
i’m in a toss up. on one side there’s individuality, on the other side is parental responsibility.
you wouldn’t want your younger sister all hoed up, do you?
same goes for gay young boys. we should raise our gay young boys to be self-respecting and tolerant of what others may feel about them. and then when they turn eighteen, queverla! hahahaha. mag makeup kang parang wala nang bukas, wala akong pakialam! dalaga ka na! parang debut ba.
pero ang mga dalaginding dapat prim and proper. simple. like maximo oliveros. tshirt at shorts lang. tsaka konting baby powder. LOL!
Boyd at Jul 22, 07 at 12:43 am
yes they should be able to wear those outfits. being gay is a choice
michael at Jul 22, 07 at 12:49 am
firstimer,
so you want us to cater to the moralists at the expense of gay people’s freedom of expression? youve defeated your own argument.
kung hindi ka nila matanggap for being a crosssdresser, so be it. nobody can’t please everybody anyway
to each his own.
mickey at Jul 22, 07 at 1:01 am
michael,
its not a choice to be gay… where did you get that idea? are you gay yourself?
we don’t choose, we just feel it..
mickey at Jul 22, 07 at 1:03 am
these kids need guidance, we could help put their life on track. they have a bright and colorful future ahead of them
maverick at Jul 22, 07 at 3:32 am
I started wearing really short shorts when I was 13, even though I became aware of my gayness since kindergarten.
empress maruja at Jul 22, 07 at 10:22 am
my 2 euros:
its okay to be gutsy, but not like this. this is an inappropriate move. They need guidance from their parents, and they should not be lenient with this (or baka sa bahay pa macho effect ang mga to). but bottomline, they are too young to wear skimpy and slutty looking outfits like those, heck those are not even an outfit, its bandanas for love’s sake..
blueharajuku at Jul 22, 07 at 11:55 am
ehem = those are bandanas for love’s sake…
blueharajuku at Jul 22, 07 at 11:56 am
disgusting!!! absolutely! but it’s supposed to be a “free” world–to each his own. pity these kids–they’ll probably get beaten up more times than one can imagine.
vince at Jul 22, 07 at 2:45 pm
gosh, nakakatawa ang mga gay homophobes dito..
instead na support at tolerance ang ipakita sa kapwa bading, sila pa ang puro prejudice at bigotry.
kailangan bang maging intolerant tayo sa iba to feel good about ourselves at sabihing mas better tayo sa ibang gays?
kung walang effeminate sa society, hindi maeexpose ang society sa existence ng gay community at kung walang visibility ang gay community, hindi marerecognize ang ating karapatan sa lipunan
lloyd at Jul 22, 07 at 9:57 pm
instead na magpadikta tayo sa society na ok lang mambugbog ng mga bakla, why not change our thinking at maging ehemplo ng tolerance at respect sa society
lloyd at Jul 22, 07 at 10:08 pm
sa mga paminta ritong nagmamalinis:
kahit ano pang decent ang pananamit niyo sa society, society will always frown upon you because you’re gays
imbis na kayo ang magdikta sa lipunan na MALI ang prejudice at BIGOTRY, kayo ang nagpapadikta sa lipunan na ok lang magdiscriminate ng mga gays dahil sa iba sila
lloyd at Jul 22, 07 at 10:15 pm
Go girls…fabulous…aliw!!!
charuka at Jul 23, 07 at 2:24 am
there’s always a perfect time and place for everything. we are called to observe proper demeanor. yes, these kids deviate from social norms. as more mature and responsible members of the gay community i reckon that we need to step up for them instead of lambasting them.
you guys should know better..
maverick at Jul 23, 07 at 2:45 am
kakaiba! i don’t think there’s such a thing as too early to be gay, but…kung parent ka ba hahayaan mo ang anak mong lalaki na makihalubilo sa kanila at this age?!?!? i don’t want to be mean or anything like that, but i also don’t want to be a hypocrite myself by saying that that is their expression of individual yet will never entertain the thought that this will happen to my children…perhaps the ones above who take the line of individuality are willing to do so, then so be it…am just expressing my own ideas.
George at Jul 23, 07 at 9:01 am
ganda ganda naman. mga future adas, didis, and zsazsas ang mga itech!!!
sire_lee at Jul 23, 07 at 7:39 pm
yes, most parents wouldn’t want their kids to become gay
meron akong kalaro, we’re the same age then, mga 8 years kami, binabae siya pero hindi siya nagbibihis babae at tinutuksong bakla sa neigborhood namin. yung tatay niya macho at yun binugbog siya para tumino at magpakalalaki. kung sana naaccept siya ng parents, hindi mangyayari yun….. it’s unhealthy sa mga bata na irepress ang feelings nila. bilang mga adults, dapat mas naiintindihan natin ang kalagayan nila. weve been there, at bilang mga gays, dapat mas alam nating, mahirap irepress ang feelings at magtago…
jiggy at Jul 24, 07 at 12:06 am
oops, na delete ko yung part na:
after few months ng pambubugbog ng tatay niya, nagsuicide siya. masyado akong naapektuhan sa pangyayaring dahil narealize ko kung gaano kahirap maging gay at alam kong gay ako since i was 5.
jiggy at Jul 24, 07 at 12:09 am
I suggest na ayusin muna nila profesional life nila kasi mahal ang mga make-up kit at mga accesories. besides, kokonti lang ang mga bading na hindi successful… hehehe…
Pravilno at Jul 25, 07 at 4:16 pm
cguro ok lang na magladlad sila pero wag naman to the point magpapakababa sila na lalabas silang kabastos-bastos sa harap ng ibang tao.
at tama, hindi madali ang buhay ng mga bading (from my own experience, emotionally draining po…as in sobra!) kaya maging responsible sila sa mga actions nila and respect other people para respetuhin ka rin nila.
at saka pag umibig dont give 100%…magtira po para sa sarili!
kudos sa lahat ng bading the buong mundo.
fattyacid at Jul 29, 07 at 3:30 pm
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Pen pen de Chorvaloo | manila gay guy at Aug 24, 07 at 12:06 pm
hayaan ang mga bata! those are the things na sarap pagtawanan pag naaalala. For sure excited sila kung sino unang magkakaron ng boyfriend!
mouthworxz at Aug 24, 07 at 8:38 pm
karapatan!
freedom!
hangga’t walang nasasaktan,
bakit hindi?
shambobo at Aug 25, 07 at 2:07 pm
hay buhay!
rodier at Oct 2, 07 at 8:39 pm
diba gay rin tayo? diba dapat tayo ang unang umiintindi sa mga batang ito?
hindi ka ba dumaan sa pagkabata? diba super hirap iexpress ang emotions? ako, myself… i still cry each night remembering how i hide my gayness. tapos may mga taong mapanghusga na lalaitin ka!
pao at Feb 2, 08 at 7:27 pm
mas mainggit kayo sa mga baklang ito kasi as early as their teenhood…..they are capable of expressing themselves…hindi tulad ng mga pa-mhinta! i’m proud of them dahil sa murang edad…kinaya nila lahat ng prejudices at lumaban silad — at home, family, and society at large. kaya nga itong mga batang ito ang nagiging successful pagtanda – hair dresser, fashion designer, director, etc.
badmintonboy at Apr 20, 08 at 10:58 am
as far as i remeber bading na talaga ako… hindi ko talga matandaan na nagkagusto ako sa kahit na sinong babae or chovanes…
hindi ko na kailanagan ng bato para maging c darna kasi parang ako na c nanete medved ng pinanganak ako…
ryan at Apr 21, 08 at 9:16 pm
di na usO sexbOmb ngaYon…
kitty girls yang mga yan.
hahahha..Saya tingnan.
noel at Apr 29, 08 at 4:13 pm
i saw a documentary much similar to this. i have a gut feeling that these teenage gays were featured on that i-witness docu.
maybe if i was in their age i’d probably prefer to wear skimpy clothing as well… but i don’t know…cos if you try to dig deeper it would look like you’re degrading yourself already… not to mention the shame you might bring to your family.
well, kudos to them for ‘expressing’ themselves. i think we can all just comment on sexuality issues but not judge or impose morality values.
sly at May 19, 08 at 1:58 pm
go gurls! i really miss my gay friends in the Philippines. haaay. pero payo lang mga hija. mag-aral muna kayu at magtapos bago rumampa ng todo para “the future looks bright” sabi nga sa tv ad
randomgayguy at Jul 3, 08 at 9:43 pm
its ok to be gay. but you must retain your dignity and honor. you must learn how to flow with this discriminating world. be not a cheap kind, but be refined, modest and finesse to attain your merit. don’t allow anyone to bring you down. BE SUCCESSFUL AND NO ONE COULD STEP ON YOU. like me, im a proud gay but im a successful doctor of medicine at St. Luke’s Medical Center, walang tumatapak sakin, bagkus ginagalang at nirerespeto nila ako. (naranasan kong matapakan, pero hindi ko na hinayaang maulit muli ito.)
sexyme at Jul 6, 08 at 10:29 pm
dumadami na tayo…. what i hate is we are called the aids Carrier, I am Health Care Pro, and i just really hate hearing that, lets make a change…. a more different version huhuh if only i could.
Hyldah_A at Jul 25, 09 at 5:14 pm