Comments on: To Be or Not To Be (Gay) http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/ I say again, "World Peace!" Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:14:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Noey http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-232464 Noey Mon, 24 Aug 2009 03:34:45 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-232464 Self liberation would be the most powerful tool that you must utilize to completely achieve happiness. If you don't give yourself a chance, to explore and to discover, you would not grow as a person either. Free yourself from doubts and inhibitions. Believe me it's worthy. Self liberation would be the most powerful tool that you must utilize to completely achieve happiness. If you don’t give yourself a chance, to explore and to discover, you would not grow as a person either. Free yourself from doubts and inhibitions. Believe me it’s worthy.

]]> By: rain8418 http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-114332 rain8418 Sat, 21 Mar 2009 16:13:09 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-114332 Hi, I think we have he same problem Josh. But I cant/wont admit that I'm gay or whatever. My friends, classmates and my family don't know that I am in this kind of stage - confusion about my sexuality. This "thing "popped up" or was "cultivated" during my college years. I was curious when I joined the AdultFriendFinder.com. When i saw the pictures of hunks, sexy guys, it really caught my attention. And that was the start of it. I joined Outpersonals.com (even if I'm not OUT), watched M2M porns, made an account in Facebook exclusively devoted to cater my "other side" or whatever. And the most recent development (haha) is being a reader of ManilaGayGuy.net. Whenever i read these kinds of messages, I'm interested likewise there are also instances that my head hurts. Yes I am attracted or crushes to guys pero hanggang sa tingin lang. Actually I have a crush on one of my classmates. My classmates have a feeling that this guy is gay based on his gestures and other things. My class One time we chat on YM and I opened the talk with "Psst, alam mo ba napanaginipan kita kagabi", he replied "anu daw ginagawa ko sa panaginip mo?", I answered "wala, nagtatanong lang nangangamusta". This is the most important part of outr conversation, he asked "siguro may crush ka sa akin?", I replied (yung pa-joke pero may konting katotohanan) "slight" "joke, hahaha". He answered "joke were half meant" then i laughed "lol". There are instances that this issue (gayness thing, confusion etc) keeps bugging me but I don't entertain it by focusing on working/studying and let the wind take it away. Yes I want to have a relationship with a guy or gay but only in my dreams. I think I am 75 percent sure that I am gay. That's my subconscious mind says. But my conscious mind tells the opposite. Hayzz. Yes I want to have a Family. A loving wife, healthy children and a happy life. But all these are going to crumble if I will make the wrong move. Haha. My apologies if this letter of mine is magulo it is because my mind is also magulo. Salamat Po! Hi, I think we have he same problem Josh. But I cant/wont admit that I’m gay or whatever. My friends, classmates and my family don’t know that I am in this kind of stage – confusion about my sexuality. This “thing “popped up” or was “cultivated” during my college years. I was curious when I joined the AdultFriendFinder.com. When i saw the pictures of hunks, sexy guys, it really caught my attention. And that was the start of it. I joined Outpersonals.com (even if I’m not OUT), watched M2M porns, made an account in Facebook exclusively devoted to cater my “other side” or whatever. And the most recent development (haha) is being a reader of ManilaGayGuy.net.

Whenever i read these kinds of messages, I’m interested likewise there are also instances that my head hurts.

Yes I am attracted or crushes to guys pero hanggang sa tingin lang. Actually I have a crush on one of my classmates. My classmates have a feeling that this guy is gay based on his gestures and other things. My class One time we chat on YM and I opened the talk with “Psst, alam mo ba napanaginipan kita kagabi”, he replied “anu daw ginagawa ko sa panaginip mo?”, I answered “wala, nagtatanong lang nangangamusta”. This is the most important part of outr conversation, he asked “siguro may crush ka sa akin?”, I replied (yung pa-joke pero may konting katotohanan) “slight” “joke, hahaha”. He answered “joke were half meant” then i laughed “lol”.

There are instances that this issue (gayness thing, confusion etc) keeps bugging me but I don’t entertain it by focusing on working/studying and let the wind take it away.

Yes I want to have a relationship with a guy or gay but only in my dreams.

I think I am 75 percent sure that I am gay. That’s my subconscious mind says. But my conscious mind tells the opposite.

Hayzz.

Yes I want to have a Family. A loving wife, healthy children and a happy life. But all these are going to crumble if I will make the wrong move.

Haha. My apologies if this letter of mine is magulo it is because my mind is also magulo.

Salamat Po!

]]> By: milo1972 http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-97752 milo1972 Fri, 22 Aug 2008 23:44:59 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-97752 hi, understand what you are going through. i am also on the same situation that you are in now. same as you i am still a virgin and no experience of gayness at all. but one thing i did is to accept myself. and followed the advice of my chat friends that i need to go out there in the world and see what are the possibilities for individuals like us. i did. i signed up to this one site for people like us. i got some messages and invitation to go out and meet. its an eye opening experience for me. i realize that there are other people out there same as we. decent, clean, nice people who wants the same thing like we like to have. friendship, or maybe relationship. currently i'm on the process of exploring the possibilities and still weighing what i really want, friendship or relationship. these things are out there in the open. just decide what you want and find it. but be careful. try to filter out whom you are going to meet. for your personal benefit and safety as well. hi, understand what you are going through. i am also on the same situation that you are in now. same as you i am still a virgin and no experience of gayness at all. but one thing i did is to accept myself. and followed the advice of my chat friends that i need to go out there in the world and see what are the possibilities for individuals like us. i did. i signed up to this one site for people like us. i got some messages and invitation to go out and meet. its an eye opening experience for me. i realize that there are other people out there same as we. decent, clean, nice people who wants the same thing like we like to have. friendship, or maybe relationship. currently i’m on the process of exploring the possibilities and still weighing what i really want, friendship or relationship. these things are out there in the open. just decide what you want and find it.

but be careful. try to filter out whom you are going to meet. for your personal benefit and safety as well.

]]> By: poey http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-92146 poey Thu, 03 Jul 2008 03:11:58 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-92146 yan! naiyak na ako! hehe! same story! yan! naiyak na ako! hehe! same story!

]]> By: eric http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-82553 eric Sat, 03 May 2008 09:18:52 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-82553 choice brod... it's your choice... but please don't "normalize" what is "actual"... choose who you really are... act upon it... what matters is to be... either a good guy... or a good gay. choice brod… it’s your choice… but please don’t “normalize” what is “actual”… choose who you really are… act upon it… what matters is to be… either a good guy… or a good gay.

]]> By: Eemboy http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-75815 Eemboy Wed, 26 Mar 2008 08:36:15 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-75815 It's hard to be gay, really, but when you come into terms with yourself you will be happy and gay. What is hard is after being happy and gay for many years then you find yourself alone and lonely. Then you will start thinking what if you form your own family? A wife who will understand you and will really love you for what you are. Masarap din ang ganoon ang magkaroon ka ng sariling family. May dereksyon ang buhay. It happens to me I am a happily marrried gay now kaya lang i don't do it with boys na at alam ni Mrs ang lahat sa akin. I told her before we got married. It’s hard to be gay, really, but when you come into terms with yourself you will be happy and gay. What is hard is after being happy and gay for many years then you find yourself alone and lonely. Then you will start thinking what if you form your own family? A wife who will understand you and will really love you for what you are. Masarap din ang ganoon ang magkaroon ka ng sariling family. May dereksyon ang buhay. It happens to me I am a happily marrried gay now kaya lang i don’t do it with boys na at alam ni Mrs ang lahat sa akin. I told her before we got married.

]]> By: Perfida Limpin http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37714 Perfida Limpin Wed, 22 Aug 2007 11:39:15 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37714 sigh, the desperate lives of the closet queens. last time i checked, cousins are off-limits for the simple reason of incest. good luck sigh, the desperate lives of the closet queens. last time i checked, cousins are off-limits for the simple reason of incest. good luck

]]> By: r.a.f. http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37639 r.a.f. Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:37:31 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37639 hi josh, actually we have THE SAME STORY, im too clean to act, has a booooring life. i love men too but i can't let it out.. i didnt have any relationships with men, but i still want to xperience it, as of now i am having a feeling for my step cousin who is so hawig with richard gutierrez tlaga, kaya i always invite him out. i dont know what to do next tlaga eh. help me din naman. i am very confused right now, i am AFRAID that he could find someone that he'll enjoy and love forever... hi josh, actually we have THE SAME STORY, im too clean to act, has a booooring life. i love men too but i can’t let it out.. i didnt have any relationships with men, but i still want to xperience it, as of now i am having a feeling for my step cousin who is so hawig with richard gutierrez tlaga, kaya i always invite him out. i dont know what to do next tlaga eh. help me din naman. i am very confused right now, i am AFRAID that he could find someone that he’ll enjoy and love forever…

]]> By: Hugh http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37541 Hugh Mon, 20 Aug 2007 12:02:40 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37541 josh, tara. hahaha! biro lang. josh, tara. hahaha! biro lang.

]]> By: Chuva ek-ek http://manilagayguy.net/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37505 Chuva ek-ek Mon, 20 Aug 2007 02:43:05 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2007/08/17/to-be-or-not-to-be-gay/#comment-37505 Sensya na... tagalog gagamitin ko... di kasi ako englisero at di ako marunong mag englis... Hello Josh, ganyan din ako noon eh... kinakakatakotan ko talaga na meron maka alam kung ano ang tunay na nararamdaman ko noon... isa akong TNT (tago ng tago). sa sandaling may topic tungkol sa mga bading parang lumilindol ang mundo ko... di ko alam kung papaano ako makikipag usap sa mga barkada kong lalaki tungol sa mga ganun na bagay (pag may makikita silang bakla na dumadaan tapos kinakantyawan nila) at minsan may mga nagdududa na bakla ako tapos tinatanong ako kung bakla ba ako... alam mo parang magugunaw na talaga ang mundo ko. di ko alam kung ano isasagot ko, kasi ayaw kong mag sinungaling at ayaw ko rin malaman nila kung ano ang tunay kong pagkatao. kaya ganun ang feeling ko na parang wala na akong patutunguhan (dead end daw sa englis). Ganun din ako noon... di ako nakikipagtalik sa kapwa lalaki at hanggang pantasya lang ako... at hindi ako naging maligaya sa mga panahong iyo... Pero ng nagdisisyon ako na ipa-alam dahandahan sa mga closefriend ko tungkol sa kung sino talaga ako at tinanggap naman nila ako, doon nag umpisa ang pagiging malaya ko... at naging maligaya na rin ako... open na ako sa mga kaibigan ko na ganito talaga ako... but meron pa akong isang problema... di pa ako open sa pamilya ko and ayaw kong malaman nila kasi natatakot pa ako sa magiging reaksyon nila. Takot ako dahil alam ko na hindi pa sila ganun ka open sa mga bakla... lalo na sa tatay ko at sa isang nakakatandang kapatid kong lalaki, galit sila pag may makikita silang bakla... Yan nalang ang pinoproblema ko ngayon... pero kung ako sa iyo Josh, pipiliin ko kung ano ang sinasabi ng aking puso, dahil doon mo makikita ang kaligayahan na hinahanap mo... Sensya na… tagalog gagamitin ko… di kasi ako englisero at di ako marunong mag englis…

Hello Josh,

ganyan din ako noon eh… kinakakatakotan ko talaga na meron maka alam kung ano ang tunay na nararamdaman ko noon… isa akong TNT (tago ng tago). sa sandaling may topic tungkol sa mga bading parang lumilindol ang mundo ko… di ko alam kung papaano ako makikipag usap sa mga barkada kong lalaki tungol sa mga ganun na bagay (pag may makikita silang bakla na dumadaan tapos kinakantyawan nila) at minsan may mga nagdududa na bakla ako tapos tinatanong ako kung bakla ba ako… alam mo parang magugunaw na talaga ang mundo ko. di ko alam kung ano isasagot ko, kasi ayaw kong mag sinungaling at ayaw ko rin malaman nila kung ano ang tunay kong pagkatao. kaya ganun ang feeling ko na parang wala na akong patutunguhan (dead end daw sa englis).

Ganun din ako noon… di ako nakikipagtalik sa kapwa lalaki at hanggang pantasya lang ako… at hindi ako naging maligaya sa mga panahong iyo…

Pero ng nagdisisyon ako na ipa-alam dahandahan sa mga closefriend ko tungkol sa kung sino talaga ako at tinanggap naman nila ako, doon nag umpisa ang pagiging malaya ko… at naging maligaya na rin ako… open na ako sa mga kaibigan ko na ganito talaga ako… but meron pa akong isang problema… di pa ako open sa pamilya ko and ayaw kong malaman nila kasi natatakot pa ako sa magiging reaksyon nila. Takot ako dahil alam ko na hindi pa sila ganun ka open sa mga bakla… lalo na sa tatay ko at sa isang nakakatandang kapatid kong lalaki, galit sila pag may makikita silang bakla…

Yan nalang ang pinoproblema ko ngayon…

pero kung ako sa iyo Josh, pipiliin ko kung ano ang sinasabi ng aking puso, dahil doon mo makikita ang kaligayahan na hinahanap mo…

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