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1. #50  lito

   

   mahirap talaga mag asawa if yuore gay.siempre hanap hanapin mo rin mga boys.kaya ako i never get into marriage..since nandyan na yan.be faithful na lang to yuor wife.and occasionally have flings with boys.hehehe(ow …. nawala din pagkafaithful!)basta follow yuor heart na lang.

   09/03/03 11:38

2. #49  chan

   

   hmm. im also on the same boat. but, i think people right now dont really need the label. i guess we can live knowing ourselves what we want and get it as long as we dont step on other people and wont do any harm to others. kebs. dont worry about them. whatever you decide, make sure you dont do it because of conformity, but because you feel that its right… oohh man. i should be telling this to myself but yet again..

   09/03/03 10:44

3. #48  julian a.k.a juliana

   

   agree ako kay anton….ikaw pinaka totoo ang comment…taray mo teh! Brian don’t be shy tanggapin mo na nabibilang ka sa hanay ng mga baklush!

   09/02/20 00:01

4. #47  keeiko

   

   bakit kelangan tipsy bago pumatol sa babae? what is it in alcohol that makes people change sometimes? i have this experirnce with a straight guy (straight until the time that nothing has yet happened between us) who went to bed with me (not to mention that he made the first move) after drinking 9 bottles of san mig light. i dont get it, yet he still want to believe he’s straight!!! it’s a wild world indeed!!!

   08/09/21 22:32

5. #46  king

   

   whatever it is the most important is the real summum bonum of every human being it is “happiness”

   08/05/02 14:40

6. #45  Joseph

   

   Brian, I think we are in the same boat and for that matter, I can say that you are still in denial. You know you’re gay, and you just can’t accept that fact.

   Like you, I am still struggling.

   I love girls, but I like the company of boys. Does it make me a bi or gay? I don’t know. Gay or bi, it doesn’t matter. What matters most is what makes you really happy. Because for me, being gay is lonely and sad.

   07/10/29 21:43

7. #44  barron

   

   pare-pareho lang yan.laht ng meaning ng gay nakakabit na. kumbaga all in one na ang GAY word.

   07/10/21 22:39

8. #43  berdengmansanas

   

   You just need to have some time to make you realize who and what you really are. There is nothing wrong about your present situation.

   07/10/19 13:51

9. #42  Shane

   

   “Sexuality is like fluid, whether you’re gay, straight or bisexual, just go with the flow.”

   07/10/18 23:09

10. #41  Tokoy

    

    As my logic professor said:

    “You can only choose one. It’s illogical to be two places at the same time.”

    And based on Carl Jung’s theory that we are all born bisexual. The only time we identify our sex is when society steps up and points out what your sex would be based on stereotypical roles.

    Kaya lang naman nagagalit ang madlang people sa mga bakla is because of the though of procreation wherein it involves a boy and a girl for that aspect na samantalang mga bakla boy to boy lang daw. Pero since mga bakla ngayon eh bakla pa rin maski may anak at pamilya na… well, homosexuality surely has evolved from the overgeneralized notions of society.

    Kaya Brian, don’t be alarmed because whatever you choose in life society can only pertain to your personal mask. Ikaw pa rin nakaka alam kung bakla ka nga or hindi.

    The only time you have self-realization about these matters is when you ostracize and castrate yourself from the viewpoint of society.

    Live life, vive Cuervo!

    07/10/12 00:04

11. #40  karlito

    

    hahaha pareho kami… although i get attracted to both guys and girls, i’m more fond of guys BUT whenever i get tipsy or drunk, my confidence level rises (duh) and i start feeling like i just have to bang a girl. probably i’m just insecure or something? but who cares ba? i don’t think labeling is that important these days

    07/10/07 19:25

12. #39  avp

    

    .. if you log on to manilagayguy.net and take the time to write an open letter about your “confusion”.. youre GAY.

    07/10/01 03:49

13. #38  avp

    

    Being GAY or STR8 is not behavior, or who you bed.. you can be GAY and never suck dick, or sleep with other men.. Some gay men marry, have 8 kids, and screw their wives.. still gay.. Being gay or str8 is about sexual PREFERENCE..not behavior. If you PREFER men.. your gay.. If you jack off to BRAD and not ANGELINA.. youre gay.. If you suck dick.. but youre doin it for the money and not coz youre into it.. youre probly str8.. YOu cant say you like BOTH equally…thats a cop out… You always PREFER one to the other. always.. thats my 2 cents on the matter. Hope it helps.

    07/10/01 03:46

14. #37  ace

    

    @eponine- not to worry eponine. there is no contest,the throne is all yours. i promise you.

    On a serious note, yes, our prayers for the people of Myanmar are called for at this juncture. The junta dictatorship has been going on for far too long. Let us hope that the pressures from most of the world’s governments will be heeded.

    07/09/30 14:10

15. #36  jimg29

    

    MIGS IM SORRY IF I ABUSE YOUR COMMENT PAGE THE WAY I DO; BUT THE SIGN OF THE TIMES ARE JUST UNBEARABLE! I ONLY LIKE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE! FOR YOU WHO ARE ADVOCATING WORLD PEACE, MAY YOUR BLOG-PAGE BE TRULY AN EYE OPENING TO THE WHOLE WORLD! WHILE THE GENERAL ASSEMBLY OF THE UNITED NATION IS ONGOING AS WE SPEAK, AND MYANMMAR IS STILL UNDER CLOUDS OF UNCERTAINTY AND WHATHAVEYOU MAY THIS BE AN ARDENT PRAYER TO FIND SOLACE AND LASTING PEACE! LET’S FOCUS FROM NOW, ON A POSITIVE ENERGY THAT WILL BRING ABOUT THE SLOGAN WE TRULY ADHERE TO…SHALOM

    07/09/30 08:46

16. #35  cris

    

    You know there is NO PROBLEM AT ALL> DO whatever makes you happy, be it with GIRLS OR BOYS. You and a lot of people are caught up with LABELS. Is it important if you are gay, bi, or whatever, just get laid and fulfill your carnal urges. People are putting to much pressure on what you are. TAO ka. Yun lang yun.

    07/09/30 07:10

17. #34  astroboi

    

    haha i thought someone wrote my letter and submitted it! weird thing with me too is that when i’m drunk or tipsy its the time i get really horny with women! i obviously don’t consider myself straight anymore but i guess i just swing both ways…

    07/09/30 02:59

18. #33  pepron

    

    I’ve had hundreds of sexual encounters with men but I never really got a hard-on when we’re both there naked. Funny thing was, I had once with a woman and I cummed, which never happened to me before with guys. Am I gay? Oo namannnn..hehehe.

    07/09/29 13:29

19. #32  Asyano

    

    Mga fellow readers at kay Migs,please click this link and watch the video:Animals being skinned alive for their fur by some Fashion Giants.MEdyo of sa topic ito.
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    07/09/29 11:43

20. #31  eponine

    

    ano yan people=sheep? natawa ako dun. parang me implications of not bisexuality but bestiality. eeewwww.

    ace and dowell msut have an advice column here kasi ga-novela talaga lagi ang comment, pero maganda. hehe. sing-ganda ng lola mo. pero hindi pwede kasi iisa lang ang reyna dito. world peace migs!

    seriously, let’s pray for those in myanmar.

    07/09/29 09:56

21. #30  mekare

    

    sometimes the biggest problem of them all is picking the right “label”. we all try to fit these prescriptions, which we formulated in the first place.

    people = sheep?

    07/09/29 01:54

22. #29  jimg29

    

    sala sa init sala sa lamig; kung minsa’y maalat, matamis, matabang, maanghang, mapakla, maasim; may bagyong Acheng, Bading, Bakling, Carding, Dowelling, o Yoling! Just be careful, or else in your confusion the 300 spartans will rise again to haunt you!

    07/09/29 01:31

23. #28  anton maton

    

    dowell … type mo maging siyota ng kabit? game ako … niyahahahahah!

    ang kabit ng bayan,

    anton maton

    07/09/29 00:54

24. #27  dowell

    

    Brian. Sometimes when I let myself believe that I am confused, I can see images of gay people laughing at me, at my age, how come that there were episodes that I have no preference to both sexes. But just to get rid of this confusion, I just let myself accept that I am neither bi nor straight, I am gay because I don’t have that juggernaut inclination to have sex with women, although in the past I used to do it with them. Maybe I was born to feel more than to live and the mantra I keep is, for as long as two souls connect, then go and strengthen the nexus, connect!

    My inclination is to get romantically connected with men, but not primarily driven by lust. I lust them sometimes, I do not lust them other times, but I can love them even in times when I am sexually restrained by the absence of lust.

    If having sex to both sexes confuses you, check with which sex you are more inclined to fall in love. Maybe your being gay is not expedient to just the physicality of connecting, your desire to find love will tell you who you really are. Who knows, you are straight just looking for the helpmeet lifestyle.

    Anton Maton: finally, natagpuan ko na ang pag-ibig, sa iyo. hahahaha

    Hi Migs~!

    07/09/28 23:28

25. #26  marco jordan

    

    brian, only you can truly say if you’re gay or not. i’m pretty sure that deep down, you know where you stand.

    isa lang masasabi ko, once you go cock, you never go bock!

    07/09/28 21:47

26. #25  from1fagtoanother

    

    Jimg29 .. you made me laugh out loud.. you should start writing a blog..

    Brian … the more choices you have. Why sulk when you should be celebrating?

    07/09/28 21:09

27. #24  jimg29

    

    brian my dear, sa maniwala ka’t sa hindi you are a eunuch, my advice is for you to join monastery of monks that will help you find elusive peace, idawit mo na rin si anton maton, at doo’y wala na kayong kukulutin dahil pulos semi-cal ang men. WP

    07/09/28 17:48

28. #23  juan

    

    best way to resolve this: stop being stuck by labels that others impose on you, and those that you impose on yourself

    07/09/28 17:10

29. #22  Wendell Sanchez

    

    Don’t fret, as long as you really enjoyed what you have just done there’s no harm in it. And as long you are not psychologically bothered by it wala ring problema. Just be honest dun sa mga pinapatulan mo para hindi sila maging apektado lalo na if they start falling in love with you. Getz moh???

    07/09/28 16:41

30. #21  chuchucaracas

    

    kinsey? kapatid ba yan ni paris hilton? echos. samakatuwid, 10% lang tayo? echos ulit.

    07/09/28 06:25

31. #20  Ben

    

    oo i also believe that sexuality is a continuum. remember the famous kinsey study? sabi dun only 10% of men are exclusively homosexual. it’s a broad spectrum. let’s not judge people according to stereotypes. kay confused brian, you’re confused because you’re restricted by social norms. basta ang tandaan mo, choose what you think will make you happy. if both sexes make you happy, choose both.

    07/09/28 01:41

32. #19  anton maton

    

    okie jimg29 … we get your message. now back to pangungulot!

    07/09/28 00:57

33. #18  jimg29

    

    Rangoon massacre for crying out loud, lets stop the violence, pray for the monks, burmese, and all who are suffering on this military rule! WORLD PEACE!

    07/09/28 00:13

34. #17  anton maton

    

    huh? ganon? ano sa tingin mo sa kabadingan … parang hairstyle ganon? ngayon kulot at kinky bukas naman unat at na rebonding, ganon?

    bakla, magpa-hot oil ka kaya? baka sakaling matauhan ka? niyahahahahah….

    forever mahaba ang buhok hanggan EDSA,

    anton maton

    07/09/27 23:49

35. #16  sapphire

    

    isang continuum DAW ang sexuality walang clear na deliniation between hetero, homo, and bi. so wag natin ikahon si brian

    07/09/27 23:31

36. #15  jimg29

    

    Burma uprising, this is serious! our thoughts are with these poor asians folks amidst their turbulent times! WORLD PEACE!

    07/09/27 23:10

37. #14  joey

    

    I really dont believe in this bisexuality crap. even if you make it out with all the women out there but still lust for the same sex, then you are so very gay! wag na magdrama jan. vaklang vakla ang dating eh.

    07/09/27 22:26

38. #13  jimg29

    

    seriously let’s pray for world peace, have you heard what’s going on Myanmar? Military authority are cracking down on monks demonstrators, what can be more serious than this sexual innuendo!

    07/09/27 22:11

39. #12  cast

    

    bryan dear, wala kang problema….. wala… at least you have the capacity to enjoy the flavor (and complexities) both worlds….

    07/09/27 14:02

40. #11  jimg29

    

    i really really like tutti fruity gum!

    07/09/27 11:49

41. #10  fattyacid

    

    asus ang daming drama. kung na-accept nya na gay sya before i don’t see any reason para mahirapan syang i-accept na acdc pala sya ngayon…unless he’s expecting an acting award or something to that effect, he better stop the drama as soon as possible and start living with it.

    07/09/27 11:20

42. #9  ace

    

    Don’t sweat it, Brian. At this stage in your life it is good that you are discovering your sexual leanings. It is possible that you are indeed bisexual, which is fine, although some may have a different opinion about the matter. But in the end, it is your life and these are your feelings. It is true, it can be very confusing for you sexually when you fall for a man one day and for a woman the next. How do you decide? The only reasonable answer to this question is to wait and see until you fall in love with someone, which if you go by how you feel the gender of the person wouldn’t really matter. However, as Rocky mentioned, it may not be easy to find a heterosexual woman or a gay man to understand your needs if you want a long term relationship. Most people usually strive for clarity when it comes to maintaining a long term relationship.

    07/09/27 11:09

43. #8  Tita Glo

    

    duh

    07/09/27 11:06

44. #7  ron

    

    one doesn’t have to be confined with a stereotypical sexual orientation right? go for what you feel and do what you want to do as long as you know how to handle things… =)

    07/09/27 09:52

45. #6  eponine

    

    di ba, makulay ang buhay pag may sinabawang gulay? hehe jsut felt like saying that.

    you are the real bi. bi-yut. jokla este joke lang.

    07/09/27 09:20

46. #5  jimg29

    

    Banana split is yummy!

    07/09/27 08:33

47. #4  george

    

    bi ka, brian. sometimes you like men, sometimes you like women. of course, there is no such thing as completely bi. but i ascribe to the view that it is possible to have “bi” tendencies and these are fluid, always moving with context(s).

    07/09/27 07:30

48. #3  andree

    

    migs, alam mo.. brian and I share a common story.

    07/09/27 04:45

49. #2  rOckY

    

    It sounds to me that Brian has the makings of a TRUE bisexual and not just a straight-acting queer with incorrect word usage. I don’t see anything wrong – although not everyone will be able to understand this orientation and finding a longer-term partner who will accept and understand this side of things might be difficult.

    07/09/27 04:32

50. #1  chuchucaracas

    

    hmmmm well i never thought that sexual orientation in the first place is defined by with who you slept with. a man is gay because he’s attracted to the same gender not just sexually, even if he already has a constant of the opposite-sex partner (sexually or otherwise). so if he chose to keep his partner of the opposite sex while obsessing for the other that still makes him gay and i don’t think sexual orientation changes after every sexual encounter. it has always been the same, some just realize it later in their lives. (nosebleed)

    07/09/27 02:33

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