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1. #33  jedd

   

   you have made so many wrong choices and it seems that you never learn… you keep repeating the same wrong choices over and over – it is getting so tiresome, especially because you are not young anymore… all your pronouncements and epiphanies were hollow, meaningless words… you have lost credibility… it is sad what is happening to you… i don’t know if you are that unappealing or desperate but you are scrapping the bottom of the barrel with this one… whatever happened to your dignity, respectability and self-respect? a good moral compass and strong principles are also applicable and desirable to all, even gays.

   08/01/18 11:23

2. #32  julian

   

   ang mga lokah! kalokah kayo!

   08/01/18 04:09

3. #31  Isaribi

   

   Rubber glue back to you.

   Migs, you don’t need to explain anything to anyone. I also suggest to stop answering rude/nonsense comments. I know that sometimes, words hurt but they only hurt only if you let them get through you. Yun lang.

   08/01/17 09:55

4. #30  prof. artadi

   

   i wonder why this julian is so bitter? i am sure that many gay guys who have read this blog have similar experiences and who can attest that this can indeed happen… whether if it is a work of fiction or a real and actual event the point is this can happen and if i may add this IS HAPPENING.

   08/01/16 18:31

5. #29  julian

   

   ang hahaba at dadrama ng mga comments ng alipores ng drama queen! hayy! eto na ang pinaka madramang blog na nabasa ko!

   08/01/16 17:47

6. #28  jhong

   

   @MsNinja: natawa ako sa comment ha. in all fairness.

   08/01/16 16:45

7. #27  Jhuneyboy

   

   Just keep on posting and forget about all the negative stuff around here. You cant please everyone. I been to your position while back bro. Anyway I enjoyed reading your blog and hope you wont get tired

   Salamat Po! – Jhuneyboy

   08/01/16 15:41

8. #26  larrygp

   

   they are just jealous

   08/01/16 12:43

9. #25  MsNinja

   

   “I have only one word to my enemies, DIE!” – By Mirriam Santiago

   08/01/16 10:47

10. #24  dennis

    

    To Meng –

    Ang sabihin mo, “to h–l they go” Hahahaha. Wag ka ng sumama.

    08/01/16 08:01

11. #23  aries

    

    bitaw, ngano jud nga naay mupalag kung mamiga ta… suya lang sila… char!

    08/01/15 23:14

12. #22  zidro

    

    “Poor is the man whose pleasure depends upon the approval of another.” This is very true!

    08/01/15 21:40

13. #21  meng

    

    im sick of people moralizing…to hell with them =p

    08/01/15 21:33

14. #20  dennis

    

    Hello Migz! Cheers! Daming mo ng kakampi.

    Just go on with your own life and search for your own happiness. Live and let live.

    Wag mo ng intindihin sasabihin ng ibang tao. Maluluto naman sinaing mo kahit wala sila.

    Hahahahaha!

    08/01/15 21:19

15. #19  peter_rian

    

    go migs!! world peace!! hehehe

    08/01/15 19:03

16. #18  marvz

    

    hyaan muna cla migs i think the’re bitter person or ingit lng cla sau…world peace

    08/01/15 18:03

17. #17  bj

    

    hi migs!
    We cannot please everybody at the same time. We cannot also drive them to believe us every time. There are times that we tell truth but they don’t believe it because, simply, they cannot accept it. If you are just telling the truth, why would you feel bad if they believe you? Hindi ka naman nagkakasala sa ginagawa mo di ba?
    If you’re happy, then go for it!

    08/01/15 15:02

18. #16  chuchucaracas

    

    maruja winner ka talaga!

    well kasinungalingan man siya o hindi basta winner ang may hada period

    08/01/15 14:26

19. #15  silent expectator

    

    I live with this motto:

    If you’re honest with yourself and with others, people will talk about you. If you’re not, people will still talk about you. So better be true and honest, at least you live on your own expectations and let others get gaga in talking about you.

    08/01/15 12:35

20. #14  prof. artadi

    

    well migs, sad to say i too have been in exact same situation, i was a brash 19 year old who had an affair with a 36 year old man who had a 13 year old son. while it was fun at first it became too much for me when i learned that he had 2 other mistresses. while i knew he truly loved me i just can’t compete with 3 other women and have to leave him. it was a bitter end, so please don’t go there we can never win when we are the buena querida…

    08/01/15 12:18

21. #13  leo

    

    Oh well. We live not to please other people. At the end of the day, we are the sole accountable of our actions.

    For Migs, just carry on. And hold on. All things will work together for good.

    08/01/15 09:20

22. #12  closet case

    

    welcome to the club!

    08/01/15 09:13

23. #11  baklamancutedin

    

    What the heck!!! Follow the path of happiness, for we shall only pass this Earth ONCE and WE WILL NEVER PASS again. So try to live as happy as you can be. Kung kaya ng sikmura mo yung sasabihin ng tao, KEBER!!! Bakit sasaya ka ba sa sasabihin nila. Kahit ano naman gawin mo me sasabihin sa iyo ang LIPUNAN, LEtCHE BALAHURA, BALAJ!!! Walang tama o mali. Tao lang ang nagtatakda ng tama o mali. In short WALANG HIMALA!!! Ang HIMALA ay nasa TITE!!! MABUHEY!!!

    08/01/15 07:08

24. #10  eponine

    

    natuwa ako sa reply ni migs pero natawa naman ako kay empress maruja kasi “beauty pagenat mode” hehehe

    oo, masyadong pang-pageant ang mga words ni migs dito ngayon. hehehe parang ms. india kung sumagot…

    08/01/15 03:35

25. #9  empress maruja

    

    *Beauty pageant mode*

    Thank you very much for that very interesting question. If I encounter such a predicament, the best decision that I can make is to follow my heart.

    I may be a sinner in the eyes of other people, but let me remind you that we are all equal under the eyes of God.

    And if my time has come, I am ready to face Him with a smile on my face. I shall proudly salute God and say, “Sir, mission accomplished!”

    (wala lang, gusto ko lang talagang isingit ang last paragraph)

    08/01/15 03:10

26. #8  Boyd

    

    this was exactly how tori spelling felt when she hooked up with… what was the name of that actor?

    anyway, migs, you’re grown up and you know what you want for yourself and it’s not up to others to decide on that. that’s the problem with living a public life – you can’t go anymore public than being THE manila gay guy – your life is open to public scrutiny. Ultimately you’d have to make choices. Should you keep your life public or private? Should you go on with this relationship?

    Unfortunately, you found yourself in a situation where Pinoys, gay or straight, have a strong opinion. Where children are involved, Pinoys would root for what’s good for the kids. We’re family-oriented as a people.

    There’s also the unsolicited honor of being looked up to. Whether you like it or not, a number of gay people look up to you. As much as you have responsibility to your own person, you’ve also caused to be vested by a social responsibility to this demographic root and your actions are judged not only against personal opinions but social expectations.

    You’re in a position that I wouldn’t be envious of. But just the same, I only wish you happiness.

    08/01/15 02:49

27. #7  jh

    

    can a 17-year-old closet gay like me have such a cute love story? i wonder.

    08/01/15 02:27

28. #6  Joms

    

    I believe you. I may not have been in the exact situation like you do, but yeah, the feelings you put into it is too real to be ignored.

    08/01/15 02:03

29. #5  peppoi

    

    …ang haba comment ng nasa taas ko…grabe…

    anyway, you can’t win everyone so don’t wori be hapi =)

    08/01/15 01:53

30. #4  The Pilot Is Gay

    

    Some gay people live in their miserable lives(sulking hiding etc.) and couldn’t accept the fact that there are alot of PLU’s out there who lives a pretty much active life. Malungkot man aminin Migs but there are PLUS’s out there who find comfort in their “denial” mode.

    Bilang isang alagad ng kagandahan at kapayapaan(world peace hehe) Huwag mo na lang patulan. Loud mouthing you may be their own way of protecting their very hurting ego…kumbaga pagbigyan mo na,minsan lang tayo magpakamartyr para sa iba,basta ikaw maligaya ka! hehe…

    08/01/15 01:37

31. #3  raymund gerard

    

    all im gonna say my dear friend,
    is that this guy better be worth it.
    I soo hope so for your sake my dear.
    Im not one to judge because as jesus christ himself said, he who is without sin cast the first stone.
    im more worried about the fall out from this—since there are women and not to mention kids in the picture.
    my father is a cop….and as the cliche goes—ang pulis, matulis. he played the field like there was no tomorrow.
    i grew up wondering where my dad was everytime he wont be around to pick me up from school, or miss a school play or a volleyball game (yes—i know super gay), where he would be the times he wasnt there on the weekends, or why he came home soo late and left so early, why he was simply never there.
    growing up my mom told me he was just busy making a living for all of us—only for me to find out 2 years ago in a hospital that i have a half brother, same name, 18 years old (im 26)—while my father lay on his sickbed from a heart attack and the “other” side also had to stake its claim.
    and that worse—the mother of this kid was actually the “love” of my father’s life—from my own mother! (o di ba how filipino classics melodrama?)
    everything that happens in life is a ripple.
    it has effects elsewhere in the universe.
    migs, my friend, my sister,
    friends and fellow mgg followers,
    this isnt about what’s right ot wrong, whether he’s happy or not, whether he’s the best slut in town or not,
    this is about actions always having consequences.
    again—migs, i just hope for your sake,
    for his and his children’s as well, it’s worth it.
    i agree with tony—never mind what each of us here says—just think of you—attorney—and the kids.

    08/01/15 01:33

32. #2  jimg29

    

    Words words words…If I have to believe to all what you’re saying is true…then I’d be damn better change my religion coz these incredible stories require a leap of faith. Better burst your bubbles now than wait for the day when we bazura-cyber minds meet our ends without going unchallenged. I am glad you’re still all smile. That’s probably what we need on this unforgiving planet!

    08/01/15 00:59

33. #1  Tony

    

    Sis, you know that I am going through a similar situation where people’s negativity and harshness is getting to me…. just breathe and don’t let it get to you.

    Read this over and over again and even though I know you have internalized it. Just read it out loud. It does help.

    http://manilagayguy.net/2007/03/08/sensual-massage-and-desiderata/

    08/01/15 00:11

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