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1. #77  Nick

   

   Maybe the AFP should revive the Sacred Band of Thebes.

   09/04/19 11:53

2. #76  shatteredwack

   

   mike… gitubag ka sa military man… naa ka contact number niya… i wanna help him….

   email me… please…

   shatteredwack@yahoo.com

   thanks… hehhe

   09/03/30 01:16

3. #75  clemence

   

   mike, can i have your number pls? am from cebu too…

   09/03/23 19:44

4. #74  fratboi02

   

   Hi!
   Your situation is hard but let me tell you that being going out in the closet is the best thing that I’ve ever did. Your family will hate you but they will eventually accept you because in the end, you’re still family. I come from an old conservative family too but I just want to be free of the burden of hiding that part of me, the real me. Basta, take it from me nga lang that when you decide that you’re going out, make sure na your self sufficient na para wala nang masabi parents mo sa’yo. Your time will come.There will come a time that you’ll be ready and you don’t want to do anything but come out. Mine came when I commited to my long time partner…he helped me a lot. I hope you find that one too.

   09/03/10 18:29

5. #73  mike

   

   well,… napaka complicated ng cituation mo… your position and status in life… if you need someone to talk to.. you can reach me through my YM or you can email me at sniper_harry7@yahoo.com… you can share your feelings and thoughts… im here to listen and give aome sort of advice… nice to meet you….

   09/03/06 13:51

6. #72  edgar

   

   hello there matt. Can u give me your email add or cel#? Im very much willing to help you. My cel# is 09093219140. Thanks

   09/02/19 23:00

7. #71  edgar

   

   hello! Just read your story. Anyway, we can share stories because i also belong to the same situation as yours. What’s your e-mail address?

   09/02/19 12:56

8. #70  doug marasigan

   

   ang bakla naten

   09/02/06 21:38

9. #69  jake

   

   Hi Matt! i am willing to be your friends even sa email we can share, kasi nasa abroad pa ako.take care alwyas and hope to hear from you soon.

   09/01/28 21:22

10. #68  jramel

    

    pwede rin tau mag friends. heres my number 09065001901

    09/01/28 15:11

11. #67  Dawei

    

    Hi Matt,

    I understand your situaion…wala ka bang friends dyan sa work place mo?

    e-mail ko, Bai, para maka-storya ta… newsdawei at yahoo dot com

    08/12/30 11:04

12. #66  Bam 09182049838

    

    Matt, find friends na nakakaintindi sa situasyon mo. once you have them, surely and somehow, you will be relieved of your worries. We’re just here dude.

    08/12/27 13:25

13. #65  jeffrey

    

    to gay blogger in the closet again…this is my email addreess jeffreycooldude@yahoo.com 

    08/10/02 11:01

14. #64  jeffrey

    

    to gay blogger in the closet….medyo similar story ko kay matt but i am an ex seminarian, medyo halata na ako pero still d p rin ako umaamin…nand2 ako sa alberta canada,,,san k d2?

    08/10/02 10:58

15. #63  ramsky26

    

    hi,

    im happy to know this site..i dont have any friends na bisexual.tago din ako gaya ang iba not bcoz mahiya ako sa mga nakakaalam kung hinde sa parents ko.mattas kasi respect nila sa akin pati mga nababayan ko.hinde naman sa nnagmamayabang kilala kasi ako sa amin as rule model sa mga kabataan at kasing edad ko..kaya gustohin ko man lumabas na and to revil my real identity sa gender pero yan ang factor kaya hinde ko magawa.kaya nga at the age of 26 wala pa rin ako makita an mayino na ka relation..im working in dubai..financialy im stable this time..gusto ko alng makita yung tao na makapagbibigay sa akin ang lakas nang loob na harapin ang kinanatatakotna ko.at makita na rin ang taong pwede ko makasama hinde man lang pag habang buhay at least sa kung mayron ako ngayon..

    08/09/20 15:11

16. #62  matt

    

    haaaaaaaay , wala pa ring nag bago sa buhay ko after na post dito ang life story ko. Pero i stopped na the out of the city sexcapades…. zero na ang sex life ko ulit. Pag medyo dinadalaw ng libog go nalang ako agad sa mga massage parlor para ma de-stressed and sometimes distressed…

    08/09/20 13:48

17. #61  Nash DAvE

    

    kakaiba.. ^_^ ang kyut naman nun.. taga cebu din ako ahihi..

    08/07/08 14:50

18. #60  trey

    

    matt, you need a big hug!

    definitely such a difficult situation. i was fortunate to come out in an environment where being gay was not the worst thing to happen to socially-staid parents and siblings.

    i came out to my family and friends, and most were quite open about it. what blew my mind was when my closest friends told me that they were just waiting for me to come out. at 21. that was years years ago. hehe!

    a very important question you should ask is which is dearer to you:

    being the you you were meant to be (and therefore free to explore yourself)

    being the you other people expect you to be (and therefore free to act on their expectations)

    each of us has his own paths and destinations to choose. a single choice can lead you somewhere you might not expect, be it a pleasant one or otherwise.

    i wish you luck and happiness. they will come to you when you need them most.

    08/02/04 15:16

19. #59  Knight Geronimo

    

    Hey Marc,

    That’s sad.
    I have fallen in love once and that was painful. It took me time to move on but the person never knew how I felt for him because in the first place, I know it will go unrequited.

    Freakin’ feelings.

    Now, I try as much as possible never to fall in love. It’s darn hard. Really hard. I’m from Cebu too, by the way.
    I don’t know what to tell you. Probably, just hang on and in time, you’ll know what to do.

    Hey, I’m here.
    I’ll listen.

    08/01/29 15:58

20. #58  marc

    

    Hi, Matt. From Cebu also. And like you I’m hiding my true self from the world also… Am I lonely? Yes. Am I scared going out? Yes. Right now, I could feel the wear and tear of hiding… although there are days that I sometimes used to my other self. I have friends, yes, but they do not know who I truly am. And now also, I’m hopelessly in love with my bestfriend who doesn’t have any clue of who I am. It’s frustrating. It’s painful… esp he’s in love with his girlfriend. I’m planning to cut out my relationship with him being friends because I’m tired of hoping… If you want to rant on your life… you can email me at nescafe_male@yahoo.com. Perhaps we both can pitch in encouragements from there…

    08/01/29 11:25

21. #57  neinsager

    

    uhm, matt. ewan ko kung anong sasabihin ko sayo na hindi mo pa naririnig.

    *hug* na lang, sis.

    08/01/28 21:09

22. #56  JT

    

    @ azedblu: you are welcome. people like you should be special mentioned and thanks again.

    @ Matt: hope everything is going on smoothly. Take it easy pal, its not the end of the world. I beleive light will shine your path. Take care.

    08/01/27 00:22

23. #55  Fernando IX

    

    I work in a military camp in Cebu also.. but not as a soldier rather I cut their hair… Bwahaha!

    Matt, enjoy life oi.. Im sure daghang bayot sa imong mga kauban pud. I heard mag-inunayay ra ang uban sulod sa kampo.. but their lips are sealed.. Join the fun.

    Naa daghan callboy diha sa Fuente O.. Pili-a lang ang gwapo.

    I use to be in the same problem but not anymore.. I’ve given my family some hints and now after many years my parents are beginning to understand.. I even brought an ex-boyfriend home but my ma didnt say anything anymore.

    08/01/26 22:55

24. #54  dazedblu

    

    btw sapphire, astig na idea yun! hehe

    08/01/26 15:19

25. #53  dazedblu

    

    see we’ve got it right!

    JT, thanks too.

    No prob Matt, its okay…

    08/01/26 15:19

26. #52  jet

    

    i dont think na if youre gay.. wala ka na talagang tendency magkagusto sa isang babae.. mas pinapaboran mo lang magkagusto sa lalaki pero theres still the slightest chance na magkagusto ka sa babae.
    ‘
    pero ang tanong..within ur reach ba ung babaeng un.. ung babaeng tatanggapin ka whole-heartedly and still love you and your flaws..

    08/01/26 15:02

27. #51  chris murdock

    

    ey matt
    wow that’s so sad na man. if you want a friend I will be your friend. Kung gusto mong mag talk just txt me at this number 09157982154. You dont have to reveal your personal information, like wer you live or what’s your real name. but we can talk about anything personal and it will be just between you and me. You have nothing to fear because i have no intention to meet you or what. Takot akong makipagmeet with anyone. it would be like “you’ve got mail” na movie ni tom hanks at meg ryan. they talk about anything pero no personal info regarding their identity was exchanged. anyways if you feel like having a txtm8 feel free to text me. (~_~)

    08/01/25 15:49

28. #50  sapphire

    

    susunod PRIEST na gay na ang susulat kay MGG

    08/01/24 21:29

29. #49  Kris Aquino

    

    Charuz! iringa ko yut..yupak oi..

    08/01/24 21:15

30. #48  marvz

    

    i like this post…we’re on the same boat Matt..i think my family already knows my sexual preference kya lang para d nga masira name nla they always insist n pakasalan k ung girl n tipo nla para sa kin… though quite unfair nga dun s girl… isa pang dahilan is dat i am the only guy in the family and the only guy who still bears the name of my whole clan of my father side. think of the cruelty of the position i am now…its hard and i always take myself isolated to everyone specially to my relatives…i hope i can be ur friend to …

    08/01/24 18:13

31. #47  kiko

    

    hi matt,
    okay ra na bay. wa man ka nag-inusara! (di ka nag-iisa!)
    hope you learn to appreciate more of yourself and do no lose hope. you are unique, no one can match your features, talents, gifts and personality. just magnify your strengths and capabilities and while recognizing your weaknesses, do not focus on them.
    find significance in your life.
    imong higala,
    ***kiko***

    08/01/24 15:05

32. #46  jancy

    

    halo bai mat ok ra na oi bsta dli mag drugs(hehehehehehe)btaw cbuano sad ko.kun e hinay2 kha na nmo og solti sa imo parent.bahala na og ma korat cla.hehehe

    08/01/24 14:31

33. #45  bayot pero murag dili

    

    hello matt!
    we can be friends. pareho man sad ko sa imo sa una. bag-o ra ko nag open sa akong friends and family about being gay. magkasinabtanay jud ta kay kantigo man ko mag cebuano. dili na ka kinahanglan magtinagalog. hehe.. email me at jrjrbnx@yahoo.com.

    08/01/24 10:38

34. #44  mike

    

    migs, brave? he doesn’t even show his face or use his real name.

    08/01/24 09:12

35. #43  sapphire

    

    i love the very unfriendly anton maton, kaia ayaw ko xa maging friend, parang ang hirap sa military,of all kasi bakit dun pa, pede naman CEO na lan din lang .smiley.

    08/01/24 06:06

36. #42  anton maton

    

    siyet! buhay na naman ang fans club ko! sige na nga,magiging friendly na nga lang ako kuning kuning for a change…. kaso wala ako sa pinas. niyahahahahaha!

    08/01/23 23:28

37. #41  matt

    

    -bad trip d ko pa natapos na post na!!!

    ern… I appreciate it.

    gusto ko lang linawin, hindi ako mukhang kabibe at hindi rin ako iha …pero natuwa ako sa mga comments …sobra!

    08/01/23 23:01

38. #40  matt

    

    hi migs,

    i would like to say thank you for giving my humble story a space in your blog and also to all those who have given a piece of their mind (decent or otherwise),i hope that i can be as brave as u are.

    special mention to anton maton, jt, white queen and dazedblu – i can feel your conc

    08/01/23 22:45

39. #39  White Queen

    

    Different face, same tale. Matt, if I were you, siguro unti-untiin mo kaya yung pagbibigay ng hint sa family mo about your sexual orientation. MAS mahirap kung later in your life na lang na bibigay ka. when you say GAY di naman ibig sabihin eh effem ka na or you wear make up and start being a tranny. its only an option. You are still you, your own identity. kaya lang yung lifestyle mo iba. Hindi naman kasi ibigsabihin eh ibroboradcast mo sa buong mundo na isa kang bakla. no hindi ganun kaya nga may tinatawag na discreetion di ba?

    Hindi ko masasabing I UNDERSTAND your situation kasi I dont know what conditions yung ikinuconsider mo. Basta gawin mo yung sa tingin mong tama at maingat. hindi porque bakla eh magiging kalabit subo ka na. tulad ng sinabi ng ating mga kapatid dito, maging wise tayo sa pagpili lalo na kugn nagkalat yung mga STD. Di na ako magpapaka hipokrita – Sarap kaya ng sex pero may responsibilidad tayong dapat isa-alang alang bago nating simulan ang masarap na pakikipagniig.

    08/01/23 22:17

40. #38  Skiroid

    

    To Matt and anotherfratboyinthecloset, Can I have your email add? =)

    08/01/23 22:06

41. #37  kris

    

    Good day Migs, Have been an avid fan of ur blog pero mga 3x palang siguro ako nakapagcomment and this one is the most personal of all. I really wanna know this guy kasi i could really relate sa kwento nya. As i read nga parang kwento ko.Have been finding a courage to share it with a friend kaya lang parang wala pa talagang worth the trust. Not that wala akong friend na nice, I do, but parang i duno kung kaya nilang i understand ang situation ko. That’s why i would really appreciate if i would be able to communicate or make friend with this guy. At least I know na we will be able to understand what we are going through because we are on the same boat. Thanx!

    08/01/23 21:53

42. #36  ranmas

    

    well… guys inaamin ko habol ko cya.. so what if i take the bait… for sure.. matt is mature enough to know… and i dont believe na innocente cya … com on guys.. matt doesnt need our help.. he needs guys to symphatized with him and have a way with these guys for free also in the end….
    well matt.. you can have me for free.. nice story i fall for it ahahhhahahahha.

    08/01/23 21:37

43. #35  Kabul Guy

    

    hey Matt,
    I am not new to ur problem, coz I do have same except that I am open in my family. My Father is retired military, my brother is a retired military both sides of my parents aae also in the military. They accepted as long as you are not loud with ur actions and that you are very carefull with your behavior. If you are professional and on the right age I guess u dont need to worry. Do it gradually, they wil understand that later on…

    08/01/23 19:59

44. #34  JT

    

    Hi Dazedblu,

    Thanks for the complement. I agree with you on ” be gentle and give words to help someone, not to hurt someone, not to bite someone”. I also believe we are all the same, ugly or not, thin or thick, short or tall, it doesn’t matter. I think what really matters is the real intention of each and everyone. But this is a free country, a free blog to make free comment and opinions. Everyone can write what they want ( but I hope with modesty). So who are we to judge? Only judges do that (wow, corny, LOL). Thanks again dazedblu.

    08/01/23 19:56

45. #33  peppoi

    

    Matt,
    SEB tayo! =)

    08/01/23 19:44

46. #32  dazedblu

    

    Absolutely I agree with Anton Maton, nothings change in this kind of open conversation. Dude you can’t blame them, maybe scratch your own balls and see what’s the difference.

    The guy is apparently searching himself to be out of his own closet, I guess so?

    SO be gentle let’s a have a one word na matulugan siya, not in that sense of “Due you can count me, I could probably help you, so here’s my num ###… and so on”.

    I’m not flagellating anyone’s reaction but pare-pareho lang tayo, there’s no difference, if we guys really wanted to help. No need to publicize it, words can tell.

    To JT and White Queen you guys gives the best shot so far! I look upon on you

    08/01/23 17:52

47. #31  JT

    

    Hi,

    I agree with anton maton, marami na naman ang susulat about being friends and so on and so forth. But I think the writing per se speaks about what the person’s intention, it depends on you Matt and to everyone of us here if we are going to take the bait or not. I think everyone reading this blog are mature enough to think what they want and what they are really after.

    I think anton you are just being true, at least there are still people who express their honest opinion.

    I also agree with “gay blogger in the closet” that you may start writing those person who are far away (living abroad). I don’t think they are damn enough to go back to the Phil. just for sex. But of course, it depends on Matt and the person concern.
    Kanya-kanyang opinion lang yan. You may click with somebody but not everybody.

    Goodluck.

    08/01/23 17:46

48. #30  ranmas

    

    matt.. bai…

    ayaw kaguol sa imung sitwasyon daghan kayo mo na nagatago pa…dili lang ikaw.. kaya nimu na.. basta kabalo ka unsa ka kana ang importante..
    kung mahadlok paka mag langtad sa imung pamilya.. hinay hinaya lang gud..
    kung nakay sister mas maayo sa iyaha kay kana makasabot dyud.. iwita imung mama of papa hehhehehe.. kay katong ako gipang iwit nako para dili ma atake hahahahah..
    anyways… if you needed someone to talk to just send me a txt message.. 09195064310.. if you think im after your body… heheheheh. well if you see me you wouldn’t be disappointed also. LOL…

    cge bai. ayo ayo…..

    JUN

    08/01/23 16:47

49. #29  Matt

    

    Thanks

    08/01/23 15:58

50. #28  ako ito

    

    What’s your e-mail address?

    08/01/23 14:43

51. #27  Knight Geronimo

    

    Ey Matt,

    Hang on.
    In time, you will find friends who are probably like you and are undergoing the same difficulty. Trust me, I also experienced that. It was very difficult; I didn’t know who to talk to but I am adjusting and I hope this will happen to you.

    P.S. Ayaw kaguol, taga-Cebu sad ko…

    08/01/23 14:27

52. #26  mike

    

    hi matt!
    like the many others. I too have same sentiments and concern. Mahirap magtago. I work and reside in cebu nga pala. Am a married guy who got biten by the bi-curiousity bug. Up until now still in confusion of my identity. Unlike u I haven’t have any experience kahit sa bayaran kasi am afraid abt health issues.

    hope i can talk to u some other time. Should u wish to contact me. u may email me at mike112505@yahoo.com

    paabot ko sa imong tubag sa akong email.

    08/01/23 14:07

53. #25  adrian™

    

    hi matt,

    yeah, it’s really hard kung hindi open sa family mo ang totoong ikaw. i feel the same way as you are. pero ang hirap naman yata kung wala ka man lang nakakausap or wala kang friends who share the same sentiments. you should at least try to mingle with other PLUs.

    well, if you need a friend, we’re here for you. or you can just leave a message in my site. Ü

    08/01/23 14:05

54. #24  Toots

    

    Tutulungan nyo kaya si Matt kung muka shang Kabibe?

    08/01/23 13:49

55. #23  blue_harajuku

    

    hey matt,

    crap friendship. i always dream of dating a military guy.. hehe

    ill be in cebu soon. hope we can meet there… ehehehehe peace!

    08/01/23 11:43

56. #22  Taga Manhattan

    

    In Memorian: Heath Ledger

    Heath Ledger found dead today at 3:30 PM in a Soho apartment. I hope his portrayal of a closeted homosexual in Brokeback Mountain has brought inpiration and light to others still in the closet, by choice and or circumstance. Life’s short, live life like each day was your last, be free to love whomever your heart desires and lastly…love yourself.

    Best,

    Taga Manhattan

    http://news.aol.com/entertainment/movies/movie-news-story/ar/_a/heath-ledger-found-dead-at-home/20080122165209990002?ncid=NWS00010000000001

    08/01/23 11:27

57. #21  MsNinja

    

    Ang swerte mo naman nasa campo ka! Daming ombre dian ha! Hindi ko pa na try mga marines or Phil. Army. Puro kase mga pulis hada ko d2 sa campo malapit sa amin, in full fairness, sa isang platoon, may 3 to 4 na pwedeng-pwede, ganda at kinis lang katawan ang puhunan ko ha … hehehe

    08/01/23 11:08

58. #20  isagani

    

    I’ve recently met someone from the guys4men website. He is 38 years old.

    Last January 2007 lang ang first sexual encounter niya with another man. When I’ve met him last October, he’s been making the rounds na. He reminds me of a child in a candy shop, with a fistful of money and wanting to try out all the flavors available.

    He’s quite aware and worried that his sell-by date is approaching or has gone by already. He’s been rejected for being too old, and new enough to be hurt by the mean words said by the young pretty things on the net.

    He has quite a few regrets. One was that he did not come out when he worked in Japan. He could have had a blast with all the hot guys there.

    The thing is, I like him. But at this time, having a relationship with him is asking for trouble. He’s having too much fun to settle down.

    Anyway, 30 plus and no girlfriend? You’re not fooling anyone.

    08/01/23 11:07

59. #19  trebs72

    

    hi matt….. mahirap talaga mag tago.pareho lang tayo….ako pag tinatanong bakit wala pa asawa at the age of 35….. sagot ko gusto ko mag payaman muna para di maghirap ang family ko(galing kc ako sa mahirap na angkan…hehehehe)and another excuse single blessedness is also a vocation para ka na din ng profess ng vows (vow of celibacy….ay cele “bate” pala)…. bakit nga ba malaking issue sa kultura natin na pag nasa age 30 ka na at wala ka pa asawa eh dapat mag habol ka na… kung choice ba talaga natin maging single for ever wala na sila paki alam dun……hirap no. ako basta masaya sa ganito….go…go…go

    08/01/23 10:52

60. #18  mykeyohann

    

    count me in as a friend. feel free 2 email me. psych dn ako, kya i thnk i can help.

    08/01/23 10:08

61. #17  xuxu

    

    im also discreet and im from Davao and im also with a group that would be at the hippest and hottest parties here in Davao. we may be groupmates xoxo.. who knows..hehehe

    08/01/23 08:58

62. #16  Isaribi

    

    sacrifice without freewill is sacrilege.

    08/01/23 08:35

63. #15  iamsam

    

    Hala, are you guys sure this military gay guy is hot? Dami na nagpahaging dito a hehe. He says “he works in the military.” He didnt say he’s a soldier. Sorry to spoil your military fetish guys. Hehe.

    08/01/23 08:02

64. #14  anotherfratboyinthecloset

    

    Minamahal na matt,
    .
    Gusto ko lang ipaalam na di ka nagiisa. Madami na nagkumento sa taas (pati sa baba), ay pinagdaraanan, dumaan, at pagdadaanan ang iyong sitwasyon. Ako man ay tago at ni kailan di ko gugustuhing malaman ng pamilya ko (unless mahanap ko ang aking One Great Love). Magkaroon ka ba naman ng pamilya ng mga pari, mga kaibigang nagpapastor, homophobic na praternity isali mo pa tatay ko, at isang tiyuhing bading na napariwara ang buhay, ewan ko nlng. Buti nalang lahat sila ayaw pa ako magasawa.
    .
    Kahit ako ay minsan (isang beses) nang sumubok ng bayaran (sa isang illegal na masahista)… ginawa para lang maranasan ang junior ng iba (badtrip lang mas malaki pa ata ang akin). Not until naranasan ko ang spa (impluwensya yan ni kuya migs at ng iba pa). Ung legit na spa ha, lakad ka lang, rampa, at tyak me susunod na sayo patungo sa sauna (hihi kaya ngayon, kasama ko lagi si bf pag nagpapaspa ako, todo bantay, tara wensha tayo )
    .
    Dagdagan pa ng lintik na G4M (ayan, impluwensha talaga ni migs dito ko nalaman tungkol dito, me kasama pang RealJock na ad).
    .
    Payong kafatid lang iha, katulad ng nasabi ni JT, dumarami ang kaso ng nakahahawang sakit (sa byaran at kahit sa libreng pang isang gabi lamang/ one nyt stands). Swerte mo nalang kung hindi pa nagkakaroon ng resistant strains sa simpleng Penicillin ang dumapo sayo.
    .
    At kung iyong mamarapatin, tara, sama ka sa aking closeta y cabinete, ihahanap kita ng asawa (bakit nga pala nauso itog term na to sa PLUs?). Magaling ako maghanap, pwamis. Madaming paraan na di malalaman ng tao na si Narda ay si Darna, na si Matt ay si Ttam. Tara na byahe tayo. hihihi text moko: ling jiu yi qi – ba yi si – wu san san san. hehehe.
    .
    Ang iyong ate,
    FBITC
    .
    OO Anton Maton. Madaming puputak. Peace.

    08/01/23 06:45

65. #13  Cave Igan

    

    Hi gay-blogger-in-the-closet, Hi Tony, Hi Hi Matt, c/o Migs

    Gusto ko sanang makipag-kaibigan sa inyo. Pareho nyo ako who’s almost caught in the same situation. I don’t want to come out (yet)…I’m not sure or I don’t think I have to or need to. It is difficult pero sa ngayon I’m not ready to do anything drastic or something that may complicate my already complicated life. Need your help.

    Kuya Migs, you may send my email addr to the people above if they’re interested. Salamat po ng marami.

    08/01/23 04:27

66. #12  mouthworxz

    

    matt, u nid friends madami dito nyan! celebrate LOVE! wow! peaceout!

    08/01/23 03:20

67. #11  John

    

    dong Matt,
    taga-Cebu diay ka. Dili na ka kinahanglan moadto pa sa laing isla aron magpahungaw sa imong gibati. Kataas sa atong lugar, sa norte, sa south; daghang ka-adtoan nga nindot ang mga laki kay taga-atoa man gyud og dali kasabot. Pag-amping lang sa dakbayan kay basin og kuyaw ang mga laki diha. Suroy-suroy sad sa mga lungsod kay na-a ang mga lab-as og mga buotan na mga laki. Wala pay mga sakit, og barato pa. Ang uban gani masuko hatagan or malipayon na kaayo sa gamay na gasa. Kasagaran sa mga kabayotan nga BIsaya ganahan man makig-amigo og tabangan ka sa ilang lugar na mag-ila ila sa mga laki. Tapukan, tabangan, hatdan, og tuktokan ka pa sa mga laki.

    Total military man ka, adtoa nang daghang suok-suok kay na-a didto ang lamian. Dili man gani mahadlok ang mga bayot sa atoa sa mga rebelde og sa tawi-tawi. Mosulong gud ang biga didto. Sus dong, kadaghang mga lamian sa atoa, sa Dumaguete, mga kalungsoranon sa Bohol, sa pikaspikas nga Leyte, sa Mindanao nga nagkalidades ang mga laki na ampay ang bayot.

    Hinaot na makuha nimo ang kalipay sa imong kaugalingon

    08/01/23 03:02

68. #10  cavalieron

    

    hi matt,
    i feel and understand what situation you have right now.we are in the same world where being obvious seems the end of everything.parehong-pareho tayo.you are in military service,me in a construction field.ang hirap lalo na kapag reputasyon na ang nakataya.mataas ang designation ko now dito sa dubai,although naglipana ang tukso,di ako makagalaw coz maliit lang ang mundo ng mga pinoy dito.nagkikita at nagkakakilala ang lahat.ang difference ko lang sa yo matt,marami na akong past relationships sa pinas.nagtagal lahat.at wala akong regrets sa mga naging relationship ko.takot kasi ako sa mga bayaran,di ka na sure sa health nila,may mga insidente pa ng pananakit at panghoholdap.di ba?anyway,if you want somebody who can talk to and can ask some advices,just email me @ rogarman326@yahoo.com.

    08/01/23 02:23

69. #9  White Queen

    

    I just want to share with you this poem I I hope it would be helpful to you
    Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy.

    Even if you need to quit your job, or move across country, always do what you really want.

    Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn’t work out.

    Never apologize for being successful.
    Only haters want to keep you at their level.

    Never apologize for crying.

    Never apologize for being frugal.
    Just because you save your money instead of blowing it
    on the latest fashion emergency doesn’t mean you’re cheap.

    Never apologize for being a single parent.
    Babies are a blessing.

    Never apologize for treating yourself to something special.
    Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.

    Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship.
    Your safety should always be a priority.

    Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship.
    You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.

    Never apologize for saying NO.

    Never apologize to your new friends about old friends.
    There’s a reason they been your friend from day one.

    Never apologize for ordering dessert
    or more than one dessert.

    Never apologize for your taste in clothes.
    It’s your style.

    Never apologize for changing your mind!

    Never apologize for being you!

    “ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!”

    08/01/23 00:21

70. #8  JT

    

    Hi Matt,Hi Migs

    I had several comments regarding Kiko’s articles. I think Matt’s story is quite similar to ours. The only difference is that no one knows it as you have stated. Its really hard especially in your case (being in military). Im pretty sure that people in military especially in the Philippines are still not open with this kind of matter. I may be wrong but with the way I see it, its really very dangerous to come out to your colleagues (just like mine). I know its hard, I know the feeling too.

    About your family, I believe you have to take it easy. Gradually, they will know it. Yes, the consequences may be disastrous but again, I believe that in the long run, your family especially your parents will accept it. Don’t rush things.

    About paying somebody for sex, just be very cautious. I saw in a recent news that even Syphillis which is almost curable by Penicillin and almost eradicated, are coming back. So always be safe in doing it.

    I believed that you have read kiko’s articles and there are really lots of good and honest opinion regarding our matters. I think it will help (like it did to me).

    Goodluck. You may e-mail me if you want. My e-mail add is in kiko’s article Take care buddy.

    08/01/22 23:33

71. #7  xoxo

    

    I am out in the open when it comes to my friends, but still a lot of people think that i’m a straight guy… however, i have the same problem with Matt, my parents and family dont know about my status and i also dont have gay friends also. all of my friends are straight guys and girls. it’s quite difficult for me to go out and be with other gay guys as they seem so judgmental. and most of them think that i’m already taken (i dated someone who told me that i’m the type who can’t be single). Anyway, the circle that i belong to is quite exclusivist, in the sense that we are the saem group that would be at the hippest and hottest parties here in Davao.
    I havent dated anyone for the longest period of time, and if ever i do and he gets to meet my friends or me in person, the guy would easily get intimidated. And also, my straight friends are always on the look out for me. whew, it’s a tough life. xoxo

    08/01/22 23:21

72. #6  bam

    

    hi matt. i know where you’re driving at and i know how it feels. u can text me, 09279624517. im very much willing to help you.

    08/01/22 23:03

73. #5  anton maton

    

    parang nakikinita ko na … na madami na namang mag-eepal na mag-o-offer ng friendship kuno kuno … pero ang habol sex kasi meron silang ‘military’ fetish …
    niyahahahahaha!

    opinion ko lang. bato bato sa langit ang tamaan huwag magalit!

    the very unfriendly – anton maton

    08/01/22 22:37

74. #4  Taga Manhattan

    

    This is my first post here and would like to say that I love this site. Quick question….what does PLU stand for?

    Also, thanks Miggs for starting to post idol hunks of the 80’s and 90’s i.e. Gabby Concepcion etc. One can truly see the change in taste of the Filipino MTV generation. What was sexy and hunky then is now all about lean and defined today. Could this be the influence of the popularity of the Bel Ami, Abercrombie and Fitch models? Needless to say, I’ve been around the world (to quote Lisa Stansfield)and dated all kinds of nationalities and still find the Filipino male to be the utmost in handsomeness and beauty. If you can allow me to share, it is my dream to settle down with a Filipino man. For now I just want to know what PLU means.

    Best,

    Taga Manhattan

    08/01/22 21:41

75. #3  chuchucaracas

    

    it’s official. 2008 is the year of the closet kings/queens/chuva

    08/01/22 21:32

76. #2  gay blogger in the closet

    

    hey matt, i was there once. at hindi man lang ako nagbabayad kasi sobrang takot. pero unti-unti nagkaroon ng kaibigan through a yahoogroup, hanggang nagkalakas-loob makipagkita. ok naman pala. kung gusto mo, pwede kang maging active sa comments dito. kahit papano eh nailalabas mo yung mga frustrations mo, kahit online lang. kung takot ka sa mga nasa pinas, sulatan mo yung mga nasa abroad, para sigurado kang hindi ka-opisina mo yung kausap mo. siyangapala, nasa canada ako =)

    08/01/22 21:32

77. #1  dazedbluatt

    

    whoa, this case is really tough i have friends na hindi open sa family nila, but the story of matt is totally different!

    Far ta least alam ko yung mga tendencies nila, but unlike you… ni friends around eh wala kang mapagsabihan. I guess you really have to find someone you can talk to, hindi yung masyado mong tinatago.

    Sooner or later, or baka nga before ay may makakapansin sa pagiging alone, i mean wala ka man lang mapagsabihan ng situation mo. Its really diff lalo na’t conservative yugn family mo. Maybe try open yourself to other possibilities, huwag kang matakot your at the right age and mature ka na, i think acceptance is not the issue. If you think na, may hint na ang family mo malay mo nagaantay lang sila na gestures mo or any move from you. Sa ganitong paraan it wouldn’t be that difficult na.

    Anyways were in the 21st century, hindi na ata uso yung major discrimination kung ganoon ang oruentation mo,. Mas mahihirapan ka lang kung wala kang gagawing action.

    I just hope you’ll go on a good process of letting yourslef to be free.

    08/01/22 20:48

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