Comments on: Would you live with your lover’s wife? http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/ I say again, "World Peace!" Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:17:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Dawei http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-107969 Dawei Sat, 27 Dec 2008 02:06:32 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-107969 I agree with Little Fish.... LETTING GO means you really love the person because you do not want to be the reason for him not to have a family of his own (I am not saying yours with nevin is not a family...) but still, sabi mo nga, lalaki si nevin so he will really look for a girl to build his family... I am very proud of you kasi you really made your way to help Nevin... kung ano man sya ngaun, it's partly because of your and his dreams of having a good future... On the other side, Nevin was honest enough to tell his GF, now his wife, that he has a relationship with you... your relationship with Nevin with his wife around is one of a kind kasi mahirap makatagpo ng tulad ninyo though meron naman... Again...it's SELF-RESPECT as what you said, that matters... sabihin na nating tanggap na ng asawa ni nevin na meron syang kahati...but, can you accept it?..you are bothered now kasi alam no na parating na ung time na Nevin will have to live with his wife and kid and that you will be relegated to, sorry to say, "2nd"...if before, ok lang sa yo at sa wife nya, kasi, hindi pa kayo nagsasama together na tatlo... But still, I dont want to be judgmental kasi di ko din naman kilala ung babae at the same time, di ko din alam how you will cope up in such situation... However, sinabi ko nga at the start, LETTING YOU IS A WAY TO TELL YOUR SELF AND NEVIN NA MAHAL MO TALAGA SYA kaya you are letting go of him...kasi naman, I always believe na if you are really meant until the end, DESTINY WILL FIND ITS WAY para maging kayo ulit... pasensya na at napahaba nga comments ko... Wishing you the best, Dawei I agree with Little Fish….

LETTING GO means you really love the person because you do not want to be the reason for him not to have a family of his own (I am not saying yours with nevin is not a family…) but still, sabi mo nga, lalaki si nevin so he will really look for a girl to build his family…

I am very proud of you kasi you really made your way to help Nevin… kung ano man sya ngaun, it’s partly because of your and his dreams of having a good future…

On the other side, Nevin was honest enough to tell his GF, now his wife, that he has a relationship with you… your relationship with Nevin with his wife around is one of a kind kasi mahirap makatagpo ng tulad ninyo though meron naman…

Again…it’s SELF-RESPECT as what you said, that matters… sabihin na nating tanggap na ng asawa ni nevin na meron syang kahati…but, can you accept it?..you are bothered now kasi alam no na parating na ung time na Nevin will have to live with his wife and kid and that you will be relegated to, sorry to say, “2nd”…if before, ok lang sa yo at sa wife nya, kasi, hindi pa kayo nagsasama together na tatlo…

But still, I dont want to be judgmental kasi di ko din naman kilala ung babae at the same time, di ko din alam how you will cope up in such situation…

However, sinabi ko nga at the start, LETTING YOU IS A WAY TO TELL YOUR SELF AND NEVIN NA MAHAL MO TALAGA SYA kaya you are letting go of him…kasi naman, I always believe na if you are really meant until the end, DESTINY WILL FIND ITS WAY para maging kayo ulit…

pasensya na at napahaba nga comments ko…

Wishing you the best,

Dawei

]]> By: aeriol http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69895 aeriol Sat, 16 Feb 2008 05:18:05 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69895 ‘Mahal mo ba ko dhil kailangan mko,,, or kailangan mko kya mahal mko’ kabog ung lines mo ateng!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehe joke!!!!!

]]> By: fritz http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69761 fritz Fri, 15 Feb 2008 08:18:02 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69761 well, let it flow lang muna until you'll realize that you wanna let go na! well, let it flow lang muna until you’ll realize that you wanna let go na!

]]> By: peppoi http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69104 peppoi Tue, 12 Feb 2008 14:32:13 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-69104 Think it really thoroughly. If you think that you can still tolerate it out of love; then go for it! If your love is unconditional anyway; no limits; it should work. The good side about it is that you become part of his family and that could be a blessing. Let the your love die a natural death somehow, someday; then, that should be the right time to leave. If it grows more; meaning, if you fall in love with him more for being a responsible father; then, it's a gift that you're important or integral part in his life and being. If you think you can't. Let go then.You just might suffer the consequences though; of thinking, what if it worked...just a thought. Goodluck.Hugs. Think it really thoroughly.

If you think that you can still tolerate it out of love; then go for it! If your love is unconditional anyway; no limits; it should work. The good side about it is that you become part of his family and that could be a blessing. Let the your love die a natural death somehow, someday; then, that should be the right time to leave. If it grows more; meaning, if you fall in love with him more for being a responsible father; then, it’s a gift that you’re important or integral part in his life and being.

If you think you can’t. Let go then.You just might suffer the consequences though; of thinking, what if it worked…just a thought.

Goodluck.Hugs.

]]> By: winterking http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68623 winterking Sun, 10 Feb 2008 15:49:15 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68623 napakadali ng sagot ko dyan : NO. why? why would I torture myself kahit na itanong mo sa akin how much I love the guy at if I am ready to accept everything sa kanya. Hay buhay bakla talaga. gustong tinotorture ang sarili sa ngalan ng pag-ibig. bakit kaya ganun ano? I cant see the logic why do we need to hurt ourselves just to prove an unconditional love still exist? pwede namang patunayan yan in other way like helping the person objectively. Analyze this I need you because I love you or I love you because I need you napakadali ng sagot ko dyan :

NO. why? why would I torture myself kahit na itanong mo sa akin how much I love the guy at if I am ready to accept everything sa kanya. Hay buhay bakla talaga. gustong tinotorture ang sarili sa ngalan ng pag-ibig. bakit kaya ganun ano? I cant see the logic why do we need to hurt ourselves just to prove an unconditional love still exist? pwede namang patunayan yan in other way like helping the person objectively.

Analyze this

I need you because I love you or I love you because I need you

]]> By: iloveboom http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68430 iloveboom Sat, 09 Feb 2008 19:25:50 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68430 Dig deep..ask yourself what you really really want and start from there? Dont be too dramatic and emotional. We only have one life to live so enjoy....Cheers! Dig deep..ask yourself what you really really want and start from there? Dont be too dramatic and emotional. We only have one life to live so enjoy….Cheers!

]]> By: mindy http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68365 mindy Sat, 09 Feb 2008 13:57:42 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68365 first of all, sana erine wag kang mag email na pang text ang spelling mahirap basahin. second, Nevin needs to choose between his wife and you. no one can love two persons equally. imposible yun at kung meron mang nagsasabi na pwede they're lying or don't know what they're talking about. kung ikaw ang piliin niya well and good. kung pinili niya ang asawa niya live with it. to love is to risk not be loved in return! first of all, sana erine wag kang mag email na pang text ang spelling mahirap basahin.

second, Nevin needs to choose between his wife and you. no one can love two persons equally. imposible yun at kung meron mang nagsasabi na pwede they’re lying or don’t know what they’re talking about. kung ikaw ang piliin niya well and good. kung pinili niya ang asawa niya live with it. to love is to risk not be loved in return!

]]> By: njdinto http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68320 njdinto Sat, 09 Feb 2008 08:44:07 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68320 i hate when people write letters like they're texting. hate it! hate it! i hate when people write letters like they’re texting. hate it! hate it!

]]> By: marvz http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68285 marvz Sat, 09 Feb 2008 06:34:34 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68285 woah...how sad naman..but i guess you should be the one to do the decision either it will hurts you both.as u have said mahal mo xa but then u think naman of the respect to the relationship that you had,maybe its being wiser now to leave while you can handle ur own heart...sbi nga sa kanta ni Will Young.."i think i better leave ryt now before i gonna fall any deeper..." mas mganda cguro to pull over to a good fulfilling relationship while you have still the respect for yourself...mas mahirap mahulog nang husto tpos madami lng masasaktan in the end... hope u the best still... woah…how sad naman..but i guess you should be the one to do the decision either it will hurts you both.as u have said mahal mo xa but then u think naman of the respect to the relationship that you had,maybe its being wiser now to leave while you can handle ur own heart…sbi nga sa kanta ni Will Young..”i think i better leave ryt now before i gonna fall any deeper…”
mas mganda cguro to pull over to a good fulfilling relationship while you have still the respect for yourself…mas mahirap mahulog nang husto tpos madami lng masasaktan in the end…

hope u the best still…

]]> By: will http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68239 will Sat, 09 Feb 2008 03:32:06 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/06/would-you-live-with-your-lovers-wife/#comment-68239 I'm finding it real hard to be sympathetic to you. Sorry. I feel you're being both selfish (for not letting go of him when he has a family) and stupid (for letting him use you). Of course, he's even more selfish. But have some self-respect, get out of this mess! I’m finding it real hard to be sympathetic to you. Sorry. I feel you’re being both selfish (for not letting go of him when he has a family) and stupid (for letting him use you). Of course, he’s even more selfish. But have some self-respect, get out of this mess!

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