Comments on: Looking for “Mr. Right Now” http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/ I say again, "World Peace!" Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:17:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: The Prude http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-73194 The Prude Sun, 09 Mar 2008 22:49:42 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-73194 I'm about to turn 30 and I'm already feeling a bit old. Like you, I felt that I've been through everything this lifestyle has to offer: fell in love, felt loved, got used, abused, and in return, used some to get by my in-between stages. But is there really a Mr. Right Now? Much more, is there even a Mr. Right? I’m about to turn 30 and I’m already feeling a bit old. Like you, I felt that I’ve been through everything this lifestyle has to offer: fell in love, felt loved, got used, abused, and in return, used some to get by my in-between stages. But is there really a Mr. Right Now? Much more, is there even a Mr. Right?

]]> By: peppoi http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71910 peppoi Fri, 29 Feb 2008 10:23:40 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71910 In my opnion lang naman, there's nothing wrong with having a 'Mr. Right now' til you find your Mr. Right. In my opnion lang naman, there’s nothing wrong with having a ‘Mr. Right now’ til you find your Mr. Right.

]]> By: perfida limpin http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71832 perfida limpin Thu, 28 Feb 2008 23:37:52 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71832 “It takes time and adjustment for two people to make a healthy relationship. There are no guarantees, and only those who are willing to try and fail at relationships will eventually have a healthy one.”
“Kasi all of us have this “ideal relationship” in our heads, na pag hindi natin nakuha, we think hte guy we are with is already not the Mr. Right.”
“There is no such thing as Mr Right!”

Get yourself a trophy bf and you will still end up lonely and unhappy. Don’t be defined by your failed relationships but be guided by what you have learned and lost.

]]> By: sdny http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71807 sdny Thu, 28 Feb 2008 16:49:24 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71807 Some times Mr. Right Now is all we need and can handle at the time. But it would suck for the Mr. Right Now to fall inlove with you and end up being hurt because you dont feel the same way. That's karma I wouldn't want. So in the long run, fuck buddies, unless you really mean well for the other person. Mr. Right comes for those who are ready to love (again). Cause if you're really ready for love, you wouldn't settle for Mr. Right Now/Trophy BF? Just my thoughts, good luck. Some times Mr. Right Now is all we need and can handle at the time. But it would suck for the Mr. Right Now to fall inlove with you and end up being hurt because you dont feel the same way. That’s karma I wouldn’t want. So in the long run, fuck buddies, unless you really mean well for the other person. Mr. Right comes for those who are ready to love (again). Cause if you’re really ready for love, you wouldn’t settle for Mr. Right Now/Trophy BF?
Just my thoughts, good luck.

]]> By: cast http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71758 cast Thu, 28 Feb 2008 07:30:01 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71758 in your lifetime you're going to encounter a lot of mr. rights..... they will offer you a lot of things - experiences, joys, heartaches, joys again and heartaches again... but sometimes you have to look it this way... all of these add-up to your personality as a gay man and in turn, however-you-may-want-to-take-these- experiences, will make you stronger... it's difficult i tell you,only a few of the total gay population "really have a Mr Right".....haaay kape nga... in your lifetime you’re going to encounter a lot of mr. rights….. they will offer you a lot of things – experiences, joys, heartaches, joys again and heartaches again… but sometimes you have to look it this way… all of these add-up to your personality as a gay man and in turn, however-you-may-want-to-take-these- experiences, will make you stronger… it’s difficult i tell you,only a few of the total gay population “really have a Mr Right”…..haaay kape nga…

]]> By: joshred http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71739 joshred Thu, 28 Feb 2008 05:00:22 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71739 in reality mr. right is just few for us... I undergo the same situation like you having a trophy boyfriend but it end up nothing i just feel and loses interest on him.. worst it end up with a major controversy then. But it brought out something a much better and interesting twist in my life. Bieng single is happy. Just having a companion to everyone changes thing. Just remember to go on with moral norms. You will not feel loneliness... Just Enjoy life. in reality mr. right is just few for us… I undergo the same situation like you having a trophy boyfriend but it end up nothing i just feel and loses interest on him.. worst it end up with a major controversy then. But it brought out something a much better and interesting twist in my life. Bieng single is happy. Just having a companion to everyone changes thing. Just remember to go on with moral norms. You will not feel loneliness… Just Enjoy life.

]]> By: Ric http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71736 Ric Thu, 28 Feb 2008 04:31:41 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71736 There's no Mr. Right because nobody's perfect. Even the others' Mr. Rights have something wrong. So, just search and search and savor the moments for I believe that we cannot have everything in this world. Happiness entails pain and sorrow. If there's light there's darkness, a short and a long of everything. High and low. Land and sky. Laughter and tears. We feel the other because of its opposite. Therefore if we just think harder, there's no Mr. Right for there will always be something wrong with him We are not angels.And even angels have demons as their counterparts. Quo vadis? Just be happy and accept what this world has to offer. Ultimately, it is our outlook in life that counts. There’s no Mr. Right because nobody’s perfect. Even the others’ Mr. Rights have something wrong. So, just search and search and savor the moments for I believe that we cannot have everything in this world. Happiness entails pain and sorrow. If there’s light there’s darkness, a short and a long of everything. High and low. Land and sky. Laughter and tears. We feel the other because of its opposite. Therefore if we just think harder, there’s no Mr. Right for there will always be something wrong with him We are not angels.And even angels have demons as their counterparts. Quo vadis? Just be happy and accept what this world has to offer. Ultimately, it is our outlook in life that counts.

]]> By: will http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71714 will Thu, 28 Feb 2008 00:49:43 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71714 There is no such thing as Mr Right! At least you won't know till you've been dating for awhile. If you see someone that has some traits that you like, then go for it. Nobody knows if it'll turn into a wonderful relationship. I think we Filipinos have this notion of a fairytale romance. Even among gay guys, we like to know there's someone out there who fits our description of Mr. Right and we'll fall in love at first sight. Girl, it's a myth. Infatuation lang iyon. It takes time and adjustment for two people to make a healthy relationship. There are no guarantees, and only those who are willing to try and fail at relationships will eventually have a healthy one. There is no such thing as Mr Right! At least you won’t know till you’ve been dating for awhile. If you see someone that has some traits that you like, then go for it. Nobody knows if it’ll turn into a wonderful relationship.
I think we Filipinos have this notion of a fairytale romance. Even among gay guys, we like to know there’s someone out there who fits our description of Mr. Right and we’ll fall in love at first sight. Girl, it’s a myth. Infatuation lang iyon. It takes time and adjustment for two people to make a healthy relationship. There are no guarantees, and only those who are willing to try and fail at relationships will eventually have a healthy one.

]]> By: Ares sa UAE http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71690 Ares sa UAE Wed, 27 Feb 2008 20:28:25 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71690 Tayo na lang pede? Ilang taon ka na ba? Email mo ko, p're! One question comes to mind when I read your letter - would a boypren-boyprenan make you happy? Kasi if "it" will, who are we to say that it's not right. I guess masasabi ko that Ive been in the same situation, pero I ended up lonelier. Kasi all of us have this "ideal relationship" in our heads, na pag hindi natin nakuha, we think hte guy we are with is already not the Mr. Right. Baka naman you saw the Mr. Right or maybe you've spent some time with him already, pero you thought he wasnt good enough. Mga kafatid, itgil na ang kahibangan. There is no Mr. Right. Lagi lang tayo dpat thankful sa kung anong meron tayo, and stop looking for trophies to show around. If the guy respects you and will love you for who you are i think thats more than enough. Babu! Tayo na lang pede? Ilang taon ka na ba? Email mo ko, p’re!

One question comes to mind when I read your letter – would a boypren-boyprenan make you happy? Kasi if “it” will, who are we to say that it’s not right.

I guess masasabi ko that Ive been in the same situation, pero I ended up lonelier. Kasi all of us have this “ideal relationship” in our heads, na pag hindi natin nakuha, we think hte guy we are with is already not the Mr. Right. Baka naman you saw the Mr. Right or maybe you’ve spent some time with him already, pero you thought he wasnt good enough.

Mga kafatid, itgil na ang kahibangan. There is no Mr. Right. Lagi lang tayo dpat thankful sa kung anong meron tayo, and stop looking for trophies to show around. If the guy respects you and will love you for who you are i think thats more than enough.

Babu!

]]> By: jau http://manilagayguy.net/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71681 jau Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:25:33 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/02/27/looking-for-mr-right-now/#comment-71681 definitely not. pretending that u found what u desired most is tantamount to fooling yourself. give yourself a break. you are just trying to please your acquaintances in expense of your own happiness. you have been looking for mr right but fate failed you. i guess you are looking for him at the wrong place and time. or you missed noticing your mr right because of your high expectations. why dont you try to overhaul your standard, atleast make it reasonable. in that way, meeting mr right is plausible. definitely not. pretending that u found what u desired most is tantamount to fooling yourself. give yourself a break. you are just trying to please your acquaintances in expense of your own happiness. you have been looking for mr right but fate failed you. i guess you are looking for him at the wrong place and time. or you missed noticing your mr right because of your high expectations. why dont you try to overhaul your standard, atleast make it reasonable. in that way, meeting mr right is plausible.

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