Comments on: To tell, or not to tell… http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/ I say again, "World Peace!" Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:05:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Blue http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-287997 Blue Thu, 08 Oct 2009 13:36:10 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-287997 As the saying goes: honesty is the best policy. But then again, you have to be ready for the results of your actions. What I perceive to be the issue here is not the lack of courage to tell, but the lack of courage to accept whatever the result may be. The truth shall set you free. It's either you will be taken in or pushed away. Whatever the result, acceptance is what gives it its sense, and that's when we are set free. As the saying goes: honesty is the best policy. But then again, you have to be ready for the results of your actions. What I perceive to be the issue here is not the lack of courage to tell, but the lack of courage to accept whatever the result may be. The truth shall set you free. It’s either you will be taken in or pushed away. Whatever the result, acceptance is what gives it its sense, and that’s when we are set free.

]]> By: Pathetic Mentor http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-114256 Pathetic Mentor Fri, 20 Mar 2009 11:28:26 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-114256 I share your viewpoint Sir. I also find myself in the same predicament. I have fallen for a number of my studs ( male students, I mean). It's like a vicious cycle. It goes on and on. . . What complicates things is when they sense it and start flirting. It drives me loco and tempts me to give in but I always think of the dire consequences. More than my co-teachers' respect, I cannot afford to lose my job ( the money) and my freedom. God knows how many of our kind have been out of the service and even put to jail for giving in this perverted urge ( love, lust, whatever. Right now, I have an 18 year-old stud with whom I'm crazily in love. He's been sending the message that he likes me too but whichever way I look at it, I knew it was bound for doom. I'd rather lose him and hurt myself ( small sacrifice huh!)than lose everything I've worked for. . .Do I make sense or am I missing something? I share your viewpoint Sir. I also find myself in the same predicament. I have fallen for a number of my studs ( male students, I mean). It’s like a vicious cycle. It goes on and on. . . What complicates things is when they sense it and start flirting. It drives me loco and tempts me to give in but I always think of the dire consequences. More than my co-teachers’ respect, I cannot afford to lose my job ( the money) and my freedom. God knows how many of our kind have been out of the service and even put to jail for giving in this perverted urge ( love, lust, whatever. Right now, I have an 18 year-old stud with whom I’m crazily in love. He’s been sending the message that he likes me too but whichever way I look at it, I knew it was bound for doom. I’d rather lose him and hurt myself ( small sacrifice huh!)than lose everything I’ve worked for. . .Do I make sense or am I missing something?

]]> By: iam http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-78285 iam Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:08:05 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-78285 puta ka! dinamay mo pa ang diyos sa kalandian mo. wag nang magpa mintik mintik, go na. puta ka! dinamay mo pa ang diyos sa kalandian mo. wag nang magpa mintik mintik, go na.

]]> By: glenn http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-76406 glenn Sun, 30 Mar 2008 09:00:58 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-76406 just try to tell just try to tell

]]> By: jo http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75177 jo Sat, 22 Mar 2008 17:11:12 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75177 Just enjoy the fact that you're friends, love him unconditionally. OR Tell him everything, you might be surprised how he'll react, maybe better than u hope for.. besides u both had a strong foundation, and i'm sure he's matured enough to deal with these things. Best of Luck. Just enjoy the fact that you’re friends, love him unconditionally. OR Tell him everything, you might be surprised how he’ll react, maybe better than u hope for.. besides u both had a strong foundation, and i’m sure he’s matured enough to deal with these things. Best of Luck.

]]> By: zidro http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75142 zidro Sat, 22 Mar 2008 12:09:09 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75142 Don't tell, bad habit sees you not only as a teacher but also as a friend. Our professional lives as teachers tell us not to fall in love with our students. Find someone to love and put your attention to him. It is going to be difficult but it is a better way to start. Don’t tell, bad habit sees you not only as a teacher but also as a friend. Our professional lives as teachers tell us not to fall in love with our students.
Find someone to love and put your attention to him. It is going to be difficult but it is a better way to start.

]]> By: lands http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75088 lands Sat, 22 Mar 2008 02:11:23 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-75088 just a side note, there has been a lot of stories of gay gays here falling for the straight (maybe gay too) friend just because they are nice and they would spend time together. Question, Aren't we over-romanticizing things too much? ( did i spell that right? hehe) I admit, i do too... kya nga i always ask, how do you tell if a friend is into you or if they're just being a nice FRIEND??? dont ask me, i dunno too... just a side note, there has been a lot of stories of gay gays here falling for the straight (maybe gay too) friend just because they are nice and they would spend time together.
Question, Aren’t we over-romanticizing things too much? ( did i spell that right? hehe)
I admit, i do too…
kya nga i always ask, how do you tell if a friend is into you or if they’re just being a nice FRIEND???
dont ask me, i dunno too…

]]> By: dnangel http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74829 dnangel Thu, 20 Mar 2008 02:48:54 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74829 @perfida limpin: anu ka ba??? syempre kasama na yun noh!! hehe @perfida limpin:

anu ka ba??? syempre kasama na yun noh!!
hehe

]]> By: george http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74702 george Wed, 19 Mar 2008 04:10:10 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74702 Go tell him. After all, there were moments when he asked you why you were "masungit". Tell him of these struggles; I am sure maiintindihan niya yun. Of course, it is not a guarantee that he will fall for you. It is better you say it now, than be continually pained inside. If he walks away, at least you can start the healing process now. If you have much self-respect, then you will survive the emotional ordeal. But who knows, di ba? Just tell him in a professional way. Huwag maging hysterical. After telling him everything, tell him you are ready for him to leave you, if he wants it. Then, tell him "I love you", then stand, and leave. Di ba, dramatic? hehehe Go tell him. After all, there were moments when he asked you why you were “masungit”. Tell him of these struggles; I am sure maiintindihan niya yun. Of course, it is not a guarantee that he will fall for you. It is better you say it now, than be continually pained inside. If he walks away, at least you can start the healing process now. If you have much self-respect, then you will survive the emotional ordeal. But who knows, di ba? Just tell him in a professional way. Huwag maging hysterical. After telling him everything, tell him you are ready for him to leave you, if he wants it. Then, tell him “I love you”, then stand, and leave. Di ba, dramatic? hehehe

]]> By: astroboi http://manilagayguy.net/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74671 astroboi Tue, 18 Mar 2008 19:12:25 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/03/17/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/#comment-74671 oh come on. don't waste his respect and friendship. it doesn't mean if he hangs out with you or may mga supposed imaginary moments kayo it means he's into you. telling him and then? expecting na maging kayo? tsk tsk. dying everyday? just enjoy the moment. oa na yan ah. oh come on. don’t waste his respect and friendship. it doesn’t mean if he hangs out with you or may mga supposed imaginary moments kayo it means he’s into you. telling him and then? expecting na maging kayo? tsk tsk.

dying everyday? just enjoy the moment. oa na yan ah.

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