Regular MGG reader and commenter “Fatboyslim” decides to share his story to us — he claims to be happily married but lives a secret “a-thousand-a-night” life with a former officemate. He says he already knows what I would tell him. How about you, what would you tell him? Read on.
Migs,
Good day to you and to all the readers of MGG!
Let me start off by introducing myself… Im fatboyslim, (thats the code that I use when I post comments here) 30 years old from Cebu. I got married last year to my girlfriend of 3 years, and I can say that I’m very much happy with the relationship.
I would like to request for you NOT TO PUBLISH my email address because my wife doesnt know anything about my other life. It took me a while to write you this letter, but after reading several postings and comments, I have mustered enough courage to compose this letter. (eventhough I kinda know what ur advice will be already)
Yes, I am BISEXUAL. Some others say theres no such thing as BI, but believe me there is. I love to have sex with my wife. She is the greatest girl any guy can have. She might not be as sexy (in short she’s fat) but when we make passionate love, its like bringing me to 7th heaven.
But the other side of me likes guys also. I love having sex with guys. Before when I was still single, I would frequent massage place just to get serviced by guys or giving guys BJ. I told myself that when I get married, I will stop whatever “sidetrip” that Im doing. Apprently it did not happen.
I behaved for the first two months after getting married. The problem started when I met Michael. Michael was one of our former employees. That time we needed extra personnel so he was hired. Since I am in-charge of sales and delivery, I get to inter-act with the employees a lot, and thats how I got to know him better.
He was 26 years old, married with a baby, and her wife is currently pregnant with their second child. His first born is very sickly, so he would always make cash advances to a point that his salary for the week will already by consumed as early as wednesday or thursday (his salary is on a weekly basis). In short, he’s not earning enough to support his family.
One time, he came to me asking for another cash advance. His baby was sick and needed to be rushed to the hospital. He asked if he could borrow 1000. Since its an emergency, I didnt think twice in lending him the money from my own pocket. He wasnt able to pay me back since his salary week after week was just enough to cover for his baby’s expenses.
Come December, company Christmas party. My wife was not feeling well that time so she went ahead before the party ended. I stayed with the male employees until midnight, singing karaoke, drinking beer. Since he was living quite near our place, I offered him to ride with me. I was a bit tipsy at that time, so while driving home, I ask him when was he going to pay the money he owed me. He told me that he wont be able to pay me since he will bring his wife and his baby to the province. He told me if there were some other ways he could pay me back, he’s willing to do it.
Remember that we are both under the influence of alcohol that time. I took that opportunity and drove to the nearest motel and check him in. It was the wildest night I ever had with another guy. He was hot!
Come January, he was relieve from the company since his contract already expired. He would occasionally come to my office and ask if there are any openings, but his visits would usually end up in their house or in a motel, and I would gave him 1000 for him to spend and look for another job. There was even one time that we did it inside our office since he dropped by after office and no one was around anymore.
I want to cut my relationship with this guy. But Im afraid he might start talking and that would mean doom for me. I know it was a mistake doing it with him in the first place, but Im only human! What would I do? I love my wife so much and I do not want to jeopardize my relationship with her. I need ur advice on this matter.
Fatboyslim
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