How do you rekindle a slowly dying flame? Read on and share your thoughts on Baz’s predicament below.
i’ve just been recently hooked on your site.. i am online most of the time and one night when i was bored i came across your site.. i think destiny brought me here. you see. i’m not out to anyone… maybe forever.. i’ve got my family, career, and reputation to protect.. not that i don’t respect anyone who has been out, but i just can’t deny the fact that we are still living in a very narrow-minded world.
i have a husband… we’ve been together for so long now. for me he is perfect, the kind of person who would compliment me in every way.. i am so, in my most simple term ‘maldito’ , in more ways than one, he can talk sense out of me. we are each other’s rock.. we love each other dearly and our trust for each other was never broken or threatened in any way.. when we are together, we have our own world, it coexists with the ones around us..which i think is great knowing that we are growing as a couple and as individuals.. we have hot sex all the time.. he’s my ultimate hunk.. very goodlooking. tall and most of all intelligent.. not boasting, but i am too, i just want to say it straight to be able to gain answers clearly which brings me to my predicament…
recently we have just been apart, because of work.. i am supportive of it because i know it has been his dream and i could never have the heart to hinder his career growth. it is the first time we’ve been apart for so long.. though text call and online chat was there in every single day that we’re apart, except when i’m out of the country and all, but to put it shortly, communication was never bad for both of us.. but the physical thing is out.. i am a very sex-minded person, i think about him and making love all the time.. but more than 1 week ago i noticed that it’s always been I who would initiate it.. we do it online to make it clear, though i’m addicted to it. but i think it would be nice to be lusted for sometimes.. which kind of got me worried.. not for him but for me.. i would say he wouldn’t initiate it because his got something bad going on out there.. but i know for a fact he is busy adjusting and getting it good in his career… i understand that.. but inside me,, deep inside me, i just got so confused.. i coudn’t find a spark to this relationship anymore.. it feels like the flame is going out..and i’m so afraid it would happen.. i don’t want it to be.. i need help on this.. instructions on how to avoid it.. i want the flame rekindled.. i want to want to have great hot loving with him even online.. soon he’ll be back home.. and i want when that day arrives, to be the same person he left behind.. pls give me advice.. got no one to talk to about it..