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	<title>Comments on: Rekindling a Flickering, Dying Flame</title>
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		<title>By: baz</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2008/06/05/rekindling-a-flickering-dying-flame/#comment-90483</link>
		<dc:creator>baz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 11:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ ron, here in hawaii.. everything is perfect its like paradise vacation.. i wudnt want to end.. i know after this its gona be hell without him again.. but i thnk iv come to understand that where ever he will be he&#039;s always gona be mine.. as i am his.. with that security for me, in my mind, heart and soul is enough to somehow lessen the pain.. still having sex with anyone else is out of the picture.. i dont think i can handle the guilt id b feeling afterwards.. harsh words as they are.. they made me realize how special my hubby is.. good luck on ur journey.. try to look for sumthing u can hold on to to lessen the pain.. if ur meant to be for each other.. ul end up together..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ ron, here in hawaii.. everything is perfect its like paradise vacation.. i wudnt want to end.. i know after this its gona be hell without him again.. but i thnk iv come to understand that where ever he will be he&#8217;s always gona be mine.. as i am his.. with that security for me, in my mind, heart and soul is enough to somehow lessen the pain.. still having sex with anyone else is out of the picture.. i dont think i can handle the guilt id b feeling afterwards.. harsh words as they are.. they made me realize how special my hubby is.. good luck on ur journey.. try to look for sumthing u can hold on to to lessen the pain.. if ur meant to be for each other.. ul end up together..</p>
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		<title>By: RonTab</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2008/06/05/rekindling-a-flickering-dying-flame/#comment-90332</link>
		<dc:creator>RonTab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2008 10:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Baz,

After Hawaii, do you think it will be back to the same longing, lonely-filled night?

I am now going in the same direction and aniticipate the very same experience you just had; us being apart and me staying positive and loving, but wretched that I am not getting any sex at all.

From previous posts, the others just want to bitch about but the sudden lack of physical closeness does create a void that is sometimes painful.

But from other posts here, someone said that the person who left has more to adjust to.  He&#039;s not only missing your intimate moments, he also  misses his friends and family, while you here only miss him.  That&#039;s much tougher for him than for you.

So being cerebral about it, hang on, hold steadfast.  Having sex with others is not the same thing.  Though it could be a relief, it&#039;s still not the same.

Hope you can still update us with your journey.  In anticipation, i need to prepare myself as well.

Thanks for sharing.

And Migs, this is such a great site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Baz,</p>
<p>After Hawaii, do you think it will be back to the same longing, lonely-filled night?</p>
<p>I am now going in the same direction and aniticipate the very same experience you just had; us being apart and me staying positive and loving, but wretched that I am not getting any sex at all.</p>
<p>From previous posts, the others just want to bitch about but the sudden lack of physical closeness does create a void that is sometimes painful.</p>
<p>But from other posts here, someone said that the person who left has more to adjust to.  He&#8217;s not only missing your intimate moments, he also  misses his friends and family, while you here only miss him.  That&#8217;s much tougher for him than for you.</p>
<p>So being cerebral about it, hang on, hold steadfast.  Having sex with others is not the same thing.  Though it could be a relief, it&#8217;s still not the same.</p>
<p>Hope you can still update us with your journey.  In anticipation, i need to prepare myself as well.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing.</p>
<p>And Migs, this is such a great site.</p>
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		<title>By: fratboi02</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2008/06/05/rekindling-a-flickering-dying-flame/#comment-90181</link>
		<dc:creator>fratboi02</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 12:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi migs! missed your blogs. =D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi migs! missed your blogs. =D</p>
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		<title>By: baz</title>
		<link>http://manilagayguy.net/2008/06/05/rekindling-a-flickering-dying-flame/#comment-89966</link>
		<dc:creator>baz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 03:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>its kind of amazing how a simple advice be said in many different ways.. mostly hurtful, and unwanted, but surely an eye opener.. with the some of u guys have written, i kind of understand fully my situation already.. made me realize how lucky me and my partner are to have each other. well.. .. the absence of sex is kind of brain damaging but nonetheless, its nice to know that iv got no guilt for choosing to be loyal.. thanks guys for telling me there are alot of other options.. a lot of other gay men.. a lot of other choices.. but mostly, just walking dicks with ugly faces.. like the ones who tried to give shit and stuff.. nyway.. he&#039;s back.. we are off to hawaii this weekend.. wooohoo.. 

to migs.. thanks for the help</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>its kind of amazing how a simple advice be said in many different ways.. mostly hurtful, and unwanted, but surely an eye opener.. with the some of u guys have written, i kind of understand fully my situation already.. made me realize how lucky me and my partner are to have each other. well.. .. the absence of sex is kind of brain damaging but nonetheless, its nice to know that iv got no guilt for choosing to be loyal.. thanks guys for telling me there are alot of other options.. a lot of other gay men.. a lot of other choices.. but mostly, just walking dicks with ugly faces.. like the ones who tried to give shit and stuff.. nyway.. he&#8217;s back.. we are off to hawaii this weekend.. wooohoo.. </p>
<p>to migs.. thanks for the help</p>
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		<title>By: invertedrose</title>
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		<dc:creator>invertedrose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 01:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>not out but you have a husband...(thinking) 
 
dumgo ilong ko. di ko getz. 

anyway, u hav two hands, da left n da ryt. gamitin mo!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>not out but you have a husband&#8230;(thinking) </p>
<p>dumgo ilong ko. di ko getz. </p>
<p>anyway, u hav two hands, da left n da ryt. gamitin mo!</p>
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		<title>By: dazedblu</title>
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		<dc:creator>dazedblu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 06:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I dunno but this is another wreck story.. the author&#039;s sex is so vague. I really don&#039; get it.

Obviously you just miss your hubby, find someone to have sex with... simply I agree with Rod. if tht makes you out and ease you urge.. and one thing it&#039;s really weird, u can&#039;t come out to your family then ur very addicted with tht three letter word? 

wht wuz tht? insanity. 

I&#039;m givin&#039; you a shit dear... u know the answers to your probs. I kinda rekindle on this one thought, droppin&#039; by here will caught you on anothr sex drive. 

Aba maraming readers dito ang gusto ng mga gnyan. Hmmm... think abt it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dunno but this is another wreck story.. the author&#8217;s sex is so vague. I really don&#8217; get it.</p>
<p>Obviously you just miss your hubby, find someone to have sex with&#8230; simply I agree with Rod. if tht makes you out and ease you urge.. and one thing it&#8217;s really weird, u can&#8217;t come out to your family then ur very addicted with tht three letter word? </p>
<p>wht wuz tht? insanity. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m givin&#8217; you a shit dear&#8230; u know the answers to your probs. I kinda rekindle on this one thought, droppin&#8217; by here will caught you on anothr sex drive. </p>
<p>Aba maraming readers dito ang gusto ng mga gnyan. Hmmm&#8230; think abt it.</p>
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		<title>By: bon</title>
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		<dc:creator>bon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 16:36:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ ROD... i like ur sense of humour. Neng, natawa me talaga promise!

To the author, 
y don&#039;t u try other recipes. If u don&#039;t like it then don&#039;t. Ur in a predicament were almost of us (gaymen) are in this kind of situation. It&#039;s up to u to decide and where u stand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ ROD&#8230; i like ur sense of humour. Neng, natawa me talaga promise!</p>
<p>To the author,<br />
y don&#8217;t u try other recipes. If u don&#8217;t like it then don&#8217;t. Ur in a predicament were almost of us (gaymen) are in this kind of situation. It&#8217;s up to u to decide and where u stand.</p>
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		<title>By: chuchucaracas</title>
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		<dc:creator>chuchucaracas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 10:53:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok lang yan dahil ang imahinasyon ay pwede mo baguhin depende sa mood mo.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok lang yan dahil ang imahinasyon ay pwede mo baguhin depende sa mood mo.</p>
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		<title>By: musclehunk</title>
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		<dc:creator>musclehunk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think the author of the story is gay because when u have a relationship with the same sex ur a gay or a lesbian,isnt it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think the author of the story is gay because when u have a relationship with the same sex ur a gay or a lesbian,isnt it?</p>
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		<title>By: dnangel</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Rod...
Hala, taksil ka!! at parang proud ka pa sa payo mo ha.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Rod&#8230;<br />
Hala, taksil ka!! at parang proud ka pa sa payo mo ha.</p>
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