Comments on: The Allure of a Dark, Little Closet http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/ I say again, "World Peace!" Sat, 04 Jul 2009 17:31:17 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: blood berry http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-119072 blood berry Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:06:33 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-119072 ml, one thing is for sure, if you believe in one supreme being, you also believe that HE is merciful and loving. migs is right, do not bother your self on how you will end up. deal with it one day at a time. be at peace with yourself. and maybe someday when the time is right, you'll know what you really want and hopefully be happy with it. take care. blood berry. ml,

one thing is for sure, if you believe in one supreme being, you also believe that HE is merciful and loving. migs is right, do not bother your self on how you will end up. deal with it one day at a time. be at peace with yourself. and maybe someday when the time is right, you’ll know what you really want and hopefully be happy with it. take care.

blood berry.

]]> By: clemence http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-113621 clemence Tue, 10 Mar 2009 06:02:18 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-113621 i think i am in the same dilemma for one am not sure if i am really gay, maybe bi if there's such label. i am quite in the same situation, catholic conservative family plus the molestation during my puberty years. i tried to forget everything that happened so i focus on studies in college and finding a better paying job. right now i feel that what happened to before haunts me back. at 28, i haven't had any relationship with men (seriously), had a couple of girlfriends before, 1 in HS and 1 in college. i think i am in the same dilemma for one am not sure if i am really gay, maybe bi if there’s such label. i am quite in the same situation, catholic conservative family plus the molestation during my puberty years. i tried to forget everything that happened so i focus on studies in college and finding a better paying job. right now i feel that what happened to before haunts me back. at 28, i haven’t had any relationship with men (seriously), had a couple of girlfriends before, 1 in HS and 1 in college.

]]> By: pacer150 http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-96675 pacer150 Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:50:48 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-96675 hi ML, you are absolutely right.you are not alone.i'm 35 and have no plans of totally coming out.i am working abroad,that helps a lil' bit kasi malayo ako sa amin at sa mga kumpare at tropa ko hi ML,
you are absolutely right.you are not alone.i’m 35 and have no plans of totally coming out.i am working abroad,that helps a lil’ bit kasi malayo ako sa amin at sa mga kumpare at tropa ko

]]> By: Paul http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94727 Paul Sun, 27 Jul 2008 15:32:08 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94727 M.L, Di ka nag-iisa. Almost same as you. I am unique, of Christian faith (fundamentalist baptist at that), and prefers to be playing inside the dark closet. I just don't know if you still have the 'guilt trips' after every encounter. I have done some fascinating inquiries that the 'Gentiles' might not be able to understand, sorry po. Can we correspond via email? Marc, san ba ang Bagong Pag-asa? I have further questions. Can you pls send me an email also? pogi_tunay@yahoo.com Migs, thanks. I am one of ur avid readers. :D M.L, Di ka nag-iisa. Almost same as you. I am unique, of Christian faith (fundamentalist baptist at that), and prefers to be playing inside the dark closet. I just don’t know if you still have the ‘guilt trips’ after every encounter. I have done some fascinating inquiries that the ‘Gentiles’ might not be able to understand, sorry po. Can we correspond via email?

Marc, san ba ang Bagong Pag-asa? I have further questions. Can you pls send me an email also?

pogi_tunay@yahoo.com

Migs, thanks. I am one of ur avid readers. :D

]]> By: ML http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94265 ML Wed, 23 Jul 2008 19:50:47 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94265 THANKS EVERYONE... For me this is no longer an issue between coming out or not, nor is it at issue of being a good person or not. A part of me has already accepted the fact that I am different. I guess the solution I found is to stay inside my closet, and, like what I said, I am enjoying all the thrills and excitement this dark, little closet brings to my life. It's good to know that I am not alone in this situation. One way or another, I know I will find a way through this problem. Thanks Migs! THANKS EVERYONE…

For me this is no longer an issue between coming out or not, nor is it at issue of being a good person or not. A part of me has already accepted the fact that I am different. I guess the solution I found is to stay inside my closet, and, like what I said, I am enjoying all the thrills and excitement this dark, little closet brings to my life.

It’s good to know that I am not alone in this situation. One way or another, I know I will find a way through this problem.
Thanks Migs!

]]> By: joax http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94220 joax Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:51:34 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94220 Just as "William" from the movie Daybreak said, "Hindi naman KJ si God." If you feel that you are happier in your "gay" ways, then follow your bliss. In the end of he day, what matters is your relationship with God. I believe that you can still have a very personal realtionship with God even if you are gay. Remember, he was the one who had dinner with taxpayers back in the days when rabbis see that as blasphemous. Just my two cents. :) Just as “William” from the movie Daybreak said, “Hindi naman KJ si God.” If you feel that you are happier in your “gay” ways, then follow your bliss.

In the end of he day, what matters is your relationship with God. I believe that you can still have a very personal realtionship with God even if you are gay. Remember, he was the one who had dinner with taxpayers back in the days when rabbis see that as blasphemous.

Just my two cents. :)

]]> By: patricia montecarlo http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94202 patricia montecarlo Wed, 23 Jul 2008 12:08:21 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94202 neng, bakla ka ano pa bang nakaka-confuse dun. hindi mo naman kailangang i-out yan basta tanggapin mo lang ang katotohanan. neng, bakla ka ano pa bang nakaka-confuse dun. hindi mo naman kailangang i-out yan basta tanggapin mo lang ang katotohanan.

]]> By: baklamancutedin@yahoo.co.uk http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94178 baklamancutedin@yahoo.co.uk Wed, 23 Jul 2008 08:43:04 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94178 Well, I was impressed by Migs advise to the confused Christian chuvalu ek ek. I must say, winner ang construction ng language pang Miss Universe. What can Lara Dutta say about that, crispy, pageant patty, advise from Migs. Ang galing mo Manila Gay Guy. Love you loads. Well, I was impressed by Migs advise to the confused Christian chuvalu ek ek. I must say, winner ang construction ng language pang Miss Universe. What can Lara Dutta say about that, crispy, pageant patty, advise from Migs.

Ang galing mo Manila Gay Guy. Love you loads.

]]> By: marc http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94089 marc Tue, 22 Jul 2008 16:05:05 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94089 There is a way out of this. I personally am part of a Christian group/church know as New Hope (Bagong Pag-Asa in the Philippines.) I'm currently reading the book the senior pastor of this church wrote, and it is helping me a lot to change. I guess you need help to get out of guilt. God loves you the way you are, but he loves you so much, he doesn't want you to be stuck that way. My prayers go out for you ML. There is a way out of this. I personally am part of a Christian group/church know as New Hope (Bagong Pag-Asa in the Philippines.) I’m currently reading the book the senior pastor of this church wrote, and it is helping me a lot to change. I guess you need help to get out of guilt. God loves you the way you are, but he loves you so much, he doesn’t want you to be stuck that way. My prayers go out for you ML.

]]> By: konsiyensiya http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94079 konsiyensiya Tue, 22 Jul 2008 14:55:00 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/2008/07/21/the-allure-of-a-dark-little-closet/#comment-94079 alam mo sharp_nikc hindi ka nag-iisip sa paglalagay ng komento mo, ipinapakita mo lang na kasing liit ng ipis ang laman ng ulo mo, imaginin mo naman masabi mo yang napakalaking kalokohan??? Ang pagiging bakla ay desisyon ng Dios, at wala tayong karapatang tutulan yun, magpasalamat na tayo at binigyan tayo ng pagkakataong masilayan ang mundong ito, hindi yung puro tayo hinaing at reklamo na sa bandang huli, kapag tayo'y nasasaktan o nahihirapan eh Dios ang sinisisi natin! bakit kung hindi dahil sa Dios na nagbigay ng buhay, eh hindi rin naman natin mararanasan ang sarap ng mabuhay diba? Its a matter of acceptance at contentment lang naman yan, para mabuhay tayo ng mapayapa at masaya, ke bakla, tomboy, lalake o babae ka man... alam mo sharp_nikc hindi ka nag-iisip sa paglalagay ng komento mo, ipinapakita mo lang na kasing liit ng ipis ang laman ng ulo mo, imaginin mo naman masabi mo yang napakalaking kalokohan??? Ang pagiging bakla ay desisyon ng Dios, at wala tayong karapatang tutulan yun, magpasalamat na tayo at binigyan tayo ng pagkakataong masilayan ang mundong ito, hindi yung puro tayo hinaing at reklamo na sa bandang huli, kapag tayo’y nasasaktan o nahihirapan eh Dios ang sinisisi natin! bakit kung hindi dahil sa Dios na nagbigay ng buhay, eh hindi rin naman natin mararanasan ang sarap ng mabuhay diba? Its a matter of acceptance at contentment lang naman yan, para mabuhay tayo ng mapayapa at masaya, ke bakla, tomboy, lalake o babae ka man…

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