Comments on: Green Tea Does That To Me http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/ I say again, "World Peace!" Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:24:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: perfida limpin http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95441 perfida limpin Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:30:00 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95441 Migs out ka ba? or do i really have to ask? Migs out ka ba? or do i really have to ask?

]]> By: Isaribi http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95440 Isaribi Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:25:43 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95440 all in all parang yan yung sakit ng lahat... all in all parang yan yung sakit ng lahat…

]]> By: Isaribi http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95439 Isaribi Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:25:06 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95439 hmmm... Walang gamot sa insecure? hmmm…

Walang gamot sa insecure?

]]> By: jay http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95433 jay Sun, 03 Aug 2008 05:46:08 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95433 this is my favorite place to just chill when i'm in quezon city! this is my favorite place to just chill when i’m in quezon city!

]]> By: gus http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95295 gus Fri, 01 Aug 2008 21:22:49 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95295 tarot: bravo! finally, somebody who actually makes sense and NOT some wishy-washy dribble.... beautifully argued... thank you for the clarity of your arguments and the candor with which you presented the facts. tarot: bravo! finally, somebody who actually makes sense and NOT some wishy-washy dribble…. beautifully argued… thank you for the clarity of your arguments and the candor with which you presented the facts.

]]> By: from1fag2another http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95269 from1fag2another Fri, 01 Aug 2008 16:52:36 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95269 I am out and have stayed masculine and yes I get ridiculed sometimes by the softer set. Live and let live. Have compassion for the closeted. They have their reasons. Its not you who will be paying the consequences of them coming out so hold judgement and just be there to support. Being out and about declaring to the world, sans the maxi dress, that you're gay, in my opinion, doesn't make you a better faggot Tarot. I'm really not for cross dressing. Its an eyesore. Leave the make up to the girls. Or go all the way and get a sex change. It doesn't look nice for both gays and lesbians. Guys discriminating against effems .. hmm .. Some do only because they haven't really accepted themselves as faggots completely yet. So again have compassion for the bigot. Not all masculine gay guys discriminate. The same way that not all masculine gay guys are acting straight to conceal anything. This is just how they act and its not play acting. Balanced fags, closeted or otherwise, won't descriminate, that is if they're pretty ok with who they are. I would love to give my two cents worth of opinions on Podcast Migs. I hope you get me on air. Hahahaha I am out and have stayed masculine and yes I get ridiculed sometimes by the softer set.

Live and let live. Have compassion for the closeted. They have their reasons. Its not you who will be paying the consequences of them coming out so hold judgement and just be there to support.

Being out and about declaring to the world, sans the maxi dress, that you’re gay, in my opinion, doesn’t make you a better faggot Tarot.

I’m really not for cross dressing. Its an eyesore. Leave the make up to the girls. Or go all the way and get a sex change. It doesn’t look nice for both gays and lesbians.

Guys discriminating against effems .. hmm .. Some do only because they haven’t really accepted themselves as faggots completely yet. So again have compassion for the bigot. Not all masculine gay guys discriminate. The same way that not all masculine gay guys are acting straight to conceal anything. This is just how they act and its not play acting.

Balanced fags, closeted or otherwise, won’t descriminate, that is if they’re pretty ok with who they are.

I would love to give my two cents worth of opinions on Podcast Migs. I hope you get me on air. Hahahaha

]]> By: greyfox http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95263 greyfox Fri, 01 Aug 2008 16:01:53 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95263 migs out ka ba? migs out ka ba?

]]> By: eduardo http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95262 eduardo Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:50:52 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95262 @tarot - Perfect point. There is no reason for me to be in the closet but i admit i lack courage. I hope i can come out soon before i grow old and alone. I have good relationships with family and friends but they are based on lies since they don't really know me. My life is based on pretentions and it is sad and lonely. @tarot – Perfect point. There is no reason for me to be in the closet but i admit i lack courage. I hope i can come out soon before i grow old and alone. I have good relationships with family and friends but they are based on lies since they don’t really know me. My life is based on pretentions and it is sad and lonely.

]]> By: Kim http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95259 Kim Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:30:54 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95259 tarot, while i agree most with what you said, i think that the 'fundamental difference' mgg is talking about is in a different context from what you are trying to say. Anyway, about your views, I disagree on you one point. It seems that you are implicating the closeted gays for the demise of the out ones. Closeted gays are not required to come out, just so to support your advocacy for "change". Stand up for your own and if what comes out of your fight is the failure to have society respect you, do not implicate or blame the closeted gays. They do not exist for your or for any out's sake. Choice nila yun. And it's still choice if they opt to come out to support your advocacy. joms, very well said. =) In addition, I really think that the root of this bashing is insecurity on both sides i.e. the closeted gays don't want to be associated with out ones so they try to prove their being 'masculine' by bashing out ones and the out ones feel that they are not respected by the society so they do everything to pressure the closeted gays to come out, even at the expense of these closeted gays, just so that the out ones can prove that what they have or what they are is not an illness or disease in society. (This is esp. true with the case of celebrities... it's fulfilling for the out ones that a person of higher status can be the same as they are, hence telling the society, "eh si ___ nga e bading!, so hindi lang ako ang ganyan") tarot, while i agree most with what you said, i think that the ‘fundamental difference’ mgg is talking about is in a different context from what you are trying to say. Anyway, about your views, I disagree on you one point. It seems that you are implicating the closeted gays for the demise of the out ones. Closeted gays are not required to come out, just so to support your advocacy for “change”. Stand up for your own and if what comes out of your fight is the failure to have society respect you, do not implicate or blame the closeted gays. They do not exist for your or for any out’s sake. Choice nila yun. And it’s still choice if they opt to come out to support your advocacy.

joms, very well said. =) In addition, I really think that the root of this bashing is insecurity on both sides i.e. the closeted gays don’t want to be associated with out ones so they try to prove their being ‘masculine’ by bashing out ones and the out ones feel that they are not respected by the society so they do everything to pressure the closeted gays to come out, even at the expense of these closeted gays, just so that the out ones can prove that what they have or what they are is not an illness or disease in society. (This is esp. true with the case of celebrities… it’s fulfilling for the out ones that a person of higher status can be the same as they are, hence telling the society, “eh si ___ nga e bading!, so hindi lang ako ang ganyan”)

]]> By: my yellow shirt in the sky http://manilagayguy.net/2008/07/31/green-tea-does-that-to-me/#comment-95258 my yellow shirt in the sky Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:16:18 +0000 http://manilagayguy.com/?p=4422#comment-95258 dear migs, talking about talking to closetted or out gays, I just had an interesting conversation with a taxi driver. His friends are gay, I told him I had a few gay friends. Why is it hard for gay men to be friends or at least friendly to other gay men? Out or other wise? dear migs,
talking about talking to closetted or out gays, I just had an interesting conversation with a taxi driver. His friends are gay, I told him I had a few gay friends.
Why is it hard for gay men to be friends or at least friendly to other gay men? Out or other wise?

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