Comments on: Girl reader asks: “Is my ex-boyfriend gay?”

By: pakongpasaway

pakongpasaway — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 02:06:09 +0000

“Girl, there’s just so many straight guys to choose from — why pick a gay guy?” >> well, medyo na-disturb ako ng konti sa last comment ni kuya .. parang msyadong harsh ang dating at may bahid ng asim .. ang sagot ko, “why not?!” kung tutuusin mas mapagmahal pa nga ang mga ‘gay guy’ .. ate mercedes, lalaki lng ang magiging karibal mo! kung lagi kang magpapaapekto at laging iintindihin ang sasabihin ng iba .. gurl, nde ka magiging masaya! njoy lyf, be gay & be merry! Tsuk!

By: manex

manex — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 14:23:42 +0000

Merced,…
e anu kung bading bf mo…di ka nman siguro kagandahan (jowklang po!)
e anu? e anu? e anu? di ba yan ang batayan natin para ituloy ang buhay mula bata pa tayo? sa tukso ng kalaro, palo ng guro�at�busa ng magulang….e anu? e anu? e anu?�La lang…..�
Basta advise ko lang when you fall in love…see to it that you really falll in love…wag mong lolokohin sarili mo…lokohin ka niya wag lang ikaw ang manloloko sa sarili mo….love has no gender after all…tiyak o di tiyak. He-he-he Have nice day mare!
Manex

By: Meri

Meri — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:54:22 +0000

Love the post of Dave. Hahaha.

By: sharp_nick

sharp_nick — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 12:14:11 +0000

I don’t think it matters if he’s gay. What matters is that he loves and is faithful to you. Love should be able to transcend even sexual orientation. Besides, if he’s good in bed, then it’s a plus. I think your state of mind right now is that you fear that you might get in love with another closet gay man. That’s why you are so interested in� knowing if your ex is gay.

Now that he’s out of your life, then it shouldn’t bother you much. Just find an even more handsome and hunkier guy who loves you, can take of you, and can fuck� your brains out.

By: ric

ric — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 00:33:26 +0000

I agree to disagree with MIGS. Love cannot be confined to one’s sexual preference. Neither it should be seen in the light of our own limited perceptions. In the long run, it is the individual�who determines what makes him or her happy and as long as he or she does not hurt anybody, then a relaltionship can be successful. What this girl can do is to talk it out with his ex-boyfriend and to be open to what he will say. Love is acceptance. If he is straight, gay or �bi, then he can be a good husband. I do think that if a bi�and �gay men choose to be husbands, thay can be faithful also. It really depends on the individual’s choice. We cannot put labels on each other. Are gays born to be unfaithful or promiscuous? This is a very bias. And I thought we are working for gender equality. Are we saying that men are born plolygamous by nature?� Non Sequitur (It does not follow). So the question of Migs, why pick a gay guy, my answer is why not?� I accept that there are so many issues here – love, sex, emotional satisfaction,acceptance, fidelity, �family. In the last analysis however, the individual has to determine what makes him or her happy and do whatever in his or her power to give and to live the love one professes.�This is true to all. This is true to all genders. This is true to any relationships.

By: Chase

Chase — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 07:42:49 +0000

I believed that there’s more bisexual men out there that straight.. and people please.. please! respect their decision.. kung ayaw nila mag out in the open eh wag nyo na paki alaman, its none of your business by the way.�MIGS, ang question ko lang eh bakit ang mga bading eh galit na galit sa mga closeted gays? paki sagot lang. Im a bisxual guy and�I have no plans of getting out kasi Im�HAPPYYY being like this and its my choice, kala kasi ng iba dyan eh pag closeted ka eh di ka ngpapakatotoo and sad and life mo compare to them.. Sad thing dyan eh yung mga bading pa ang nag da-down sa mga closeted gays/bi’s actually sila pa yung ngpapa kalat ng chismis most of the times, which actually dapat sila nga yung nkaka intindi right? Mga gays sister paki sagot lang…

To�Madame�Mercedes,�for me cguro Love is formless.. girl, boy, bakla, tomboy ka man.. our heart cannot see gender.. only love� so what are you waiting for? go get him quick!

By: manex

manex — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 05:37:32 +0000

comment lang:
we love a person with the thought�that love is immeasurable……
there are gays who stays alone for the rest of their lives…there are discreet gays who falls in love with a woman and eventually ends as responsible a father living within the challenges of the society…there are gays living with another man….if you believe in his personal challanges in life…would you be lucky enough if he choose you to live together and stay forever? that’s another meaning of love….no one is perfect in this world…yung straight sexes nga nagkakahiwalay pa e, not�even you is perfect….minamahal lang tayo,�we only reciprocate whatever love�is giving us. Walang smooth relationship kahit sa normal na level ang pag-uusapan, laging may argument pagsisi at panghihinayang at the end, mas�masakit kahit straight male and female naghihiway din, they betray each other..�well, mapalad ka pag may ibang nagmahal pa sayo na straight guy. Kung wala,..ganun talaga ang buhay. Realidad yan. Kaya nga may soulmate e…malay mo siya na….siya magpapaligaya syo at di ang kaibigan mo at barkada mo. I love you not only for what you are…..but�for what i am when i am with you……paulit-ulit sa imbitasyon ng kasal….basehan ng pag-ibig na may pagtanggap.
Karapatan nila yun…tanggapin kung ano at sino sila sa mga sarili nila ng buong-buo. If i were you, go , love him more kahit discreet gay siya. Lahat tayo abnormal sa mundo. have a nice day!�Friends tayo ha….peace!

By: jeffrox

jeffrox — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 02:53:29 +0000

I think what gay guys rely on is their gaydar. No one has mentioned that here I think. My apologies if I skipped your message. However, gaydar could be wrong. So many Pinoy gay guys just have this bad habit of expecting the worse from guys who act very refined or laid back. It’s a nasty habit, if you ask me. Rumors and gossips could really hurt innocent people. So I think it is better if the girl finds out about the true sexuality of her ex-BF not rely on unsupported allegations and suspicions.

By: fratboi02

fratboi02 — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 12:01:28 +0000

Love is not gender biassed!!! You do not fall inlove with a person’s sexual preference, you fall inlove with the person!!! so what if he’s gay, ho loved you nontheless, right?

By: pacer150

pacer150 — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 20:54:29 +0000

migs bakit ang pangit na ng site mo. mas maganda yung dati, colorful