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1. #58  brent

   

   sabihin mo na nararamdaman mo. after all, for sure, alam na nya itinatago mo becoz of what u did. ska pansin ko na after what happened, nung sbi mo ikinwento nya sayo in detail ung ginawa nya sa chicks nya, i suspect two things- 1st- cnbi nya un sau, to emphasize the point na str8 sya, or 2nd, cnb nya un pra pagselosin ka. kc why would he bother telling you kung wala syang definite purpose, db. so, meaning alam na nya, so, no need hiding it. go for it, sbihin mo na feelings mo, and malay mo, he wants the experience too, lalo sa tulad nya na mejo may pagkamahilig, very open and receptive mga tulad nyan.

   09/06/25 11:19

2. #57  kimmy

   

   ai nuku steel brush lng katapat ng pangangati…. hahahahahah….

   09/05/07 13:53

3. #56  yhtomitsicnarf

   

   dude i can empathize with you. nangngilid din luha ko habang binabasa ko latter part ng 6th paragraph. nasabi na nila lahat ng pwedeng masabi. good luck na lang sayo..

   09/01/28 19:48

4. #55  confucious(confuse!)

   

   SABI NGA NI NYMPHO! lyf is short susuhin na yan! hahahaha lolz!

   09/01/27 11:26

5. #54  pepe

   

   tama si migs, “do not shit where you eat.” pero sometimes( sometimes lang! joke!) masarap e break ang rule na ito.

   08/11/24 15:32

6. #53  TopSexyMan

   

   Natutulog nang magkayakap….ganoon.

   08/11/21 12:12

7. #52  Chris

   

   @Rhey… Same experience here pero lumagpas ako sa linya. boom. nwlan ako ng pinaka pinagkakatiwalaang bestfriend. sakit.

   08/11/20 23:35

8. #51  John

   

   guys, question lang.

   It seems when people say “straight acting,” they also say “they are not being true” sa sarili nila.

   does that mean if you have a choice, you would be effeminate?

   I just want to point out that NOT ALL straight acting gay or bisexual men are in the closet. That’s just the way we are. I can never imagine myself being effem, but I have nothing against effems.

   peace!

   08/11/19 23:34

9. #50  Sky

   

   jusko!  Gow na yan!  Accept nalang whatever the outcome.  At least no what ifs!  Life is short para maging emotera!  EAT THE SHIT!

   08/11/18 08:05

10. #49  dynno_saur

    

    another formulated story. bi sya yun pa la nagkukunwari lng na gusto nya ang girls sa bar. oh common guys. wag nya naman i under stimate ang mga readers dto. hindi ba halata na isa kang napakalaking bading. haller, isang straight guy yayakap ng ganon?

    08/11/16 00:47

11. #48  Henry

    

    Salamat Rhey. Naguguluhan kasi ako eh before kung sabihin ko ba or hindi.  But when I read your story, parang its not worth the risk losing a bestfriend.  Although sometimes may mga äctions siya na feeling ko gusto niya ko, I don’t wanna assume din kasi maybe he is just acting that way kasi close friend nya ko, nothing more (I am str8 acting btw, no one knows the true me). 

    So, might as well move to another company or wait for him to leave rin (punta na siya somewhere, pursuing his dream).  At least mas makakamove on ako dahil physically wala na siya.

    08/11/15 09:24

12. #47  Rhey

    

    Henry, I think it is not worthy. In my case kasi I  know my bestfriend is God-fearing person kaya di ko minsan narinig na he cheats. Pinakamagandang nangyari sa amin ay before I left kasi papunta akong USA, we prayed together sa Church kaya sobrang luwag  ng pakiramdam ko na kinalimutan na nya iyong ginawa ko. Sarap ng pakiramdam na  ngayon meron akong nasasabihin kapag  may problema ako kasi isang tatatawag lang ako sa kanya.

    Look for a person that is truly trustworthy as it will last forever.  Goodluck sa iyo. Naniniwala ako na kapag  nagmahal ka ng totoo, merong babalik sa yo sa iba’t ibang paraan.

    08/11/15 07:10

13. #46  lester

    

    lumang kwento na yan inday.. tigilan na at move on.. your trite story occupied too much space here.  I don’t even think this is a true story. ho hum…zzzzz…

    08/11/14 13:08

14. #45  Henry

    

    Rhey, same tayo ng situation. Ang difference lang, yung bestfriend ko sa work naman, tapos nagkaroon siya ng bf nung high school (all boys school) hanggang early college. Nagkaron na siya ng GF afterwards (si GF ang nagkwento sa akin hehe).  Do you think pursuing that guy is worth it? earlier this year kasi he cheated on his gf with 2 other girls.  Pwede ba yun? Nagbago na ng preference?  Mahal ko rin kasi siya eh kaso ayaw ko sabihin dahil yun nga, he’s straight already.

    08/11/14 00:17

15. #44  blue dove

    

    great advice…among…yeah great!

    08/11/13 16:38

16. #43  Fatboyslim

    

    I would agree with migs into some extent

    pero nde ba mas masakit kung nde mo ipaalam sa kanya nararamdaman mo, and forever regret what you did?

    for me, let him know.  let him know what u feel for him, na u feel more than friends ang nararamdaman mo,  tell him na concern ka sa kanya, dat you love him kc maasikaso sya

    and that ur not expecting anything in return, and hope that ur friendship will be stronger

    i did that to my bestfriend before i got married, (yes i am married to my wife) and we became closer

    treat him as a bestfriend and tell him how u feel

    malay mo echos lang pala yung girl sa club, pinagseselos ka lang pala nya

    08/11/13 13:13

17. #42  Nympho

    

    Para kay amigang Rhey…..tumigas ba nang isubo mo?

    08/11/13 11:53

18. #41  Maldito

    

    Macky,
    Question 1 : PANGIT KA BA? Na wala ka nang choice at pati yang may asawa at anak ay aahasin mo pa?
    Question 2 : DESPERADA KA BA? Para pakiniggan yung mga udyok dito na sige GOGOGO! TODO MO NA! LIFE IS SHORT BLAH BLAH BLAH… 
    Question 3 : MAY DIGNIDAD PA BANG NATITIRA SA KATAWAN MO? Habang meron, pagyamanin mo yan. Ipakita mo sa lalaking yan na karespe-respeto ka. Yang nararamdaman mong yan, pustahan KATI o LUNGKOT… 

    08/11/13 09:43

19. #40  kaboom

    

    gawin mo ang magpapagaan ng loob mo

    kung ako yan… ako ang iiwas pero aaminin ko muna sa kanya

    magpakaprofessional na lang sa trabaho pero paglabas ng office wala nang usap usap para malayo sa tukso ng mga taong may sabit

    08/11/13 08:18

20. #39  chapfallen

    

    ang mundi nga naman ngayon…straight acting bi daw,pero di ma carry ang ka-table na girl?hahahah..nttwa tlga ako..pero tama ka migs..i soooo agree with your 3 points to ponder.

    08/11/13 06:44

21. #38  Simon Acosta

    

    Ang dami nyong sinabi, ang dami nyong ipinayo sa tao… Ang tanong, susundin nya ba kayo? Malaking MAAAAAA… He still has the last say, the dinal decision. To think that nowadays, people rosort to something pleasurable… syempre HADAHAN na ang kasunod nyan. Then, the predictable circumstances follow. And you, fellow gay, must suffer the circumstances! Good/BadLuck???!!!! But… GODSPEED!

    08/11/13 00:25

22. #37  ILoveAlec

    

    Migs, when ko mababasa story ko…hehehehehehe…ty

    08/11/12 22:42

23. #36  ric

    

    These are the facts: 1. Nagtataksil siya sa asawa niya. 2. Mahal mo siya. 3. Subordinate  mo siya.
    You can do the ff. 1. Magpaassign sa ibang lugal or maghanap na ng malilipatan, then sabihin mo sa kanya ang iyong nararamdamn. You solve nos. 2 and 3. As I always say, it is better to let him know everything and to let go if your feelings are not reciprocated than to suffer alone every moment of you life. Mahirap din na hindi mo masabi dahil you will carry it the rest of your life. Sa no. 1, di mo yata problema yan so I won’t give you any advise but for you and him to think also.

    08/11/12 22:29

24. #35  Matt

    

    hayysss…. (yan lang masasabi ko sayo)

    sarap basahin ng advice niyo guys…. sana magamit ko yung mga yan kpag nasa right age na ako…(im 16 p lng kc)

    08/11/12 22:04

25. #34  buff_joey

    

    ang dami nyo na.  wag na maki sawsaw.

    08/11/12 21:18

26. #33  Louie

    

    Magkayakap matulog? Whats up with that? Ibigay ang hilig ang advice ko. Life is too short not to take chances. Do not look back later and ask yourself what could have been. Be happy, it is not the end of the world if you get rejected at least you have closure masakit man o hindi. Remember,  IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THAN NOT TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL.

    08/11/12 19:48

27. #32  gerry

    

    BEST ADVICE –  Physically, go away! That’s the only effective way I know. The more you are there with him, the more the situation will be difficult. Kahit sabihin man natin na may mangyari sa yo, you will never have peace of mind. You are on the losing end; and watch out, this will affect your self-esteem. Get out of the situation by relocating somewhere. Mahirap. Might take you one or two years to be emotionally at peace again, but it’s worth it. Been there, done that. I am just so glad that I made the right decision to leave my friend (best friend actually). After two years of being away, I went back to Manila to meet him, and the feeling was no longer there. We hang out together, shared secrets…Most importantly, I got my self-respect back. Hindi ako nagpadala sa emosyon ko although admittedly, I was stuck with it for quite sometime. One thing I realized, since I was in the same situation as that of the writer above, the problem will not go away if you remain together physically.

    08/11/12 18:28

28. #31  BJ

    

    Macky,

    Do what you think you are happy and face the consequences.

    If you want something, sacrifice the other.

    Echos lang!

    08/11/12 18:00

29. #30  chocolate cake

    

    ganyan ba umasal ang isang straight acting bi? kaloka! naka-headband ka ba ate?

    08/11/12 17:43

30. #29  kel

    

    para kay RHEY na gumawa ng sariling blog dito..hahahaha!
    ambait naman ng bestfriend mo..hmm….parang love of siam lang..hehehe!

    para kay MACKY..hmm,iwas lang bro..wag ka papadala masyado sa emotions mo..at isa pa,may asawa’t anak na,at may kinikita pang babae!ano ba yan….hehe..friends kung friends..yun na lang..hehe!

    08/11/12 17:05

31. #28  MrCens

    

    show up! shout it loud na gay man ka. anyway, philippines is more liberated than any other place in the world except america siguro (never been there yet..). it’s a matter of what you achieved for your company. set yourself free, and from there you can do ur next move. baka dadating ang point na kung kelan ka tumanda, saka ka manghahada ng tudo gaya ng mga teachers ko sa high school na tatabi sayo bigla sa mga sinehan… buti hindi mo natsupa nung nalasing ka…
    kung ayaw mong igamble ang present position mo then avoid him. dont shit where you eat or worse, dont eat your shit. kapag may nangyari sa inyo at straight sya, lagot ka dun, he might use it against you. baka hindi lang ang pagiging operations manager ang hihingiin nya sa iyo. always think of a safe side.

    tagaDAVAO ako, ang dami dun!!! dito nga, bawal daw ang bading pero mas….

    MrCens
    Dubai, UAE

    08/11/12 16:10

32. #27  sterling_love

    

    Macky,
    I agree with Migs, esp. advice #2 . You should practice code of professionalism, mahirap na mawala ang respect and trust of your subordinates/colleagues.
    Takes time to forget those feelings and try your best to overcome it. Lumipat ka ng bahay etc.

    Acceptance is not easy at the moment pero soon realise na tama ang decision mo, kasi in the first place he got his own family.

    Ang daming choices sa bi/gay world, sabi nga ni Migs . Try dating and soon you’ll met somebody special.

    Goodluck

    From London w/ love,

    Sterling love

    08/11/12 15:53

33. #26  paolo

    

    superior ka niya, that could lead to sexual harassment…

    08/11/12 15:47

34. #25  Chase

    

    (Jojo Narciso) Pilot ka pala? wow i love pilots hehe!

    08/11/12 15:02

35. #24  palenkera

    

    Magsaksak na lang kayo mga kuya, mga ambisyosa. alam nyong hindi nyo silang maaring maangkin tapos mag eemote kayo jan, hindi ba kayo nakakasapaw nyan. mga bakla na nga e may lukalukahan at sapawan pa. haha.

    Gumising OK at lumayo sa tukso. tama na ang drama. pang MMK at pelikula lang yon. iba ang reality.

    08/11/12 14:02

36. #23  diosdaddy

    

    tama ka migs don’t shit in your own backyard e it will really smell.  marami diyan wide ang choices mo.  Ako nga mega control na sa kalandian sa opis, kinasuhan pa ng acts of lasciviousness.  iyan pa sa kanya.  beware talage

    08/11/12 13:21

37. #22  Rhey

    

    
    I want to share my story too!
    Falling in love with straight best friend
    Tawagin na lang natin siyang Aris – ang aking bestfriend.
    Sobrang hirap ng situation. I have a bestfriend na talaga straight kahit saan mo tingnan. Siya ang crush ng bayan – matangkad, moreno at guwapo. Habulin ng mga babae.
    Magkasama kami sa youth organization sa Church, ako ang president at siya ang vice president. Dati di ko lang siya pinapansin, pero habang tumatagal at nagkakilala kami, napakabait at matulungin pala niya. He considers me as his bestfriend kasi kahit anong pagsubok ang dumating he helped each other. Natulog na rin kaming magkatabi sa isang kama dahil may mga projects kaming ginagawa na kailangan tapusin overnight– di talaga ako natulog at ang liit pa ng higaan kasi sa boarding house lang – iyong double deck. Pero pinigil ko ang sarili ko at ayaw kong masira ang pagkakaibigan  namin. Nasiyahan na lang akong magkatabi kami at maamoy ang kanyang mabangong katawan.
    Dumating na nga ang isang araw na talagang nahulog ang loob ko at di ko na talaga makaya pero di ko masabi sa kanya. Halos gusto ko ng lumayo and he asked me kung may problema ba ako. Sabi ko wala, malungkot lang ako dahil malayo ako sa pamilya ko – nasa province kasi family ko.
    Hanggang isang araw na nagbakasyon ako sa kanilang probinsya. Nagising na lang ako ng hawak ko ang kanyang birdie. Nagulat ako – siguro nag automatic ang mind ko dahil na repressed. Mixed emotions – dahil alam kong matatapos na ang pagkakaibigan namin at for sure di ko kayang harapin siya. Nang inalis ko ang kamay ko sa birdie nya, inayos nya ang short – Patay, gising pala siya. Wahhhhh. Halos gusto ko ng mag alsa balutan at lumayo pero walang sasakyan. Parang guguho na ang mundo ko. Kinabukasan, normal pa rin, pero deep inside gusto ko ng matunaw. Naging normal naman ang 1 week vacation ko sa kanila. Pero di na ako tumabi sa kanya sa pagtulog, nagkusa na akong sa ibang kuwarto matulog.
    Balik Manila. Walang nagbago. Dumating ang isang araw, may projects ulet kami na dapat mag overnight, sobrang himbing nyang matulog dala ng pagod, di ko napigilang tumingin at hawakan ang kanyang birdie and isubo iyon. Natigilan ako, kasi alam kong mali, parang naramdaman nya at gumalaw sya at bigla akong nagtulog tulugan. Biglan siyang nagtanong, kung anong oras na raw at sumagot naman ako automatically, huling gising ako. After nun, ok pa rin kami at hanggang dumating ang isang araw, kinausap nya ako. Sabi niya mapapansin nyang mahuhulog na loob ko sa kanya at alam nyang mahal ko siya at iyong mga nangyari sa amin. Tahimik lang ako. Tapos, sabi nya mali iyon at di maganda kasi mag bestfriend kami at mabuti pang magkalayo muna kami para makapag isip at magbago ako. Naiyak akong sobra at nakonsensya.
    Ako na lang ang lumayo ng isang buwan at alam kong iniiwasan nya ako nang bumalik ako. Ito raw ay para sa kabutihan ko na rin na gusto nya akong magbago – hindi dahil sa ayaw nya sa akin.
    At after three years, nagkita ulet kami at walang nagbago, close pa rin kami at may GF na rin sya. Alam kong mahal nya ako bilang kaibigan at sapat na iyong nangyari sa amin para maituring ko siyang greatest BESTFRIEND kasi kahit di maganda ang ginawa ko sa kanya, di siya nagbago at siya lang ang nakakaalam ng aking sikreto. Kaya kahit buhay ko handa kong ibigay sa kanya. Kasi sa kanya ko talaga naramdaman ang tunay na pagmamahal na kahit anong masamang nangyari, magkaibigan pa rin kayo.
    Kaya until now love na love ko pa rin siya kahit nasa Amerika na ako. I regularly call and email him. Kaya di na ako naghanap na iba pang besfriend kasi I already found one.
    

    08/11/12 11:57

38. #21  gerry

    

    Been there, done that…BEST ADVICE — go away. It will be very difficult solve the problem if you stay together or if you work together very closely. Lahat na ginawa ko, but to be physically away from him, that’s the best thing to do. Best friend ko kasi siya. It took a year and a half to heal the emotional wounds. When we met in Cebu (our hometown) the first time after I made the decision to leave our work in Manila, the feeling was gone and I was so happy. Best friend ko pa rin siya hanggang ngayon. Mahirap ngayon ang kalagayan mo. Gusto mo siyang halayin; gusto mo siyang yakapin. Gusto mo na kayo na talaga. Pero that’s because you are IN the situation. If you get out of it, you will realize later na mali pala ang ginagawa mo. Kahit asang anggulo, talo ka.  May asawa pati siya. Kung magawa niya na magtalik sa isang babae kahit may asawa siya; do you think he will stop doing it kung maging kayo nga talaga? Forget it. He will continue to bed women. Isipin mo na lang. Hindi na siya loyal sa asawa niya. Sa yo pa kaya? Kaya again — LEAVE!

    08/11/12 11:21

39. #20  Milalagring

    

    Macky, Tama si Migs
    “3. Open your eyes to the wide, wild world of bi/gay men. Andami, dami, dami mong choices.”
    at sabi pa nga sa Telecom tv ad, “THERE ARE MANY FISH IN THE  SEA”
    humanap ka lang ng hindi masyadong MALANSA ha????  joc joc joc bolante lang 

    08/11/12 11:13

40. #19  Rommel

    

    Thats a recipe for disaster. lipat ka n nang house. now na.

    08/11/12 09:33

41. #18  berserkerzcrit

    

    patulan mo. or else you’ll be hounded by regrets. tapos nun detach. know the situation you’re in and know the limits – which is do it but don’t go for “it”. no strings attached.

    mukha namang handa sya ibigay ang gusto mo e.

    08/11/12 09:24

42. #17  blend

    

    LET GO!!

    buti ng masaktan ka once…

    you’ll get through this…

    continue living..

    you will survive without him!

    08/11/12 09:18

43. #16  gus

    

    if you think you are hurting now, if you pursue this, you will get hurt a 100 times more and will probably be out of a job. consider the following: he is a married man with a child. from your story, he prefers women to men. he cheats on his wife. he works under you for a company that you enjoy working for. you are a smart man, what do think will happen to you and your job if you pursue this?

    08/11/12 08:46

44. #15  Mharky

    

    Migs…  being honest to oneself is better than “Don’t shit where you eat” .
    Its not all about sex… its human nature to fall in love not matter what the situation is.
    Just ask yourself is lust or love? if it is ONLY lust I’d agree with Migs. 
    If it is LOVE,  just tell him what you feel.

    Good day!

    08/11/12 08:00

45. #14  Maldito

    

    Chupain mo na lang bago mo iwan! Nang matahimik ka din. Minsan libog lang yan. Tapos kayo lang jan sa hindi pamilyar na lugar. Adam and Steve situation. 

    Tama si Nympho! hahaha

    Seriously, tandaan mo lang sinabi ni Migs. 

    08/11/12 07:37

46. #13  frenchy

    

    it hurts because you expect that he feels what you feel.

    just let it go. Hanap ka ng iba. never to touch a friend. That’s a no no
    girl in our turf.

    08/11/12 06:58

47. #12  butterflyrhai

    

    umpisa palang kasi wag na susubukan o magfeeling. para di na magkanda leche ang buhay…kung bakla ka or bi sabihin mo na sa kanya kung tatagapin nia di go atleast alam nia di tulad nian ang tingin nia saio eh parekoy tapos shokoy ka pala.. dnt just look on ur side look at his too if u were on his place what wuld u feel or do..love ba talaga yan baka lusting ka lang sa kanya…minsan or madalas pa naman pag natikman na saka mo malalaman na lust pala after the tikiman eh mahal mo pa din yun ang love…

    08/11/12 04:14

48. #11  Nympho

    

    too pala….anyways..o di ba…Iha….ikaw din baka later on ..bigla ka na lang may tanong.
    could have…should have…what would…if only i….. I say be true..lunukin na yan

    08/11/12 02:48

49. #10  Jojo Narciso

    

    Nangyari na sa akin yan nung ma in love ako sa co-pilot ko.  We are always partner sa flight, wala nangyari sa amin pero nahulog ang loob ko kanya.  He is my first officer and I am the captain.  When he joined another airline nawala ang communication namin.

    08/11/12 02:42

50. #9  Nympho

    

    Magtigil kayo….Life is to short…susuhin yan.

    08/11/12 02:38

51. #8  Nympho

    

    Natutulog nang magkayakap….ganoon.

    08/11/12 02:35

52. #7  the_bashhh

    

    Yes, Migs is right. Make it a rule: “don’t shit where you it”. Sa Davao ba? Chat ka lang sa Eyeball Chat dami ka na mame-meet doon. Hanap ka ng friend outside your work para mawala pagkahumaling mo. Mahirap mag-assume!

    http://bashhh.blogspot.com

    08/11/12 02:31

53. #6  matthew

    

    hirap ng situation mo dude..pero tama clang lahat..layuan mo sya..if the guy is still “single” bka pwede pa cguro, kaso he is married and i assume “straight”. Tama c Migs, daming bi/discreet na nagkalat jan, mag G4M ka hhehehehe…..masakit umiwas pero “time heals all wounds”.

    good luck dude!

    08/11/12 01:59

54. #5  dalumat

    

    sabihin mo sa kanya!

    tapos move on na. pag tinakasan mo lang yan nang walang closure, mahihirapan ka pa rin.

    malay mo hindi naman mawala ang pagkakaibigan at respeto nya sayo. at malay mo, pagbigyan ka nya ng isang beses. hehe. but don’t keep your hopes up. gaya nga ng sinasabi nina migs, malamang ay rejection yan. if he’s straight, he’ll never love you the way you love him. the important thing is to move forward.

    08/11/12 01:54

55. #4  okra

    

    hays oo nga!
    http://www.okrabesa.multiply.com

    08/11/12 01:39

56. #3  cainam

    

    i agree with migs, he’s your subordinate plus he is married. the only solution i can think of is to relocate to manila as soon as possible.  dahil kahit saang angulo mo tingnan, you’re at the losing end.

    08/11/12 01:21

57. #2  peppoi

    

    alam na nyang nagbabay-bi’an ka lang…

    alam na nyang isa kang miembro ng federation
    ..pero tama si Migs; Dont’s shit where you eat.

    …in addition: ”don’t fart in an elevator if there’s only the two of you inside…”

    08/11/12 00:46

58. #1  maic

    

    Very strong words Migs! Pakiulit….. “Don’t shit where you eat”

    08/11/12 00:45

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