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Org or Orgy?
Entry Feed TrackbackHere’s a letter from MGG reader named Stephen. –
i just would like to share with you guys my experience in joining an organization. i am staying alone here in manila, only son, my parents are both in abroad. i am stephen. i was at the gym last week at trinoma nung biglang nakita ko yung classmate ko nung college. nabigla at nagulat ako. pero sa totoo lang, parang natakot din ako. his name is chen, actually classmate ko din sya during high school in a chinese school. pero mas naging close kami nung nasa college na, pareho kami ng course at university na pinasukan.
one time, he invited me to join sa org na sinalihan nya. he explained all the privileges.
to make the story short, i joined.
the last part of the hazing, we had a group sex. 10 new members including me and 10 seniors including chen. that was horrible! hindi ko ma-explain kung ano yung nararamdaman ko, hindi ko rin alam kung ano yung napasukan ko.
kaming new members, ginawang sex slaves ng mga seniors. nahihiya ako sa sarili ko.
they officially accepted us in organization. DISCREET BI ORGANIZATION. wala na akong magawa, natatakot ako mag-pull out sa org. marami silang pwedeng gawin.
sa bawat meeting ng org, hindi nawawala ang group sex. continuous ang hiring ng new members, pero sobrang higpit. piling-pili lang talaga at maingat sa pagpili. karamihan sa members, influential ang family. mahirap sila kalabanin.
marami ring naitulong yung org sa akin, lalo na sa pag-aaral. sometimes, financial kapag short sa allowance, discounts at marami pang iba.
nung, nag-graduate na ako. hindi na ako naging active sa group. gusto ko na rin kumawala sa org. hindi ako nagpa-alam nung pumunta ako sa ibang bansa. wala akong communication sa kahit isang member. gusto ko na talaga kalimutan yung org.
last year, bumalik ako dito sa manila, pumasok ako sa medical school.
last week lang nakita ko ulit si chen, nasa gym din sya. kinumusta nya ako. nabigla at nagulat ako, pero sa totoo lang, natakot din ako.
nasa med school na ako, nasa med school na rin sya. buti na lang, magkaiba kami ng med school.
he asked me, kelan daw ako mag-aatend ng meeting. hindi ako nakasagot, hindi ko alam ang isasagot ko. ipapa-alam daw nya sa ibang members na bumalik na ako. hihintayin daw nila ako sa next meeting. same time, same place.
natatakot ako. ano gagawin ko? ayoko na sumali sa orgy.
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Nakakatakot nga yang napasukan mo. Pero if I were you, I would have a one on one talk with Chen. You did say you were close. Talk to him. Tell him this is not your thing. If you have to pay all the money you have debted to them if they use the “utang na loob” approach, then pay them. I don’t know if this is really the right thing to do, but i think thats the easiest way. Make Chen understand your situation.
jordan at May 10, 09 at 7:00 pm
Yay, first!!..
jordan at May 10, 09 at 7:01 pm
hmm…am curious…
mulato at May 10, 09 at 7:42 pm
1. Sumali ka dyan so accept
2. Kung ayaw mo edi sabihin mo ayaw mo na in a nice way. They will understand.
Kung may gawin silang masama sau. Ibang usapan na yun. Tapangan mo sarili mo.
Good luck!
charles at May 10, 09 at 7:42 pm
Tell your parents. I know it may sound immature as you’re old enough to have joined the group. But, hey, if you feel harassed, it’s better you have someone you can go to. You got yourself into a really embarassing situation if you tell them. But, what are your options now?
You can also go to the authorities. They can handle this professionally.
Good luck and may God bless you.
Tobal at May 10, 09 at 8:24 pm
That is a Bull org. Don’t let yourself be abused by those gays, unless you enjoyed it. Having sex must be fun and voluntary. The worst is… you get STDs mostly from orgies. They are influential? The more that you should be scared because they can travel a lot and contract you sexually transmitted diseases. Make your graceful exit talk to your good friend. IF he is indeed your good friend. Otherwise… seek the help of the authorities.
Exeter at May 10, 09 at 8:38 pm
parang hindi kapani-paniwala.
pwes, ibuko mo na yan!
tnoi at May 10, 09 at 8:54 pm
Grabe namang kahidhidan yang mga naiimbento ngayon!!!
Dedmahin mo at mabuhay ka ng ayon sa mga prinsiyo mo sa buhay!
Malamang may videos ang orgy sessions na yan…
Bebot at May 10, 09 at 8:56 pm
If I were you let it die naturally. you mention
karamihan sa members, influential ang family. mahirap sila kalabanin.
that means wala kang choice but to accept the current situation you are into. For me, your non attendance means you are inactive, tama ba? now its not a MAFIA para ganun ka na lang matakot. As far as I know you dont have anything they want, try to keep the info sa sarili mo.
Try to change your routine. routine includes the place and time where you will be meeting Chen.
I suggest you travel again and try to divert your attention. do not just join a group instead join a social group where you meet in public place having fun.
Hope this helps
Winterking at May 10, 09 at 8:57 pm
kapag bakla ka at wala kang BF does it mean you are straight guy?
alamin
http://byxbuzz.blogspot.com/2009/05/enchong-dee-di-ako-bakla.html
josh strike at May 10, 09 at 9:04 pm
Naku naman, sa UP ba yan?
Randall at May 10, 09 at 10:00 pm
Alam mo tol pareho tayo ng problema, ang kaibahan lang natin ay yung frat mo is for bi’s ang sa akin naman ay nabibilang sa organisasyon ng mga straight na men, butas ng karayom ang pinag daanan ko bago ako natanggap na myembro sa organisasyon na ito, mga kilalang personalidad sa gobyerno, negosyante,legal and medical frofession, military etc., ang bumubuo sa aming organisyon. Naging myembro ako dahil narin sa pangungumbinsi ng aking kumpare at kaklase ko rin dati sa law school. Nuon pa man ay alam ko ng iba ako sa normal na kabataang lalake subalit pilit ko itong itinago sa takot kong malait o maitakwil ng aking pamilya dahil kilalang pulitiko ang tatay ko o mga kaibigan o mga tao sa paligid ko.
Madalas ang meeting ng organisyon at dumarami ang mga myembro at gustong maging myembro, kaya natatakot ako na dumating ang araw na malaman o madiskubre nila na ang isang myembro pala nila ay myembro pala ni “dARNA” at isa pa dahil sa madalas na pagkikita kita ng mga myembro although kabilang kami sa ibat-ibang chapter ay nagkakaroon ako ng feeling para sa isa naming ka “BROD or KUYA”. Para maiwasan ko ang mas malaking dagok o problema ay nagpaka lay-layo ako matapos ang aming graduation at dito nga ako sa ibang bansa napadpad. May contact parin ako sa ibang members pero mukha yatang di ako makakatakas dahil dito sa bansang pinagtatrabahuan ko ay may mangilan-ngilan din palang mga KUYA OR BRODS dito kaya ang ginawa ko ay itinago ko na ang isang palatandaann na ako ay isang myembro sa organisasyong ito.
Mahirap ang tumiwalag sa aming organisyon, may sinumpaan kaming magkakasama at magtutulungan at mananatiling loyal sa aming organisyon.
Wala akong mai aadvice sayo kasi pareho tayo ng kinakaharap na problema at isa pa nag aaral kapa sa med school, ako kasi ay lumayo na at nangibang bayan para makaiwas sa aming organisyon, natatakot akong malaman o matuklasan nila ang pinaka tago-tago kong sikreto.
Just be brave and have the courage to face your brothers in the fraternity. Ang sikreto o baho ng isang member ay baho din ng lahat. In short dika nila pwedeng galawin dahil natatakot din silang mabulgar ang lahat ng sikreto ng organisyon ninyo kapag ginalaw ka nila.
tj at May 10, 09 at 10:17 pm
Fiction at best beybeh. You wouldn’t have dared writing here, if they’re really that influencial. Come on!
Eric at May 10, 09 at 10:40 pm
lokong kwento toh ah.. tune of twinkle twinkle little star.. cum on sing!
s.t.ds at h.i.v.
andami nila kasi.
pasok dito, subo don.
di lam kung san lilingon.
anjan na si mareng aids.
kasma mo until u fade.
hala.. imbestigador na ito, or XxX nlng pra mas related.
pro gawa muna kayo ng copy pra ibenta sa bangketa, ehe joke
all im just saying is, be careful.. sing mo ulit song ko, diba it makes sense..
sakit ang mhahanap mo sa org na yan..
khit sbihin pang practice ng safe sex, kelan man ang anal ay hnd safe.. tpos iba2 pa ung ksma..
bongga p nman kayo, 20 kgad ung ksma.. parang ngpicnic lng kayo noh..
find somone n u trust at alm n gnyan ka.. ung true frend ha.. pra mahati yang sinasaloob mo..
sabi nga ni tj (tingin sa taas), dka gagalawin kase lalabas ang baho nean..
godbless stephen.\m/
kyle at May 11, 09 at 12:56 am
I think you can tell them that you have HIV para they would lose any interest in you. Like tell them taht you once had a one-night stand with another guy while you were abroad and you got genital warts or something which made you stop having casual sex.
bentwood at May 11, 09 at 1:49 am
If I may add, I think risky move din ung ginawa mo na mag-post ng query here. Chen (or some other member of your “Org”), might get to read this and share to the other members.
bentwood at May 11, 09 at 1:57 am
p XXX muna. .wg lng s imbestigador kc naniningil cla ng bayad. .jejeje
Rapidfire at May 11, 09 at 2:21 am
Ka2takot nman yan. .parang ayaw qo n lng sumali s treskelion. .jejeje. .pnapasali kc aqo ng clasm8 q0. .
Rapidfire at May 11, 09 at 2:24 am
So many clues… Stephen, Chen… Chinoys to… Definitely sa Fitness First to sa Trinoma…
But what the heck! Di ba kaya ka nga nag-g-gym para lumaki muscles mo at kaya mo ipagtanggol sarili mo? Bat ka matatakot when you can rough it up with them? I mean for self-defense and not in bed! hahahahahahaha
killersmile at May 11, 09 at 4:19 am
parang Eyes wide Shut ni Stanley Kubrick!
katakot yan stephanie
jimg29 at May 11, 09 at 5:04 am
what kind of org is this?
how immoral!
Nash at May 11, 09 at 8:22 am
I can help you how to get out of that organization, i have also connection with authorities, just give me a call if you want me to help you. here’s my number. 09065708879. ingat ka delikado yang org na pinasukan mo.
bobby at May 11, 09 at 9:48 am
huwag kang matakot sa kanila.
sila ang dapat matakot sa iyo dahil may alam ka sa mga ‘activities’ ng mga members.
do a Brian Gorrell and you’ll be untouchable by them!
khristian y. at May 11, 09 at 12:31 pm
aww.., parang alam q t0ng org n toh ah.., ung initiati0n pinaka ndi q malilimutan..
jedz at May 11, 09 at 1:45 pm
siguro upsilon ito in diliman
mel at May 11, 09 at 1:59 pm
i think ndi xa frat eh.., dme branches t0ng org n toh eh.. i think we are in the same org.
dme benefits nung org nat0 lalu n s financial and pili lng tlga mkakasali d2.,
naalala q ung initiati0n sken, i feel so m0lested at ang alam q may ngvvide0 dn habang nanyyre un. pra panak0t if ever tumiwalag., masnakakatak0t kc dme cla pde gawin, in sh0rt npka p0werful nung organizati0n n t0h or i must say “society” un ung term nla..,
f0r stephen.., alam q dn ung feeling mo n prang gus2 mo n mgback out kya lng ang rules kc dun once n sumali ka.., habang buhay n un.. ^_^
jedz at May 11, 09 at 3:49 pm
If it’s not a frat, then it might be the likes of Rotary, Freemasons, De Molay, etc.
Nick at May 11, 09 at 10:51 pm
Cmon guys…he’s making it all up.
A sex ORG run by MANILA’s influential families??!! y’think? really?
A supposedly EXCLUSIVE club and they let the author of this fiction in??
And MIGS.. jeez.. as owner of ur blog, exercise naman some editing on what you choose to POST.. Kahit ano nalang na someone wants to share, you post maski na its smells of b#llsh@t..
nowayjose at May 11, 09 at 11:17 pm
@nowayjose: sana lang huwag high blood. hijo, paalala lamang… hindi ikaw ang nag-iisang pamantayan kung ano ang tama o mali, kung ano ang totoo o hindi, ok? sabi nga, let’s give him the benefit of the daw hahaha!
migs at May 11, 09 at 11:37 pm
I agree to @nowyjose, cmon don’t give us anothe crap… Parang this blogsite nagiging outlet na ng mga writers wannabe, I mean hindi ako against sa mga tao huh pero sa mga ideas… parang alam mo yun, Tapos here comes pa yung mga pa hero kunwari na tutulong pero we all naman na iba din yung motive. Cmon guys, wake up from slumber. Tsk!!!
october at May 11, 09 at 11:56 pm
Ano ba ang pinaka matinding pwede nilang gawin sa iyo na ikina katakot mo kung hindi ka pupunta sa meetings nila? Just dont attend, period. May mga pinag aralan naman siguro sila para maintindihan na ayaw mo na sumali. At hindi naman siguro gagawa ng crimen yang mga yan para lang maka sex ka ulit. If they harass you or commit other crimes against you, then that would be a police matter. You have the choice of going to the police and/or filing charges in court, or just live your life constantly in fear.
buff_joey at May 12, 09 at 12:20 am
sale ko!
=)
peppoi at May 12, 09 at 1:02 am
sabunutan mo pag pinilit ka o kaya kalmutin mo sa mukha.
richie at May 12, 09 at 12:36 pm
You need to take action to reveal this to authorities. You can contact XXX or Imbestigador to expose this on national TV so that others may be warned.
mj at May 12, 09 at 2:08 pm
agree ako kay richie.
sabunotan at kalmutan ang tamang labanan!
mag-iskandalo to the max kapag pinilit…at sumigaw ng rape!
muher at May 12, 09 at 6:34 pm
Siguro eto yung for members only na ginagawa ng Manjobs…
killersmile at May 12, 09 at 7:54 pm
Agree ako kaay @bentwood, takutin mo na lang sila na may HIV ka. O kaya magpapanget ka para maturn-off sila sayo.
jordan at May 13, 09 at 1:31 am
Ang OA naman nung number 2 comment
rommel at May 13, 09 at 12:10 pm
Kakatakot naman ang kwento na to
Genderah at May 13, 09 at 12:48 pm
Sabihin mo na lang mag STI or worst AIDS ka para matigil sila.
Brown at May 13, 09 at 3:50 pm
*I mean may STI or worst AIDS ka para matigil sila.
Brown at May 13, 09 at 3:52 pm
i support migs’ decision to post this letter. the letter does have good content, and is a curiously good one, and if some of us don’t think it’s authentic, then so be it. we, the readers, should be discriminating enough to know what we want to believe or not. if something is weird or sounds like it’s not true, then that’s probably our world telling us. others have their own as well.
George at May 13, 09 at 5:10 pm
George, migs owns this site .. its his call what makes the ‘front page’. Poor taste in article. Not even good enough for Abante
Adam at May 14, 09 at 1:07 am
grabe naman yan peo dapat nung una palang sinabi mo na sa fren mo na hindi mo feel ang ganun tsaka nung initiation palang eh nagback out ka na kasi kung ayaw mo talaga di dapat sa simula palang eh sinabi mo na peo hindi so ibig sabihin ginusto mo yan….tsaka you have the right to choose either the wrong way or the right way…
ian at May 14, 09 at 1:39 pm
medyo may katotohanan ang sulat na ito… i know and have heard some bi org like this… they call tehmselves as clans, etc… i think this is happening in one prominent medical university in manila… sa up pgh may dalawang frat jan.. for str8 at for bi/gay med students… but im not sure if this is happening sa up pgh… saan ba ang initiation naganap?
babytee at May 15, 09 at 1:02 am
question lang.. ganyan din ba ang mga nangyayari sa mga clans. yung gay clans na ang communication ay thru text, which they call as GM or group message? bothered lang ako since my partner is part of a clan. before pa maging kame, part na siya nun, till now ilang months na kame.
punchkid at May 15, 09 at 10:54 pm
guys,
thank you for your comments! i really appreciate it!
stephen
stephen at May 18, 09 at 4:37 am
i also go to that gym in trinoma. i wonder if we have met.
johncastro66 at May 19, 09 at 12:54 pm
i attended the meeting last friday night.
wala akong naging choice, but to attend the meeting.
i talked to our seniors and explained my side.
fortunately, they understand. sa totoo lang, medyo nahirapan ako pero
buti na lang i tried. that was a real relief!
napansin ko, hindi na rin sila masyado strict, which i think mas ok.
some members may or may not attend the meeting regularly.
siguro nauna lang talaga yung takot sa’kin.
chen was there, he was very supportive.
they told me that, anytime that i feel like joining the meeting,
i am very much welcome, as a guest.
yun nga, that night, after the conversation.. they made me feel like a guest.
i was not able to refuse, i just joined the session. sa totoo lang, dun ko
lang na-enjoy kasi walang pressure. at the same time they treated me as a special guest.
si chen, hindi ako iniwan that night. parang nagulat ako sa mga ginawa nya.
he told me, na-miss daw nya ako. hindi ko na lang pinansin. pero, sa totoo lang
parang bumabaon yung mga sinasabi nya.
kahapon, he gave me a call, nagkita kami sa gym then after that kumain kami sa labas.
parang si chen ngayon yung problem ko.
stephen at May 19, 09 at 9:37 pm
Ang ganda naman ng plot twist! Sabi na nga ba, super fiction to eh. What a complete waste of time redaing this. Dapat nag-Planet Romeo na lang ako. (Useful Info: Did you know that halos lahat ng users doon ay bottom! What a marketplace, at least for me! harharhar. Lahat na ng bading sa Pinas, bottom na… tsk. hehehe)
Etong si Stephen, botomesa ito… hehehe
fictionada at May 21, 09 at 12:26 pm
Migs, being the responsible racconteur of this Blog you have a legal duty to report this organization to the police. Not only is there a violation of the the ANTI HAZING LAW, R.A. 8049, but, having knowledge of criminal activity, you could be an accessory for failing to report a crime.
Section 1 of RA 8049 provides:
“SECTION 1. Hazing as used in this Act is an initiation rite or practice as a prerequisite for admission into membership in a fraternity, sorority or organization by placing the recruit, neophyte or applicant in some embarrassing or humiliating situations such as forcing him/her to do menial, silly, foolish and similar tasks or activities or otherwise subjecting him/her to physical or psychological suffering or injury.”
There is clearly a criminal act in the one described in this thread.
jed at May 22, 09 at 1:02 pm
jed,
parang bitter ka?
hehe
francois at May 22, 09 at 9:59 pm
kakatakot nman yan… cguro dpat iwasan na nia yung mga yun
Emmanuel Joseph at Jun 2, 09 at 12:56 pm
what tym do you usually go to the gym? and what is your favorite locker number?
johncastro66 at Jun 3, 09 at 11:47 am
johncastro66,
what do u min?
stephen at Jun 3, 09 at 3:00 pm
stephen,
can we talk? hehehe
can we have coffee or yakult? toss tau pre
share ka ulit latest please.. anu na nagyari sa inyo ni chen?
yakult at Jun 3, 09 at 3:07 pm
sabi mo, you go to that gym in trinoma. i was asking what time you usually go there, and what is your favorite locker number? and name three personal trainors you find really hot?
johncastro66 at Jun 10, 09 at 4:25 pm
wew,,
storytelling!!!hahaha
hindi kapanipaniwala kya..haha
philter at Jun 17, 09 at 4:56 pm
tj, i’m just curious… we might be members of the same organization. you mentioned taking a vow of loyalty to the org and the other members. hmmm… do the number 03181314 mean anything to you? message me please at froggymemet@yahoo.com. thanks!
uriel_soulfire at Sep 18, 09 at 1:52 am
Lahat tayo tumatanda at tatanda rin at awkward na sa matanda ang ganitong activities unless this clan will continue their mission kahit silay mga lola nat wala ng gustong sumali at mangha harass na lang.
FACE UR FEARS: On the other hand nag enjoy ka rin naman noon. its either sawa ka na sa mga burat ng ka play mo dahil yun at yun pa rin.
Aminin mo rin sa sarili mo that you still enjoy ur GAY LIFE STYLE…if not bakit ka pa rumarampa sa gym?
Prangkahin mo na para matapos.
At para dun mga maniakiss na bakla na nag comment: Tumigil nga kau mga baklang salot.
chenilyn mercado at Oct 25, 09 at 10:41 am