Jul
11

Muslim Gay Guy Seeks Help

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hi migs!

i am an avid reader of your blog. the best kasi. ain’t no other like it.
ok, now the papuri is over i’ll deck the cards.

i’m bi. and i live in cotabato city. im muslim. im 19. out of school youth.
the reason i wrote to you is nahihirapan akong humanap ng kaibigan na tulad ko na bi.
daming mga tao diyan sa tabi-tabi pero they like sex lang.
gusto ko ng sensitive at tulad ko rin na bi.
i don’t like yung sex lang hanap nila kasi after nun wala na.
gusto ko ng kaibigan.
pwede rin karelasyon pero i’m not ready.
gwapo naman ako kaya daming mga nagpaparamadam pero they’re gay na as in bebe gandanghari gay. yoko nun. hehe.

anyway, nakaexperience na ako ng m2m sex but i never had those butt fucking thingie.
masakit kasi yun, naka-try na ako though.

so, i’m asking sana you could help me find people like me here sa cotabato city.

i’m a very discreet bi pala. have i mentioned it na ba?

anyway, help me, migs!

please??

– Datu

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To all those who are looking for FRIENDS, try out the MGG For Friends site. It’s a private networking site (like an exclusive/private Friendster site just for MGG frineds). Send me an email if you wanna join, and I’ll send you an invite.

Migs

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36 Comments So Far

  1. lol. goodluck..

    cordy at Jul 11, 09 at 10:41 pm

  2. I’m “bebe gandanghari gay”, so romance is out of the question. However, I SERIOUSLY want to talk to you.

    (MIGS! I NEED TO CONNECT WITH THIS GUY. If you see my email address, you’ll know why.)

    the wilted prune at Jul 12, 09 at 4:16 am

  3. i visit cotabato from time to time. will be there this week. we can talk when am there. just leave me your mobile number.

    paol0 at Jul 12, 09 at 6:08 am

  4. I know what you mean. Hirap din humanap ng talagang bi na friends. I’m not from Cotabato but maybe we could connect kahit text.

    (Migs, send mo na lang sa akin details niya kung ayos lang sa kanya)

    FrostedAdmission at Jul 12, 09 at 7:20 am

  5. hi migs..please invite to your
    MGG friend finder…thanks

    marky at Jul 12, 09 at 9:13 am

  6. hello blog owner, i just wanted to ask and be enlightened as to why most people here are referring to bb gandanghari as gay. if the email sender is pertaining to flamboyant gay people, he is seriously mistaken using bb as an example. bb is transgendered. look it up on wikipedia.

    BBisnotgay at Jul 12, 09 at 6:41 pm

  7. mag-planetromeo ka dong

    ming at Jul 12, 09 at 8:59 pm

  8. hi migs. would it be okay if you invited me to join the “for friends” site? i have been living in manila for the past 2 years and i have been in search of friends – to no avail.

    *wonderboy at Jul 12, 09 at 9:24 pm

  9. bi now gay later…

    steven at Jul 12, 09 at 9:36 pm

  10. Actually, eto rin ang problem ko. A lot of bi people are just after sex. Kahit san ka magpunta, IRC, g4m, etc.

    Gusto ko kasing makahanap ng sensible kausap na bi. Yung maamaze ako sa ugali at pananaw niya sa buhay. Kahit kaibigan lang okay na. I am not really looking for a relationship but I am waiting for that right time.

    Kung sinuman ang interested to make friends, and I mean real friends, message me up. mimick_ry@yahoo.com

    Thanks.

    futureshock at Jul 12, 09 at 10:43 pm

  11. migs can u invite me to your ‘for friends’ site. friends naman tayo d ba. . .

    maniac at Jul 12, 09 at 11:09 pm

  12. hi there its very difficult talaga to find friends na same as u na hindi lang sex ang habol,, especially that u said that ur gwapo.. neways gudlak sana makahanap ka ng friend here.. taga manila ako medyo malau sau..

    codeblue2187 at Jul 12, 09 at 11:44 pm

  13. ahw.. goodluck. i wanna b your friend, kasalukuyan din akong nghahanap ng friend na not straight, na makakaintindi sa akin. btw, im a discreet gay. lol ang panget lang, davao aq, cotabato ka. xD

    dfilboy at Jul 12, 09 at 11:54 pm

  14. gusto ko ng ganito… hehe…. pa email nmn ng invitation..

    arn at Jul 13, 09 at 1:03 am

  15. wow i like to be his frend…. hirs my e-mail not2_gud@yahoo.com.

    jayr at Jul 13, 09 at 6:38 pm

  16. migs am from cotabato city. can you get me in touch with him..bi too

    vast at Jul 13, 09 at 7:10 pm

  17. gusto ko din ng friends pero i am extremely cautious of my closet case. hehe

    bluelightninglad at Jul 13, 09 at 7:54 pm

  18. hi MIGSZ

    GUS2 KO NUNG NETWORKING site

    dave_davao20@yahoo.com

    friendster ko din yan..jejeje

    dave_davao at Jul 14, 09 at 12:53 am

  19. hi migs..i can’t believe that i’m actually leaving a comment here..maybe i just want to thank u for mainting a blog (such as this one) as it has been a great help for those like us (confused).

    and datu, i just want u to know that you’re not alone..hope i could meet someone to whom i can freely open myself. Yngatz po.

    dave at Jul 14, 09 at 6:44 am

  20. hay naku datu,,,hindi ka nag iisa jan sa lugar my bestfriend is a bi,, at anak xa ng maimpluwensyang pamilya jan,,, kapag naubusan ka ng fren jan,, tawid ka lng dito sa davao,,, marami kami dito,,,, gudlak datu,,, cge lang ipakumusta kta jan kay datu hans,,, discreet din,,,

    jhay at Jul 14, 09 at 8:32 pm

  21. i forgot,,,, malapit lang ang davao,,, dito mo makikita hinahanap mo,,, i cn be your friend,, AT MARAMI AKONG FRIEND NA GWAPONG MAYA

    jhay at Jul 14, 09 at 8:34 pm

  22. tangna… habang binabasa ko yung sulat e si bebe gandanghari naiimagnine ko! wahahahahaah!

    dl_emperor at Jul 15, 09 at 2:36 pm

  23. Then find a guy who can help you out from the homosexual tendency…probably a intellectually mature person, someone who will not take advantage of your weakness. Here’s some groups who can help you:

    1. Bagong Pag-asa
    Director: Rene Gomez; Telephones: 001-632-807-6576, Fax: 001-632-842-5028; Mailing Address: PO Box 9139, MCS Mailing Center, 1200 Makati, Metro Manila, Philippines; Main Address: #7 Mindanao Drive, 1780 Ayala Alabang Village, Muntinlupa City, Philippines E-Mail: bpagasa@i-manila.com.ph

    2. Pathway (previously called Bread of Life)
    Alice Villa-Real; 011-632-1278-26161 (V/M, FAX, Numeric), 011-632-(0918) 802-1541 (car), 011-632-1277-26161 (pager); PO Box 1875, Quezon City CPO, 1158 Quezon City, Metro Manila, Philippines.

    3. Set Free
    E-Mail: setfree@skyinet.net(old info?)

    4. Courage – Phillipines
    Metro Manila Area; contact Joe G., Phone 0917-892-2257 or 0919-395-7168 or page 634-3333, ID #890-065
    Deacon Dan Healy, Phone (02) 872-2021,
    E-Mail1: courage_ph@edsamail.com.ph
    E-Mail2: anawimph@philonline.com
    Write to Anawim Community, 5 Vida Doria Street, B.F. Resort Village, Las Pinas City, Metro Manila, Philippines

    james at Jul 17, 09 at 9:29 am

  24. migs, i think i can fulfill what he needs… coz im also looking for that kind of relationship…

    closet... at Jul 17, 09 at 6:04 pm

  25. im from cot. city before, its hard to find bi friends there cause a lot of dicremenations, pero ok lang. im still happy of what happend to my life.. bata ka pa.. dadating din yang mga friends.. just wait for it pare. now in makati for work, but ill be back home at cot. on nov.. tc..

    rickz_07 at Jul 19, 09 at 3:21 pm

  26. ahhhhhhhhhhh…no comment…jeje

    ram at Jul 19, 09 at 9:36 pm

  27. i’m also looking for that kind of friend, although im here in canada. boredom is killing me here, mag 3 months pa lang ako dito. those who looking for a friend, email me

    mark at Jul 21, 09 at 3:05 am

  28. how to access the MGG For Friends site?

    mark at Jul 21, 09 at 3:09 am

  29. hey, can u invite me on that MGG friend networking thingie?? Thanks!

    jaybee at Aug 6, 09 at 8:41 pm

  30. hi migs,

    hindi ako masyado avid reader or fan, pero i do appreciate this whole thing. i have send several comments and read some or most of the stories. and punto ko for today is— pwede sumali sa MGG friend networking site?

    hope to hear from you soon.

    jason from abu dhabi

    abu dhabi Gay Guy at Aug 12, 09 at 1:33 pm

  31. helow datu, pwede ako..he5. pro, taga-davao lng ako…eto number koh f gusto u malaman ako deeper. 09283265414

    chris at Aug 18, 09 at 11:36 am

  32. Helo. . .Gus2 q dn ng frndz. . .Send me an invite naman mr migs. . .Btw im from iloilo. .Tnx. .

    Smokaholic at Aug 18, 09 at 6:49 pm

  33. i feel exactly the same with you datu. im a 19 year-old muslim too but kinda confused if im straight (trying hard) or bi.. :C

    gibby_gibbs at Aug 28, 09 at 12:48 pm

  34. heheheehe nice name! :)

    Dats at Sep 5, 09 at 6:08 am

  35. I feel the same way.

    I’m 16 and I’ve always been a non-conformer, a non-believer and a person with raging homosexual desires. I listen to metal, I feel left out and detached.
    My life is a lie and currently is in a total mess. For three years I’ve had my heart broken and for three years I kept on falling for the same guy. It hurts and I’ve got no one to talk to not until now. Sure, I may have gay friends but they’re not like me, they can’t talk like me, relate with me.

    I’m not into fashion and pop. I like writing poems, reading poems, especially ones from Edgar A. Poe. I like gore, blood and stuff but I also enjoy butterflies and flowers.

    Hell, to cut it short: “I’m as confused as the mad man on the street.”

    Kayne at Nov 8, 09 at 2:10 am

  36. i will simply quote P Coelho (Statutes for the New Millenium, Like the Flowing River):
    “#4. Each human being was a given a virtue: the ability to choose. Anyone who fails to use this virtue transforms it into a curse, and other will choose for them.
    #5. Each human being has his or her own sexual identity and should be able to exercise that identity without guilt as long as they do not force that sexual identity on others.
    #8. Every man has a feminine side, and every woman a masculine side. It is important to use discipline with intuition, and to use intuition with objectivity.
    #10. Every human being has the right to search for happiness and by ‘happiness’ is meant something that makes that individual feel content, not necessarily something that makes other people content.
    #11. Every human being should keep alive within them the sacred flame of madness, but should behave as a normal person……”

    in other words po ay sayaw tayo to the rhythm of our own drums and beats; basta maintain lang ang respeto sa sarili at respeto sa kapwa tao…..

    :-)

    MrLodani at Jan 10, 10 at 8:47 pm

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