
Dear Migs,
I’m on the crossroads. Why is it so hard for us? Much has been said but let me think out loud anyway. Feel free to publish if you feel people can relate.
Life can’t be any tougher. It’s hard enough to know and realize that you’re not normal i.e. a minority, that you have a scientific objective disorder, it’s harder that we live in a world that frowns upon or looks away from imperfections.
Let’s face it, there are just some things that the lucky heterosexuals will never face.
1. Marriage – Who will marry you? You actually want to, and have an offspring or many of them but who will take you up on this? For normal guys you can just go and marry someone, have a baby. But for us, how? You won’t want to marry someone with this huge secret like a storm cloud ready to pour anytime.
2. Peer pressure – Your hetero friends start to get married one by one at the age of 25 and up, then the question of “why don’t you have a girlfriend” or “when will you get married” is on top of the FAQs. Whatever can you say?
3. Social Networks – You can’t even put your picture on grindr or any website for fear that someone might recognize! If you were straight, then by all means flaunt it.
4. Hooking up – Mostly done online, lest you already have a “discreet circle”. Quite pathetic. And how would you know about the places to go to if you don’t have people to tell you? You must be good with google if you want in on the latest go-to places. Read more »
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