I stumbled on your blog a few minutes ago and read some of the stories. Seems like everybody’s really nice and all. Anyways, I’m J and i was kinda wanting to talk about stuff. I’m seeing someone now but somehow I always end up watching a movie alone or spending the more the usual “me time” at the mall. He’s almost always busy and truth be told, I’ve given up on trying to spend my extra time looking for ways to see him. Yeah, the relationship is dying, dead to be exact (it has been for a long time) and I know we ought to move on. But how do i do that? I don’t have a lot of friends that i can talk to about this and i dont want to spend my days sulking at the corner while everybody else is happy and all very well to do.
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Yes, you are on the right path — MOVE ALONG and MOVE ON. How to do that? You said it yourself — why not try to meet more friends, those you can talk to, those you can be happy with?
Being in a relationship is fine, but I honestly think it is over-rated. There are so many great things one can experience in being with friends! Sadly, too many people spend too little effort in initiating and nurturing lifelong friendships. This I think is what you can start to explore.
There is an upcoming get together you might want to consider joining, there you might be able to find nice chaps as potential friends. If that is not your cup of tea, at least start looking. For friends.