I was deeply attracted and had feelings for a close friend of mine who is straight but is bisexual at times. I am bisexual. me and him have been intimate with each other numerous of times but I started falling for him hard so I stopped hanging with him and talking to him for awhile and wasn’t having sex with him. well I decided to move back in at his house a couple months ago and we started back messin around here and there and now I’ve kinda caught feelings for him again. I try to shake those feelings as much as I can and try to push them to the side but it makes me want him even more. he is cool messin around from time to time but said he would never date a guy and I would love to be in a relationship with him. I don’t know what to do. I need some serious advice.
There is no easy way with feelings, as the mind can many times be powerless over emotions. One option is to just let it pass, which is kinda boring; if you are the type who can articulate how you feel about him straight then why not? In short, ask. Because if you don’t the answer is always no; when you do, you create the possibility of a yes.