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Hi Migs,

I am currently, i think, in an 8 year relationship with my partner. We met 2008 and been together since. We had a few bumps and bruises along the way, but never too serious to really end the relationship. I believe that we are stronger than these problems and trials. But this one that came up really is a hard one. We are in a sort of LDR, i work in the North area while he works in the Metro. We see each other at least twice a month. Communication is still constant, morning, lunch, dinner and before we sleep. Sometimes, there are the rare “how are you’s” during the day. Looks everything is okay. Then, he confessed to me that he received a hand job in a gay massage parlor recently. And honestly, i thought initially that it’s okay since it’s not as if they fucked (based on his story at least). But the more i think and access my feeling, i felt betrayed. Because he done something that only the two of us should do. It’s an intimate thing to do with a stranger, don’t you think? I just felt cheated. I don’t know if i can trust him. If i can still believe in the things that he will say.I know, this is so petty for some.

I do still love him. he’s my world. He’s my everything. He keeps me going. But now, i just don’t know anymore. Am I being too sensitive or petty with this, am i being to paranoid?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

More power!

Zack

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What do you guys think? -migs

Comments (6)

  1. TomBox said on 24-12-2016

    I think you are just overreacting to his story and what he experienced in that place. I encourage you to read more and explore more and not concentrate on a non-issue. Consider yourself to be so lucky to have him.

  2. Victor S said on 14-11-2016

    talk to him over the phone or videochat. let him retell the story. detail by detail. make it sound like your reliving the scenario with him, only this time with you in it. make it kinky. it may lead to phone sex or cum on cam.

    the idea is to get him retell the story to check for inconsistencies. and another would be to mask that handjob experience with your SOP or vidjakol. then talk to him how you feel about him getting hanky pankies from strangers.

    in the end, you two will have to talk it out. Obviously it’s not a minor thing for you. he has been honest enough of his sexual adventure. You ought to be honest with your emotional dilemma. :)

    I hope you two work it out :)

  3. Cruiser Dude said on 28-10-2016

    Hi, Zack, I guess you should still be thankful that your partner is still honest despite of what happened. Remember that you are away from him. Like you, he has his needs too. What would then be more unacceptable is if he made love with other guy, then you can call it dishonestly. We are just human beings, so relax Dude. I still do not consider it as cheating…peace Dude.

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  5. maniladad04 said on 25-10-2016

    Hi zack!

    I’d say that give ur partner a chance. Ask what happened and why it led to having a handjob. I’m sure he would tell you that he was thinking about you. He may just be provoked by the situation. Maybe most, if not all, will give in when presented in the same scenario.
    You are lucky that he was honest enough to tell u what happened. If with other partners, they will probably keep mum about it.
    If this happen again, or happens more often, that’s the time that you have to rethink if he is really cheating on u.

    Keep strong.

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