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The month of May’s full moon is called FULL FLOWER MOON. Traditionally, flowers spring forth in abundance this month, and perhaps a perfect time too to start a blooming relationship. This month, the full moon will be on May 21, right on the same evening when we conduct the DATING DUDES event.

“Dating Dudes” is part of Love Yourself’s series of events where the goal is to have meaningful conversations, among guys of the same persuasion, on topics that are interesting, fun, and engaging. It is a by-invitation event, so if you or your friends are interested to join, please register at to receive an invite.

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hei migs,

almost a year na pala na nagsend ang boyfriend ko ng letter nya sa blog. he introduced ur blog to me because he said some of the letters daw e nakakatuwa basahin because of the issue. i was reading some of the letters but im sorry to say na stop reading. then after a year i came back to check.

im the boyfriend ng isang issue mo na confused OFW. ako yung mr derek ramsey look-alike na sinasabi nya. nakakatuwa even dito sa site yun pa rin ang tawag nya. i miss him so much. totoo ang lahat ng sinabi nya sa message mo about sa petty things na nauuwi sa hiwalayan pero di ako pumapayag kaya wala siyang magawa. i’m here not to seek an advice how to forget him but to win his heart again. siguro marami magsasabi na tanga ako if u see him compare with me. pero it’s not about the physical looks, it’s about unconditional love. i tried to do everything with our relationship at tama ka sa sinabi mo na nakakapanghinayang ang mga memories na pinagsamahan namin.

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DISCREET MEET: Locked and loaded na ang upcoming meet-up for discreet men bukas ng gabi (Feb. 20, 2016). Na-send-an na ng SMS invite ang lahat ng kasali. Tomorrow will be a good and chill Saturday, but will surely be memorable as the participants meet other discreet guys. Hindi po ito orgy. Ito po ay wholesome meet-up para sa mga hindi masyadong nagkakaroon ng chance para maka-connect sa katulad nila. Good luck guys and have fun!

Hi Migs,

I was deeply attracted and had feelings for a close friend of mine who is straight but is bisexual at times. I am bisexual. me and him have been intimate with each other numerous of times but I started falling for him hard so I stopped hanging with him and talking to him for awhile and wasn’t having sex with him. well I decided to move back in at his house a couple months ago and we started back messin around here and there and now I’ve kinda caught feelings for him again. I try to shake those feelings as much as I can and try to push them to the side but it makes me want him even more. he is cool messin around from time to time but said he would never date a guy and I would love to be in a relationship with him. I don’t know what to do. I need some serious advice.

– M.N.


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Ang nakakalokang online novel na pinagbibidahan ni Ash at Trey :) Basahin at kiligin hahaha!

Basahin dito.


Kilalanin ang tatlong bidang bibihag sa puso mo. Three days to go before you listen to the sound of your heart!

#LoveYourselfPH proudly presents “Harana,” its very first online novel on August 26, 2015. Abangan ang kwentong magpapa-in love sa inyo all over again, exclusively on


Here’s a new indie movie — a love story which is incidentally gay. Mega hugot, “saksak puso” feels. Sa mga gustong mag-emote, lalo na sa mga nakaka-relate sa unrequited love, this movie is for you. A film by one of my fave directors – Bebs Gohetia. Starring Joross Gamboa, Prince Stefan, and CJ Reyes.

“Who do you choose? The one you love or the one who loves you?”

Experience a love that lasts on July 17, 2015, Friday, 8pm at the UP DILIMAN CINE ADARNA for a one-time screening of “I love you. Thank you.”

Tickets at P150.00. For reservations, text Aje (09168694288) your full name and quantity of tickets to be reserved.

Hi Migs!

I know your blog generally tackles mostly LBGTQ issues and concerns. I am a heterosexual woman. Nonetheless, I felt that I could share this concern with you.

I thought of writing you because I fell in love with this male massage therapist whom I came across through your blog. Long story short, I saw your blogs about him and I got infatuated with him, so much so that I decided to get a massage from him.

The decision to get a massage from him was out-of-character to say the least because I am not entirely comfortable with the idea of having a masseur touch me, much less caress me, especially given that the massage the Spa offers is more than the usual massage I get from my regular spas.

When I finally got the massage, it was more than the usual routine. Without me asking for it, he gave me the “extra service” I only ever heard about from my gay friends. He was ever the gentleman and ensured my comfort all throughout.

After the massage, he started texting me. Given my infatuation, I entertained him. He eventually asked me out on a date. My friends, especially my gay friends, cautioned me against getting into something serious with him considering our circumstances. They warned me that there is always the danger of being made a sugar mommy and of the therapist taking advantage of me for material reasons. I told them that I am a big girl and I can handle it. I was wrong.

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hi migs,

to be honest i just started reading ur blog and i really hooked up about the letter i read about PLU people. ang dami palang problema ng mga tao dito i thought mas madaming problema ang economy and sa politics pero mas marami pala dito hahahah…

i just need an advice about my current situation. i have a boyfriend now and he is my third. we’ve been together since 2006 so meaning we just celebrated 9 years. sobrang attached na ako sa kanya na nung nagsama kami e masaya akong nakikita ang mukha nya sa umaga. sa totoo lang gwapo siya at muscular. everyone will get envy to me kasi ako chubby but cute. marami ang nagsasabi na derek ramsey siya from face to body na pinagtatakahan ko kasi sa dami ng tao e ako talaga ang napili.

we love to travel. almost naka 15 countries na kami from asean countries to australia. until we need to separate kasi financial problem. dahil sa bakasyon and enjoyment e nabaon kami sa utang and i need to sacrifice kasi ako ang may good opportunity to work abroad.

the experience without him by my side is really a struggle. umiiyak ako dahil sa work at sa sobrang miss ko sa kanya. nasanay ako na kasama siya for 9 years. kilala na siya ng pamilya ko at kilala ko ang pamilya nya. sa sobrang lungkot ko naka open ako ng application sa cellphone which is grindr.

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