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(Mandaluyong City). LoveYourself, Inc. in partnership with the Philippine Educational Theater Association (PETA) invites everyone to the 3:00 p.m. show of Care Divas on 5 February 2017 at the PETA Theater Centre in New Manila, Quezon City.
“This partnership with PETA is also a great way of tapping the arts as a means to educate the public not just with the plight of OFWs but with the struggles of the LGBT community including the stigma on HIV and social limitations,” LoveYourself Executive Director Ronivinn G. Pagtakhan said.

Care Divas will be re-staged as PETA’s flagship production for its 50th anniversary. It is a musical drama that tells the story of five transgender Overseas Filipino Workers in Israel who work as care givers and take the stage as drag queen performers at night. The production focuses on the struggle of these transgender women as they seek acceptance in a foreign land while making ends meet not just for themselves but for their families in the Philippines.
While the hit-musical will run from 3 February to 19 March, only the 3:00 p.m. show on 5 February is dedicated to LoveYourself.

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Hi Migs,

I am currently, i think, in an 8 year relationship with my partner. We met 2008 and been together since. We had a few bumps and bruises along the way, but never too serious to really end the relationship. I believe that we are stronger than these problems and trials. But this one that came up really is a hard one. We are in a sort of LDR, i work in the North area while he works in the Metro. We see each other at least twice a month. Communication is still constant, morning, lunch, dinner and before we sleep. Sometimes, there are the rare “how are you’s” during the day. Looks everything is okay. Then, he confessed to me that he received a hand job in a gay massage parlor recently. And honestly, i thought initially that it’s okay since it’s not as if they fucked (based on his story at least). But the more i think and access my feeling, i felt betrayed. Because he done something that only the two of us should do. It’s an intimate thing to do with a stranger, don’t you think? I just felt cheated. I don’t know if i can trust him. If i can still believe in the things that he will say.I know, this is so petty for some.

I do still love him. he’s my world. He’s my everything. He keeps me going. But now, i just don’t know anymore. Am I being too sensitive or petty with this, am i being to paranoid?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

More power!



What do you guys think? -migs

To celebrate the spa owner’s birth month, Hoja de Laurel is giving away 20% discount to its sensual massage patrons, if they text 0916-781-9774 to schedule their massage.



Can’t believe it’s been 10 years. My first post was dated August 28, 2006. Grabe. 10 years and we’re still alive and kicking! CHEERS!


The month of May’s full moon is called FULL FLOWER MOON. Traditionally, flowers spring forth in abundance this month, and perhaps a perfect time too to start a blooming relationship. This month, the full moon will be on May 21, right on the same evening when we conduct the DATING DUDES event.

“Dating Dudes” is part of Love Yourself’s series of events where the goal is to have meaningful conversations, among guys of the same persuasion, on topics that are interesting, fun, and engaging. It is a by-invitation event, so if you or your friends are interested to join, please register at to receive an invite.

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Happening This Saturday – May 7, 2016. Register at

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Make your sexy time pulsatingly fun and luciously varied! Spice it up with surprise hip-lifting hokage moves, pick a new trick or two — learn the art of sensual massage. Presenting this much-awaited special learning session, with live demonstrations from the masseurs of Hoja De Laurel. Door fee at P300. Saturday, May 7, at 8 PM. LoveYourself Uni. Very limited slots available, register now at

Will you be staycationing in the Metro while everyone else is leaving the city during Holy Week? Want to do something interesting? Come join a very small and intimate get together, conversations over fun drinks on a Good Friday somewhere in the Ortigas area. Very few slots available, just email me ( and tell me something about yourself and why you want to join. Go!


Allow me to publish this note I received from a mother named Jennifer, who’s just beaming with pride because of her son. Jennifer – I am so proud of you! Dear readers, send Jennifer a dose of your rainbow thoughts and wishes!

Dear Migs,

Last week, my 7-year-old was on the football field happily holding hand with another little boy. After the game, as we were returning home, I asked him if he is gay. He said yes. I asked him if the neighbor girl was still his girlfriend. He said, “we’re just friends”. I explained that some people like boys and girls, and asked if he did. He replied, “I kind of like girls, but I’m gay”. I consider this a parenting win. I’m so proud that my child feels safe saying, “I’m gay”, without fear of judgement from his parents.


[Posted September 3, 2015] Hi all – just a short announcement – to the patrons, clients, and future clients of Bayleaf Spa: they are currently in the process of moving and the new place is being renovated now. Fortunately they still offer home/hotel service during this period. Text or call 09179117821.