
While I’m not necessarily a Hillary Clinton fan (I know her too little to say I’m a fan), I found something she said about the gay community pretty encouraging. Talking about the high rate of suicide among American gay teens, she said:
It’s such a serious problem… I’m well aware of the depression and anxiety, and frankly the high rate of suicide comparatively among gay teens. First, number one we’ve got to do everything we can to send a clear message that we value you. We value you as a person, you as a total person and we want you to feel accepted and respected in your community … There need to be more services. Sometimes it’s difficult in school and there’s not a lot of understanding and sensitivity. We’ve got to do more to help prepare school officials and, frankly, your peers in school. Just because somebody doesn’t understand doesn’t mean they should be a bully. They need to really be taught and guided to be more accepting and that is something that I feel very strongly about…We need more health services. We need more mentoring and assistance so that you don’t feel so alone…
We do not need to wait for the time when lives are lost because of gender-related violence. While I believe Pinoys are really more accepting, I also know that gender discrimination exists here, it is real. (In fact, this blog receives at least a couple of really insensitive gay bashing comments every week, e.g. “Sa impyerno ang bagsak ninyong mga bakla!”) May we all, including straight folks, learn to be more respectful of diversity, that regardless of gender and sexual preference people learn to live with each other side-by-side, if not lovingly, at least constructively.
Do you have ideas what we can do to practice this acceptance in our daily life? Do share your thoughts here.
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